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   "content" : "# En narsissistisk mor\n\nMoren favoriserer og er mer glad i ett av barna enn i de andre. Datteren har innsett at hun må ha narsissistiske trekk.ap\\-feature\\-arrow\n\n- [Frode ThuenProfessor i psykologi](http://aftenposten.no/av/frode-thuen-2)\n- [Åge PetersonIllustratør](http://aftenposten.no/av/aage-peterson-2)\n\n**Spørsmål:**\n\nJeg har en mor med narsissistiske trekk. Det føles feil å bruke en slik merkelapp, men det siste året har jeg tenkt at det er det som er tilfellet.\n\nLes hele saken med abonnement",
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Datteren har innsett at hun må ha narsissistiske trekk.<svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"svg-symbol hyperion-css-d1iv49\" height=\"32\" role=\"img\" theme=\"default\" viewbox=\"0 0 32 32\" width=\"32\"><title>ap-feature-arrow</title><use xlink:href=\"#ap-feature-arrow\"></use></svg></p><figure class=\"image fullWidthDesktop top stretch-image-asset-on-mobile landscape hyperion-css-1jg1x1o\" data-test-tag=\"image\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"high\" loading=\"eager\" sizes=\"(min-width: 380px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3f6ddfcf-9456-4875-a01e-04421adf892c?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1365&amp;w=2048&amp;s=e8e924cefa078d9feee4e2e61b8e7830beed2149\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3f6ddfcf-9456-4875-a01e-04421adf892c?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1365&amp;w=2048&amp;s=e8e924cefa078d9feee4e2e61b8e7830beed2149 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3f6ddfcf-9456-4875-a01e-04421adf892c?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=960&amp;w=1440&amp;s=099d6aae6e7ac98088294e0b034edd2bb09df818 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3f6ddfcf-9456-4875-a01e-04421adf892c?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=683&amp;w=1024&amp;s=a3fb05eea39c02bc4792f995f016159e806cbec3 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3f6ddfcf-9456-4875-a01e-04421adf892c?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=653&amp;w=980&amp;s=0935ddc8ac7972e813e83b848fd81cbc29c5d1ea 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3f6ddfcf-9456-4875-a01e-04421adf892c?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=520&amp;w=780&amp;s=d265a59b1ab918df543de128183e78d8197cbb06 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3f6ddfcf-9456-4875-a01e-04421adf892c?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=387&amp;w=580&amp;s=2c00d5ce2bbf51e4d5cb64c1ca861533289bfd73 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3f6ddfcf-9456-4875-a01e-04421adf892c?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=253&amp;w=380&amp;s=8d4c9cd9f11009fc3e7530323d166b21ecc6d99a 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3f6ddfcf-9456-4875-a01e-04421adf892c?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=133&amp;w=200&amp;s=86f2188ecc727e8041d50b272984076b5fa8ddfc 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3f6ddfcf-9456-4875-a01e-04421adf892c?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=67&amp;w=100&amp;s=871d39b8949811eb99acfa0b8c8ac58a7cb3a1f6 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1365\"></figure><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ifbnwh\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-zsib83\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-10c38m6\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Frode Thuen\" class=\"hyperion-css-1u7c6r7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/frode-thuen-2\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Frode Thuen\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1ftacoo\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Frode Thuen</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-c2jcik\">Professor i psykologi</div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-10c38m6\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Åge Peterson\" class=\"hyperion-css-1u7c6r7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/aage-peterson-2\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Åge Peterson\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1ftacoo\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Åge Peterson</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-c2jcik\">Illustratør</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 22.01.2026 20:39\" datetime=\"2026-01-22T19:39:24Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 22.01.2026 20:39</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\"><strong>Spørsmål: </strong></p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">Jeg har en mor med <span class=\"hyperion-css-4phst3\"><span class=\"word-explainer-text\" role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\">narsissistiske </span><span class=\"word-explanation\"><button aria-label=\"close\" class=\"word-explainer-close-button\" type=\"button\"><svg fill=\"none\" height=\"10\" stroke=\"#1E1E1C\" viewbox=\"0 0 10 10\" width=\"10\" xmlns=\"http://www.w3.org/2000/svg\"><path d=\"M1 1L9 9Z\" fill=\"#1E1E1C\"></path><path d=\"M1 9L9 1M1 1L9 9\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\"></path></svg></button><span class=\"word-explanation-title\" role=\"term\">narsissistiske </span><span class=\"word-explanation-content\" role=\"definition\">Narsissistisk personlighetsforstyrrelse er en personlighetsforstyrrelse kjennetegnet av et syklig behov for beundring, en tilsynelatende overdreven oppfatning av egen betydning og mangelfulle evner til empati. Dette er en psykiatrisk diagnose, mens det mer vanlige begrepet narsissisme brukes i en bredere sammenheng for å beskrive liknende personlighetstrekk som folk har, men som ikke er så fremtredende at de fører til funksjonsvikt (Store norske leksikon).</span></span></span>trekk. Det føles feil å bruke en slik merkelapp, men det siste året har jeg tenkt at det er det som er tilfellet.</p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-1xvjrme\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Hva skjer når hjernen aldri får hvile? Legen mener det vi tror er løsningen, ofte gjør problemet verre.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium news-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/sprek/i/rrgRQw/legen-ble-ofte-kontaktet-av-folk-med-soevntroebbel-hodepine-og-utmattelse-en-ting-hjalp-baade-henne-og-mange-pasienter\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1p49rcu\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/9192be8f-78eb-418c-9235-ed529c66b362?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=b94af7f2371d6b4106644fff5bf6e610bb6dc9f1\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/9192be8f-78eb-418c-9235-ed529c66b362?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=b94af7f2371d6b4106644fff5bf6e610bb6dc9f1 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/9192be8f-78eb-418c-9235-ed529c66b362?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=bcce54a9181349317e5e9ffc1a9d394a499a71b3 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/9192be8f-78eb-418c-9235-ed529c66b362?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=7eba34044d03a520e81b99b3533e815ecb2f163b 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/9192be8f-78eb-418c-9235-ed529c66b362?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=4f73446b217b299d550e075ea60032c62e52587b 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/9192be8f-78eb-418c-9235-ed529c66b362?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=0b99130fd60e4ee2aed2a918865fe58d2819ae32 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/9192be8f-78eb-418c-9235-ed529c66b362?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=065150268fc068660f0d771edf30ffe4fb748471 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/9192be8f-78eb-418c-9235-ed529c66b362?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=d0b47141cdac1efc52ead7a62a7742d2f12f8ebe 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/9192be8f-78eb-418c-9235-ed529c66b362?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=2431d9e3f4dc04440da9c2be4762ccbe2f7f45a3 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/9192be8f-78eb-418c-9235-ed529c66b362?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=2cc9a3d54a9607654856fea18dff4e78a6d7ceb1 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">SPREK<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-19T18:04:39Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-19T18:04:39Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">19. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Hva skjer når hjernen aldri får hvile? Legen mener det vi tror er løsningen, ofte gjør problemet verre.</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Hele barndommen ble Gard (29) behandlet som en med Aspergers syndrom. Så fikk han vite sannheten. \" class=\"imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/amagasinet/i/al5EG5/slik-endte-gard-i-en-spesialklasse-han-aldri-hadde-diagnose-for\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1zch5y\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e9578a8b-f455-4d1f-90b6-84eb054482ee?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=93c12c6b10c6ab9609df1a6db4512072adef3193\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e9578a8b-f455-4d1f-90b6-84eb054482ee?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=93c12c6b10c6ab9609df1a6db4512072adef3193 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e9578a8b-f455-4d1f-90b6-84eb054482ee?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=a7b33abddb2bde8016ec8023d93ac76274d2d4d4 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e9578a8b-f455-4d1f-90b6-84eb054482ee?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=6e118c3dd22d67f413805c420a8796a4ce066855 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e9578a8b-f455-4d1f-90b6-84eb054482ee?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=404ed8122a432030457414460353f5713deee753 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e9578a8b-f455-4d1f-90b6-84eb054482ee?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=ae59c4e756db578dbbcb6722a246e3d8b1c8a0b6 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e9578a8b-f455-4d1f-90b6-84eb054482ee?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=fa9348c36155dc969e699341735734064f2914d3 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e9578a8b-f455-4d1f-90b6-84eb054482ee?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=7d36b9878ceba426ff472bdf2c7bd2112147a667 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e9578a8b-f455-4d1f-90b6-84eb054482ee?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=4c081384a2e1610292e1f604c22c81d4a35164eb 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e9578a8b-f455-4d1f-90b6-84eb054482ee?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=8d963c7b93533c00fa505f8d0b3c2ab8ff2b1e36 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">A-MAGASINET<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-18T06:06:59Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-18T06:06:59Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">18. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Hele barndommen ble Gard (29) behandlet som en med Aspergers syndrom. 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   "source_updated_at" : "2026-01-19 12:24:40",
   "summary" : "Moren favoriserer og er mer glad i ett av barna enn i de andre. Datteren har innsett at hun må ha narsissistiske trekk.",
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   "title" : "Hun leste om kjennetegn på narsissistiske mødre. Da innså hun at hennes egen mor passet inn i beskrivelsen.",
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