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   "content" : "# Hun forteller om stygge krangler og handlinger som nærmer seg vold. Her er psykologens råd.\n\nMor er kreftsyk og går på cellegift. Men sykdommen er ikke den eneste krisen som har rammet familien.ap\\-feature\\-arrow\n\n- Hedvig Montgomery\n- [Emily EldridgeIllustratør](http://aftenposten.no/av/emily-eldridge)\n\nEn vever kvinne uten hår kommer inn på kontoret mitt. Hun er rett i ryggen og varm i blikket. Det er en god uke, forteller hun. Men under en intensiv cellegiftkur er langt fra alle uker gode. Og hjemme har hun tre barn i barnehage\\- og barneskolealder.\n\n«Det siste halve året har vært helt overveldende», sier Cornelia.\n\nLes hele saken med abonnement",
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Her er psykologens råd.</h1><p class=\"intro-lead\">Mor er kreftsyk og går på cellegift. Men sykdommen er ikke den eneste krisen som har rammet familien.<svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"svg-symbol hyperion-css-d1iv49\" height=\"32\" role=\"img\" theme=\"default\" viewbox=\"0 0 32 32\" width=\"32\"><title>ap-feature-arrow</title><use xlink:href=\"#ap-feature-arrow\"></use></svg></p></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ifbnwh\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-zsib83\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-10c38m6\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-10c38m6\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1ftacoo\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Hedvig Montgomery</span></div></div></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-10c38m6\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Emily Eldridge\" class=\"hyperion-css-1u7c6r7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/emily-eldridge\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Emily Eldridge\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1ftacoo\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Emily Eldridge</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-c2jcik\">Illustratør</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 07.01.2026 22:23 | Oppdatert: 08.01.2026 09:46\" datetime=\"2026-01-07T21:23:45Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 07.01.2026 22:23 | Oppdatert: 08.01.2026 09:46</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">En vever kvinne uten hår kommer inn på kontoret mitt. Hun er rett i ryggen og varm i blikket. Det er en god uke, forteller hun. Men under en intensiv cellegiftkur er langt fra alle uker gode. Og hjemme har hun tre barn i barnehage- og barneskolealder.</p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">«Det siste halve året har vært helt overveldende», sier Cornelia.</p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-1xvjrme\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Hun har forsket på hjertesykdom i åtte år. Tre myter om tran, alkohol og fett irriterer henne.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium news-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/sprek/i/lnAd79/hun-har-forsket-paa-hjertesykdom-i-aatte-aar-seks-grep-kan-redusere-risikoen-betydelig\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-6u451o\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/18d24a37-b3f1-4dc1-a8b7-054865d5dfe5?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=df85fe93810d1d002ca795efbf965c25589a0582\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/18d24a37-b3f1-4dc1-a8b7-054865d5dfe5?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=df85fe93810d1d002ca795efbf965c25589a0582 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/18d24a37-b3f1-4dc1-a8b7-054865d5dfe5?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=c68e74379c1c320e0ae83fa0ae2dca4001705711 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/18d24a37-b3f1-4dc1-a8b7-054865d5dfe5?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=64509c2f28d068e3b2d697464a4e7c9f0147a01d 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/18d24a37-b3f1-4dc1-a8b7-054865d5dfe5?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=ab8e9ea6c59218a9e0f987f2838e9fe935b44399 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/18d24a37-b3f1-4dc1-a8b7-054865d5dfe5?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=324623b00285012869cf6f5788a7c1afceb893b7 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/18d24a37-b3f1-4dc1-a8b7-054865d5dfe5?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=82023c3f73ee775e1dc1bf6e9e3815995544532c 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/18d24a37-b3f1-4dc1-a8b7-054865d5dfe5?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=2276ae490399721f78e830ee5537867dc9c4e1f5 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/18d24a37-b3f1-4dc1-a8b7-054865d5dfe5?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=da0e671e57a9910ddaae3071ceeaa6ebd85c144e 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/18d24a37-b3f1-4dc1-a8b7-054865d5dfe5?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=dfaafaf97faacf24c191e1c99fa8790c721fffea 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">SPREK<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-06T19:27:51Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-06T19:27:51Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">6. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Hun har forsket på hjertesykdom i åtte år. Tre myter om tran, alkohol og fett irriterer henne.</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Barnet vårt har den mest dødelige psykiske lidelsen blant barn og unge. Likevel opplever vi å stå på stedet hvil. \" class=\"imagePosition-top medium opinion-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/meninger/kronikk/i/m0RRRE/anonym-far-til-alvorlig-sykt-barn-boer-vi-avvikle-bup\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1l28l8l\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/820e4596-1cca-41ba-bdd3-7c6c443eef35?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=6c4480283e83869854a683dd6cae0cd3f979cf09\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/820e4596-1cca-41ba-bdd3-7c6c443eef35?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=6c4480283e83869854a683dd6cae0cd3f979cf09 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/820e4596-1cca-41ba-bdd3-7c6c443eef35?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=2c4bda46ab71a26ae72a46250ff5f1ef6d715c85 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/820e4596-1cca-41ba-bdd3-7c6c443eef35?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=f86e23cab8448748f8da11e0cf1ac707e0e227fe 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/820e4596-1cca-41ba-bdd3-7c6c443eef35?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=9aa87a5992957833bddd2d7b69a607e7ea8fdd60 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/820e4596-1cca-41ba-bdd3-7c6c443eef35?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=1bf6a87ebce0ee1f82b710cc2c7a902db89f92a0 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/820e4596-1cca-41ba-bdd3-7c6c443eef35?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=db25a442107dc77e0775582559d1d569d783f596 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/820e4596-1cca-41ba-bdd3-7c6c443eef35?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=3e1855c66ba770851766d87fb1060202a8698df9 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/820e4596-1cca-41ba-bdd3-7c6c443eef35?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=639514239fd232479844da21fc8b91c14a4f1988 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/820e4596-1cca-41ba-bdd3-7c6c443eef35?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=c6689c8efe6ff06d3f606c33f7d21d8ddc17e364 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">KRONIKK<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-05T17:59:37Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-05T17:59:37Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">5. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Barnet vårt har den mest dødelige psykiske lidelsen blant barn og unge. 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   "summary" : "Mor er kreftsyk og går på cellegift. Men sykdommen er ikke den eneste krisen som har rammet familien.",
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   "title" : "Mor er kreftsyk og parforholdet skranter. Hvordan kan barna skjermes? Her er psykologens råd.",
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