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580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/727d9c4e-87da-43ff-81f5-6ceb691a5478?fit=crop&format=auto&h=253&w=380&s=d9b62587c2f85f38a171b1bedf45ec04a6a68d77 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/727d9c4e-87da-43ff-81f5-6ceb691a5478?fit=crop&format=auto&h=133&w=200&s=ea324376b66aa5463b3fb6b8fc02abcf321913cf 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/727d9c4e-87da-43ff-81f5-6ceb691a5478?fit=crop&format=auto&h=67&w=100&s=905d602b6b78e43f95b65452fa32a01aa24bc07d 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1366"><figcaption class="image-figcaption hyperion-css-1ksg4fz" data-test-tag="image:caption"><span aria-hidden="true" class="image-caption">– På samme måte som barna må ha respekt for at dere foreldre har deres eget liv, må også dere ha respekt for at barna lever på sin måte, skriver Line Marie Warholm i svar til leser.</span><span class="image-byline hyperion-css-161dy2i"> Foto: Martin Slottemo Lyngstad / Aftenposten</span></figcaption></figure><div class="paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu"><div 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380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=200&w=200&s=1edb23623e41a8e2c8b471d5b2b22a7ac15427bc 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=100&w=100&s=071f168ce2191643c144feae83d464975075e0be 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048"></div><div class="hyperion-css-0"><span class="byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf" data-test-tag="byline:author-name" data-testid="byline:author-name">Line Marie Warholm</span><div class="hyperion-css-lc8ynt">Psykologspesialist og spaltist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class="paywall hyperion-css-okzep" data-test-tag="timestamp"><div><time aria-label="Publisert: 13.01.2026 06:30" datetime="2026-01-13T05:30:04Z" itemprop="datePublished">Publisert: 13.01.2026 06:30</time></div></div><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic"><strong>Lurer du på noe om livet med barn? Send inn dine spørsmål her. Spørsmål gjengis eventuelt kun anonymt.</strong></p><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic"><strong>Spørsmål:</strong></p><div class="hyperion-css-1ykv2lv"><div class="hyperion-css-l9jsj3"><p class="hyperion-css-1qm9e9t">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class="hyperion-css-r7pgk3" type="button">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class="advertory-brandmetrics-survey" id="brandmetrics-survey"></div><div class="extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v" id="widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold"><h2 class="hyperion-css-r57xc5" data-test-tag="widget:title">Les også</h2><div class="bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi"><ol class="hyperion-css-1700tdj"><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="To av landets mest kjente kjøttelskere gjør helomvending: – Jeg er åpen for at vi har tatt fullstendig feil" class="imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/sprek/i/lnE32y/vi-skal-bli-kickass-veganere" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-e8wkrx" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" 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780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=302cd1a91aff83c1a1d21501a2b8e3354a3d1b8f 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=99b488d763f3cbd7b1b65a6beb30f68865943e20 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=bb5a6284f2cf1054ad1cfb58b95908b0df4a3e0b 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=3666440fb277c79502b8ec17b0c2e7570a2595ff 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">SPREK<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2026-01-11T10:54:44Z" datetime="2026-01-11T10:54:44Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">11. januar</time></div></div></div><div class="foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">To av landets mest kjente kjøttelskere gjør helomvending: – Jeg er åpen for at vi har tatt fullstendig feil</h2></div></div></a></li><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="Femdobling på ti år av folk som søker hjelp: For Christer tok festen aldri slutt" class="imagePosition-top medium news-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/norge/i/WvLb1j/flere-soeker-hjelp-for-kokainavhengighet-christer-levde-13-aar-i-rus" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=c40e6afa220ec7677f34c8ffb904792d3ae0739e" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=c40e6afa220ec7677f34c8ffb904792d3ae0739e 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=4c2b6b38f980b974fa15591bfdb7032679c04114 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=605b2d9dd30d7ea83a5a2aa356a6f5070f545549 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=0f2296d40f3cfb021c5db82793d4e3b7b8be10c4 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=ab370cf45443f0bb557807693d422d7b5f09df67 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=6cd82ef37a9b72443055db50d3b8475c1dbe3397 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=22f6e5bd715eac68a2e817d08a5d54d606e78fdd 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=f696d6dc39bdda02ace6e5dc206fbddc2a7f6c98 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=6910b0732018845723da8fca7cd850e46b756f25 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">NORGE<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2026-01-11T14:06:27Z" datetime="2026-01-11T14:06:27Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">11. januar</time></div></div></div><div class="foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">Femdobling på ti år av folk som søker hjelp: For 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780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/727d9c4e-87da-43ff-81f5-6ceb691a5478?fit=crop&format=auto&h=387&w=580&s=e30bb6600f57a6e58e79828e06e30fa989a52f70 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/727d9c4e-87da-43ff-81f5-6ceb691a5478?fit=crop&format=auto&h=253&w=380&s=d9b62587c2f85f38a171b1bedf45ec04a6a68d77 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/727d9c4e-87da-43ff-81f5-6ceb691a5478?fit=crop&format=auto&h=133&w=200&s=ea324376b66aa5463b3fb6b8fc02abcf321913cf 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/727d9c4e-87da-43ff-81f5-6ceb691a5478?fit=crop&format=auto&h=67&w=100&s=905d602b6b78e43f95b65452fa32a01aa24bc07d 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1366\"><figcaption class=\"image-figcaption hyperion-css-1ksg4fz\" data-test-tag=\"image:caption\"><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"image-caption\">– På samme måte som barna må ha respekt for at dere foreldre har deres eget liv, må også dere ha respekt for at barna lever på sin måte, skriver Line Marie Warholm i svar til leser.</span><span class=\"image-byline hyperion-css-161dy2i\"> Foto: Martin Slottemo Lyngstad / Aftenposten</span></figcaption></figure><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-qwp0ac\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-1772xtw\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-b8p8ys\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Line Marie Warholm\" class=\"hyperion-css-es295y\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/line-marie-warholm\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Line Marie Warholm\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-y7i40o\"><img alt=\"Line Marie Warholm\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" sizes=\"(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=961f7616bd8c909c89bcfd041cafb55128fe2bd3\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=961f7616bd8c909c89bcfd041cafb55128fe2bd3 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1440&w=1440&s=4f84e4736cef9ecc0e66d77ded972f78809bed03 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1024&w=1024&s=2caa83a97adb8275e2fb9bc039b7f48c8b01bab9 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=980&w=980&s=07dabfa18345d144b29df5ac741fe6d6d0708e61 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=780&w=780&s=97f3cb0afd1a298f1d2fce91ed4d73645ac50e53 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=580&w=580&s=a12ca5a8c982a60c00a993480290d4db790d9c66 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=380&w=380&s=a54a388d4bb1119f4448f62a1ac2b20a58abf44c 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=200&w=200&s=1edb23623e41a8e2c8b471d5b2b22a7ac15427bc 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=100&w=100&s=071f168ce2191643c144feae83d464975075e0be 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048\"></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Line Marie Warholm</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-lc8ynt\">Psykologspesialist og spaltist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 13.01.2026 06:30\" datetime=\"2026-01-13T05:30:04Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 13.01.2026 06:30</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\"><strong>Lurer du på noe om livet med barn? Send inn dine spørsmål her. Spørsmål gjengis eventuelt kun anonymt.</strong></p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\"><strong>Spørsmål:</strong></p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-r7pgk3\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"To av landets mest kjente kjøttelskere gjør helomvending: – Jeg er åpen for at vi har tatt fullstendig feil\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/sprek/i/lnE32y/vi-skal-bli-kickass-veganere\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-e8wkrx\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=ee74aa5c51d9bc9b300e768f441ba43580deca63\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=ee74aa5c51d9bc9b300e768f441ba43580deca63 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=15bfb7beb6ddcee30f4e7294987358c21e7c7b55 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=e0724363b1efedb873ad25efa4ff4dd8a4604231 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=d76560424e6d12af1fb5aa5f6a1cd8d2e45734fa 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=eeb7826c4cf2e071010e4a2d328eb39400a3ccb0 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=302cd1a91aff83c1a1d21501a2b8e3354a3d1b8f 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=99b488d763f3cbd7b1b65a6beb30f68865943e20 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=bb5a6284f2cf1054ad1cfb58b95908b0df4a3e0b 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=3666440fb277c79502b8ec17b0c2e7570a2595ff 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">SPREK<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-11T10:54:44Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-11T10:54:44Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">11. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">To av landets mest kjente kjøttelskere gjør helomvending: – Jeg er åpen for at vi har tatt fullstendig feil</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Femdobling på ti år av folk som søker hjelp: For Christer tok festen aldri slutt\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium news-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/norge/i/WvLb1j/flere-soeker-hjelp-for-kokainavhengighet-christer-levde-13-aar-i-rus\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=c40e6afa220ec7677f34c8ffb904792d3ae0739e\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=c40e6afa220ec7677f34c8ffb904792d3ae0739e 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=4c2b6b38f980b974fa15591bfdb7032679c04114 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=605b2d9dd30d7ea83a5a2aa356a6f5070f545549 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=0f2296d40f3cfb021c5db82793d4e3b7b8be10c4 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=ab370cf45443f0bb557807693d422d7b5f09df67 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=6cd82ef37a9b72443055db50d3b8475c1dbe3397 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=22f6e5bd715eac68a2e817d08a5d54d606e78fdd 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=f696d6dc39bdda02ace6e5dc206fbddc2a7f6c98 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=6910b0732018845723da8fca7cd850e46b756f25 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">NORGE<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-11T14:06:27Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-11T14:06:27Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">11. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Femdobling på ti år av folk som søker hjelp: For Christer tok festen aldri slutt</h2></div></div></a></li></ol></div></div><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard-wrapper__article advertory-aftenposten-paywall-ad\"><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard__article\" id=\"paywall_ad_board\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1q3hux1\"><button aria-label=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" class=\"hyperion-css-1t4sy44\" title=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" type=\"button\">Tilbake til forsiden</button></div></div><div></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1927kqg\" id=\"superright-side\"></div></div><footer class=\"hyperion-css-1ykq07t\" role=\"contentinfo\"><div class=\"container\"><div class=\"links\"><ul><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/tips\">Tips oss</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" 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Leseren blir sliten av stadige besøk av barnas kjærester. Er det lov å si nei?
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Line Marie Warholm svarer.
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Bør barnas kjærester alltid være velkomne?
Leseren er sliten og slapper ikke helt av med hyppige besøk.
Lurer du på noe om livet med barn? Send inn dine spørsmål her. Spørsmål gjengis eventuelt kun anonymt.
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380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=200&w=200&s=1edb23623e41a8e2c8b471d5b2b22a7ac15427bc 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=100&w=100&s=071f168ce2191643c144feae83d464975075e0be 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048"></div><div class="hyperion-css-0"><span class="byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf" data-test-tag="byline:author-name" data-testid="byline:author-name">Line Marie Warholm</span><div class="hyperion-css-lc8ynt">Psykologspesialist og spaltist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class="paywall hyperion-css-okzep" data-test-tag="timestamp"><div><time aria-label="Publisert: 13.01.2026 06:30" datetime="2026-01-13T05:30:04Z" itemprop="datePublished">Publisert: 13.01.2026 06:30</time></div></div><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic"><strong>Lurer du på noe om livet med barn? Send inn dine spørsmål her. Spørsmål gjengis eventuelt kun anonymt.</strong></p><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic"><strong>Spørsmål:</strong></p><div class="hyperion-css-1ykv2lv"><div class="hyperion-css-l9jsj3"><p class="hyperion-css-1qm9e9t">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class="hyperion-css-r7pgk3" type="button">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class="advertory-brandmetrics-survey" id="brandmetrics-survey"></div><div class="extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v" id="widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold"><h2 class="hyperion-css-r57xc5" data-test-tag="widget:title">Les også</h2><div class="bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi"><ol class="hyperion-css-1700tdj"><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="To av landets mest kjente kjøttelskere gjør helomvending: – Jeg er åpen for at vi har tatt fullstendig feil" class="imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/sprek/i/lnE32y/vi-skal-bli-kickass-veganere" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-e8wkrx" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=ee74aa5c51d9bc9b300e768f441ba43580deca63" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=ee74aa5c51d9bc9b300e768f441ba43580deca63 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=15bfb7beb6ddcee30f4e7294987358c21e7c7b55 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=e0724363b1efedb873ad25efa4ff4dd8a4604231 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=d76560424e6d12af1fb5aa5f6a1cd8d2e45734fa 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=eeb7826c4cf2e071010e4a2d328eb39400a3ccb0 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=302cd1a91aff83c1a1d21501a2b8e3354a3d1b8f 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=99b488d763f3cbd7b1b65a6beb30f68865943e20 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=bb5a6284f2cf1054ad1cfb58b95908b0df4a3e0b 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=3666440fb277c79502b8ec17b0c2e7570a2595ff 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">SPREK<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2026-01-11T10:54:44Z" datetime="2026-01-11T10:54:44Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">11. januar</time></div></div></div><div class="foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">To av landets mest kjente kjøttelskere gjør helomvending: – Jeg er åpen for at vi har tatt fullstendig feil</h2></div></div></a></li><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="Femdobling på ti år av folk som søker hjelp: For Christer tok festen aldri slutt" class="imagePosition-top medium news-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/norge/i/WvLb1j/flere-soeker-hjelp-for-kokainavhengighet-christer-levde-13-aar-i-rus" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=c40e6afa220ec7677f34c8ffb904792d3ae0739e" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=c40e6afa220ec7677f34c8ffb904792d3ae0739e 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=4c2b6b38f980b974fa15591bfdb7032679c04114 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=605b2d9dd30d7ea83a5a2aa356a6f5070f545549 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=0f2296d40f3cfb021c5db82793d4e3b7b8be10c4 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=ab370cf45443f0bb557807693d422d7b5f09df67 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=6cd82ef37a9b72443055db50d3b8475c1dbe3397 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=22f6e5bd715eac68a2e817d08a5d54d606e78fdd 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=f696d6dc39bdda02ace6e5dc206fbddc2a7f6c98 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=6910b0732018845723da8fca7cd850e46b756f25 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">NORGE<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2026-01-11T14:06:27Z" datetime="2026-01-11T14:06:27Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">11. januar</time></div></div></div><div class="foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">Femdobling på ti år av folk som søker hjelp: For 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pubdate=\"pubdate\">11. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">To av landets mest kjente kjøttelskere gjør helomvending: – Jeg er åpen for at vi har tatt fullstendig feil</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Femdobling på ti år av folk som søker hjelp: For Christer tok festen aldri slutt\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium news-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/norge/i/WvLb1j/flere-soeker-hjelp-for-kokainavhengighet-christer-levde-13-aar-i-rus\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" 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pubdate=\"pubdate\">11. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Femdobling på ti år av folk som søker hjelp: For Christer tok festen aldri slutt</h2></div></div></a></li></ol></div></div><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard-wrapper__article advertory-aftenposten-paywall-ad\"><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard__article\" id=\"paywall_ad_board\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1q3hux1\"><button aria-label=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" class=\"hyperion-css-1t4sy44\" title=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" type=\"button\">Tilbake til forsiden</button></div></div><div></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1927kqg\" id=\"superright-side\"></div></div><footer class=\"hyperion-css-1ykq07t\" role=\"contentinfo\"><div class=\"container\"><div class=\"links\"><ul><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/tips\">Tips oss</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" 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Leseren blir sliten av stadige besøk av barnas kjærester. Er det lov å si nei?
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Bør barnas kjærester alltid være velkomne?
Leseren er sliten og slapper ikke helt av med hyppige besøk.
Lurer du på noe om livet med barn? Send inn dine spørsmål her. Spørsmål gjengis eventuelt kun anonymt.
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hyperion-css-19g80lb" data-test-tag="headline">Bør barnas kjærester alltid være velkomne?</h1><p class="extendedContent hyperion-css-1t9vqrb" data-test-tag="lead-text">Leseren er sliten og slapper ikke helt av med hyppige besøk.</p><figure class="image fullWidthDesktop top stretch-image-asset-on-mobile landscape hyperion-css-1jg1x1o" data-test-tag="image"><img alt="– På samme måte som barna må ha respekt for at dere foreldre har deres eget liv, må også dere ha respekt for at barna lever på sin måte, skriver Line Marie Warholm i svar til leser." class="image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="high" loading="eager" sizes="(min-width: 380px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/727d9c4e-87da-43ff-81f5-6ceb691a5478?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1366&w=2048&s=53b5151fa514e2ecfb26ff3c9974591c5df55287" 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580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/727d9c4e-87da-43ff-81f5-6ceb691a5478?fit=crop&format=auto&h=253&w=380&s=d9b62587c2f85f38a171b1bedf45ec04a6a68d77 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/727d9c4e-87da-43ff-81f5-6ceb691a5478?fit=crop&format=auto&h=133&w=200&s=ea324376b66aa5463b3fb6b8fc02abcf321913cf 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/727d9c4e-87da-43ff-81f5-6ceb691a5478?fit=crop&format=auto&h=67&w=100&s=905d602b6b78e43f95b65452fa32a01aa24bc07d 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1366"><figcaption class="image-figcaption hyperion-css-1ksg4fz" data-test-tag="image:caption"><span aria-hidden="true" class="image-caption">– På samme måte som barna må ha respekt for at dere foreldre har deres eget liv, må også dere ha respekt for at barna lever på sin måte, skriver Line Marie Warholm i svar til leser.</span><span class="image-byline hyperion-css-161dy2i"> Foto: Martin Slottemo Lyngstad / Aftenposten</span></figcaption></figure><div class="paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu"><div 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380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=200&w=200&s=1edb23623e41a8e2c8b471d5b2b22a7ac15427bc 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=100&w=100&s=071f168ce2191643c144feae83d464975075e0be 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048"></div><div class="hyperion-css-0"><span class="byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf" data-test-tag="byline:author-name" data-testid="byline:author-name">Line Marie Warholm</span><div class="hyperion-css-lc8ynt">Psykologspesialist og spaltist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class="paywall hyperion-css-okzep" data-test-tag="timestamp"><div><time aria-label="Publisert: 13.01.2026 06:30" datetime="2026-01-13T05:30:04Z" itemprop="datePublished">Publisert: 13.01.2026 06:30</time></div></div><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic"><strong>Lurer du på noe om livet med barn? 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januar</time></div></div></div><div class="foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">To av landets mest kjente kjøttelskere gjør helomvending: – Jeg er åpen for at vi har tatt fullstendig feil</h2></div></div></a></li><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="Femdobling på ti år av folk som søker hjelp: For Christer tok festen aldri slutt" class="imagePosition-top medium news-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/norge/i/WvLb1j/flere-soeker-hjelp-for-kokainavhengighet-christer-levde-13-aar-i-rus" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=c40e6afa220ec7677f34c8ffb904792d3ae0739e" 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780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/727d9c4e-87da-43ff-81f5-6ceb691a5478?fit=crop&format=auto&h=387&w=580&s=e30bb6600f57a6e58e79828e06e30fa989a52f70 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/727d9c4e-87da-43ff-81f5-6ceb691a5478?fit=crop&format=auto&h=253&w=380&s=d9b62587c2f85f38a171b1bedf45ec04a6a68d77 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/727d9c4e-87da-43ff-81f5-6ceb691a5478?fit=crop&format=auto&h=133&w=200&s=ea324376b66aa5463b3fb6b8fc02abcf321913cf 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/727d9c4e-87da-43ff-81f5-6ceb691a5478?fit=crop&format=auto&h=67&w=100&s=905d602b6b78e43f95b65452fa32a01aa24bc07d 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1366\"><figcaption class=\"image-figcaption hyperion-css-1ksg4fz\" data-test-tag=\"image:caption\"><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"image-caption\">– På samme måte som barna må ha respekt for at dere foreldre har deres eget liv, må også dere ha respekt for at barna lever på sin måte, skriver Line Marie Warholm i svar til leser.</span><span class=\"image-byline hyperion-css-161dy2i\"> Foto: Martin Slottemo Lyngstad / Aftenposten</span></figcaption></figure><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-qwp0ac\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-1772xtw\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-b8p8ys\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Line Marie Warholm\" class=\"hyperion-css-es295y\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/line-marie-warholm\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Line Marie Warholm\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-y7i40o\"><img alt=\"Line Marie Warholm\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" sizes=\"(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=961f7616bd8c909c89bcfd041cafb55128fe2bd3\" 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580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=380&w=380&s=a54a388d4bb1119f4448f62a1ac2b20a58abf44c 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=200&w=200&s=1edb23623e41a8e2c8b471d5b2b22a7ac15427bc 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=100&w=100&s=071f168ce2191643c144feae83d464975075e0be 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048\"></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Line Marie Warholm</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-lc8ynt\">Psykologspesialist og spaltist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 13.01.2026 06:30\" datetime=\"2026-01-13T05:30:04Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 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src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=ee74aa5c51d9bc9b300e768f441ba43580deca63\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=ee74aa5c51d9bc9b300e768f441ba43580deca63 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=15bfb7beb6ddcee30f4e7294987358c21e7c7b55 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=e0724363b1efedb873ad25efa4ff4dd8a4604231 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=d76560424e6d12af1fb5aa5f6a1cd8d2e45734fa 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=eeb7826c4cf2e071010e4a2d328eb39400a3ccb0 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=302cd1a91aff83c1a1d21501a2b8e3354a3d1b8f 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=99b488d763f3cbd7b1b65a6beb30f68865943e20 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=bb5a6284f2cf1054ad1cfb58b95908b0df4a3e0b 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5c9df85f-c749-4670-9a7e-b043f27c39a1?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=3666440fb277c79502b8ec17b0c2e7570a2595ff 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">SPREK<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-11T10:54:44Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-11T10:54:44Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">11. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">To av landets mest kjente kjøttelskere gjør helomvending: – Jeg er åpen for at vi har tatt fullstendig feil</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Femdobling på ti år av folk som søker hjelp: For Christer tok festen aldri slutt\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium news-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/norge/i/WvLb1j/flere-soeker-hjelp-for-kokainavhengighet-christer-levde-13-aar-i-rus\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=c40e6afa220ec7677f34c8ffb904792d3ae0739e\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=c40e6afa220ec7677f34c8ffb904792d3ae0739e 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=4c2b6b38f980b974fa15591bfdb7032679c04114 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=605b2d9dd30d7ea83a5a2aa356a6f5070f545549 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=0f2296d40f3cfb021c5db82793d4e3b7b8be10c4 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=ab370cf45443f0bb557807693d422d7b5f09df67 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=6cd82ef37a9b72443055db50d3b8475c1dbe3397 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=22f6e5bd715eac68a2e817d08a5d54d606e78fdd 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=f696d6dc39bdda02ace6e5dc206fbddc2a7f6c98 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/41a6a176-6ef3-466c-a86c-0841fc34469e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=6910b0732018845723da8fca7cd850e46b756f25 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">NORGE<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-11T14:06:27Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-11T14:06:27Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">11. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Femdobling på ti år av folk som søker hjelp: For Christer tok festen aldri slutt</h2></div></div></a></li></ol></div></div><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard-wrapper__article advertory-aftenposten-paywall-ad\"><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard__article\" id=\"paywall_ad_board\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1q3hux1\"><button aria-label=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" class=\"hyperion-css-1t4sy44\" title=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" type=\"button\">Tilbake til forsiden</button></div></div><div></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1927kqg\" id=\"superright-side\"></div></div><footer class=\"hyperion-css-1ykq07t\" role=\"contentinfo\"><div class=\"container\"><div class=\"links\"><ul><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/tips\">Tips oss</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" 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"title" : "Leseren blir sliten av stadige besøk av barnas kjærester. Er det lov å si nei?",
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