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   "content" : "# Du kan snakke med barna om familiekonflikten, men ikke tving dem til å velge side\n\nDet er viktigere å vise barna at man kan snakke om konflikter, enn å si de «riktige» tingene.\n\n- [Line Marie WarholmPsykologspesialist og spaltist](http://aftenposten.no/av/line-marie-warholm)\n\n**Lurer du på noe om livet med barn? Send inn dine spørsmål her. Spørsmål gjengis eventuelt kun anonymt.**\n\n**Spørsmål:**\n\nLes hele saken med abonnement",
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si de «riktige» tingene.</p><figure class=\"image fullWidthDesktop top stretch-image-asset-on-mobile landscape hyperion-css-1jg1x1o\" data-test-tag=\"image\"><img alt=\"Spørsmålet du kanskje etter hvert må forholde deg til, er: Hvorfor kan ikke barna ha kontakt med besteforeldrene sine uten deg?  svarer Line Marie Warhom til leser.\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"high\" loading=\"eager\" sizes=\"(min-width: 380px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1366&amp;w=2048&amp;s=24dad7f31ccfc309afb9ed2ec713f67b8f87d8d4\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1366&amp;w=2048&amp;s=24dad7f31ccfc309afb9ed2ec713f67b8f87d8d4 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=960&amp;w=1440&amp;s=7ea371e935113ba0a3f5590ead9c35f1b513eb38 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=683&amp;w=1024&amp;s=8cb2a6d1798a90f77274bd995625807c20d60262 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=653&amp;w=980&amp;s=2ff1fd15a49bd8c60cbd7c348fc2608c65e7e9d9 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=520&amp;w=780&amp;s=f9e5eea7e25ff422a0ee6224b9ce1c496127b58c 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=387&amp;w=580&amp;s=01395235958a9bcb1f112bcb46337fb1003da231 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=253&amp;w=380&amp;s=1895567665d70c6703246f44de22e26f68d70687 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=133&amp;w=200&amp;s=d067cc54d610e396dc7b19b8378deb4914d0721e 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=67&amp;w=100&amp;s=a5ef5f301e8e069d088ef58daf8f427ed9ffe99a 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1366\"><figcaption class=\"image-figcaption hyperion-css-1ksg4fz\" data-test-tag=\"image:caption\"><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"image-caption\">Spørsmålet du kanskje etter hvert må forholde deg til, er: Hvorfor kan ikke barna ha kontakt med besteforeldrene sine uten deg?  svarer Line Marie Warhom til leser.</span><span class=\"image-byline hyperion-css-161dy2i\"> Foto: Signe Dons / Aftenposten</span></figcaption></figure><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-qwp0ac\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-1772xtw\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-b8p8ys\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Line Marie Warholm\" class=\"hyperion-css-es295y\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/line-marie-warholm\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Line Marie Warholm\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-y7i40o\"><img alt=\"Line Marie Warholm\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" sizes=\"(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=961f7616bd8c909c89bcfd041cafb55128fe2bd3\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=961f7616bd8c909c89bcfd041cafb55128fe2bd3 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1440&amp;w=1440&amp;s=4f84e4736cef9ecc0e66d77ded972f78809bed03 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1024&amp;w=1024&amp;s=2caa83a97adb8275e2fb9bc039b7f48c8b01bab9 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=980&amp;w=980&amp;s=07dabfa18345d144b29df5ac741fe6d6d0708e61 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=780&amp;w=780&amp;s=97f3cb0afd1a298f1d2fce91ed4d73645ac50e53 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=580&amp;w=580&amp;s=a12ca5a8c982a60c00a993480290d4db790d9c66 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=380&amp;w=380&amp;s=a54a388d4bb1119f4448f62a1ac2b20a58abf44c 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=200&amp;w=200&amp;s=1edb23623e41a8e2c8b471d5b2b22a7ac15427bc 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=100&amp;w=100&amp;s=071f168ce2191643c144feae83d464975075e0be 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048\"></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Line Marie Warholm</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-lc8ynt\">Psykologspesialist og spaltist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 06.01.2026 06:30\" datetime=\"2026-01-06T05:30:04Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 06.01.2026 06:30</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\"><strong>Lurer du på noe om livet med barn? Send inn dine spørsmål her. Spørsmål gjengis eventuelt kun anonymt.</strong></p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\"><strong>Spørsmål:</strong></p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-r7pgk3\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Tre år etter psykologens klare tale giftet Linnéa Myhre seg med Emil Gukild  \" class=\"imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/amagasinet/i/K83L7G/linnea-myhre-om-sitt-nye-liv\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1152&amp;w=1536&amp;s=2abcdfb90b17cf84e5c7fe10d27b533b7746be6f\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1152&amp;w=1536&amp;s=2abcdfb90b17cf84e5c7fe10d27b533b7746be6f 1536w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=26ebbb029b051ea9f48a393cff43d4577996304e 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=43d543f2bb29bd8c475ed2e4b7fb6279feb89e09 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=b291733639b9a6734c0604209f2cf4dbe576a970 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=a07d0961ddc0dcdc1485e2176cbd862208196a44 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=e00c41c785d088d2f071b77e1445b4bc34daef38 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=7c6a14de36506270dfb7fcebc328cdf970eac378 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=ecd58dffde5adcc10dddc1d106664ed76a716b45 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=b5f88bd8418fa8a73b5b4b9bc8d401db19905f70 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1536 / 1152\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">A-MAGASINET<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-03T19:30:40Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-03T19:30:40Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">3. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Tre år etter psykologens klare tale giftet Linnéa Myhre seg med Emil Gukild  </h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Sier du dette til eldstemann? – Noe av det verste barn får høre, sier psykologen.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/foreldreliv/i/ArdgLj/soesken-tett-i-alder-hedvig-montgomery-gir-raad\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1q550f1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=b39e9adb291e0f858ec6ec59b0b083dd2686e171\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=b39e9adb291e0f858ec6ec59b0b083dd2686e171 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=47cb4eb1d7dfcaaeb4617f6a50f71c89abb88524 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=d9523af3d601802475b482098ae94c0c178eb7af 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=b0f8cbd9d64892a52efde3ee6e7323bed383fadb 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=af2a88b896033ecf264a066f1ea95030b92f1ac2 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=eb1424a57b0ed13f8607ac80bb068083031ff613 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=e4bef769037afa918542434e6b1b3ce19ed17c61 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=6ef1455a58e78fad58f55a25a9acfede3057f1ae 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=63493f565fa56b6d5aac788136935a895d333d8c 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">FORELDRELIV<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-02T10:07:36Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-02T10:07:36Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">2. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Sier du dette til eldstemann? – Noe av det verste barn får høre, sier psykologen.</h2></div></div></a></li></ol></div></div><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard-wrapper__article advertory-aftenposten-paywall-ad\"><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard__article\" id=\"paywall_ad_board\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1q3hux1\"><button aria-label=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" class=\"hyperion-css-1t4sy44\" title=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" type=\"button\">Tilbake til forsiden</button></div></div><div></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1927kqg\" id=\"superright-side\"></div></div><footer class=\"hyperion-css-1ykq07t\" role=\"contentinfo\"><div class=\"container\"><div class=\"links\"><ul><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/tips\">Tips oss</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/meninger/debatt/i/Ooyk/informasjon-om-debattinnlegg-og-kronikker-til-aftenposten\">Send inn debattinnlegg</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/rettelser\">Endringslogg</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/slik-jobber-vi-i-aftenposten\">Slik jobber vi i Aftenposten</a></li></ul><ul><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://kundeservice.aftenposten.no/s/\">Kundeservice</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://schibstedforbusiness.com/no/merkevarer/aftenposten/\">Annonsere i Aftenposten</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://info.privacy.schibsted.com/no/schibsted-norge-personvernerklaering/\">Personvernpolicy</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://info.privacy.schibsted.com/no/schibsted-norge-personvernerklaering/\">Informasjonskapsler</a></li></ul><div class=\"logos\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-15fvjg8\" data-loaded=\"true\"><noscript><img alt=\"aftenposten-logo\" src=\"https://cdn.aftenposten.no/ap/images/footer/circular-ap-logo.png\" width=\"\"></noscript></div><a aria-label=\"Lenke til Redaktørplakaten etiske og juridiske rammeverk på Redaktor.no\" class=\"hyperion-css-hkgcqn\" href=\"https://www.redaktor.no/ressurser/etiske-og-juridiske-rammeverk/redaktorplakaten\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><noscript><img alt=\"Ansvarsmerket\" src=\"https://cdn.aftenposten.no/ap/images/footer/ansvarsmerket.svg\"></noscript></a></div></div><div class=\"info\"><ul><li><span>Sjefredaktør og adm. direktør: </span><span class=\"name\">Trine Eilertsen</span></li><li><span>Nyhetsredaktør: </span><span class=\"name\">Tone Tveøy Strøm-Gundersen</span></li><li><span>Politisk redaktør: </span><span class=\"name\">Kjetil B. 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   "content" : "# Du kan snakke med barna om familiekonflikten, men ikke tving dem til å velge side\n\nDet er viktigere å vise barna at man kan snakke om konflikter, enn å si de «riktige» tingene.\n\n- [Line Marie WarholmPsykologspesialist og spaltist](http://aftenposten.no/av/line-marie-warholm)\n\n**Lurer du på noe om livet med barn? Send inn dine spørsmål her. Spørsmål gjengis eventuelt kun anonymt.**\n\n**Spørsmål:**\n\nLes hele saken med abonnement",
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si de «riktige» tingene.</p><figure class=\"image fullWidthDesktop top stretch-image-asset-on-mobile landscape hyperion-css-1jg1x1o\" data-test-tag=\"image\"><img alt=\"Spørsmålet du kanskje etter hvert må forholde deg til, er: Hvorfor kan ikke barna ha kontakt med besteforeldrene sine uten deg?  svarer Line Marie Warhom til leser.\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"high\" loading=\"eager\" sizes=\"(min-width: 380px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1366&amp;w=2048&amp;s=24dad7f31ccfc309afb9ed2ec713f67b8f87d8d4\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1366&amp;w=2048&amp;s=24dad7f31ccfc309afb9ed2ec713f67b8f87d8d4 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=960&amp;w=1440&amp;s=7ea371e935113ba0a3f5590ead9c35f1b513eb38 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=683&amp;w=1024&amp;s=8cb2a6d1798a90f77274bd995625807c20d60262 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=653&amp;w=980&amp;s=2ff1fd15a49bd8c60cbd7c348fc2608c65e7e9d9 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=520&amp;w=780&amp;s=f9e5eea7e25ff422a0ee6224b9ce1c496127b58c 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=387&amp;w=580&amp;s=01395235958a9bcb1f112bcb46337fb1003da231 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=253&amp;w=380&amp;s=1895567665d70c6703246f44de22e26f68d70687 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=133&amp;w=200&amp;s=d067cc54d610e396dc7b19b8378deb4914d0721e 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/89f7d620-5dd3-46da-877d-efbba5a5a92b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=67&amp;w=100&amp;s=a5ef5f301e8e069d088ef58daf8f427ed9ffe99a 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1366\"><figcaption class=\"image-figcaption hyperion-css-1ksg4fz\" data-test-tag=\"image:caption\"><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"image-caption\">Spørsmålet du kanskje etter hvert må forholde deg til, er: Hvorfor kan ikke barna ha kontakt med besteforeldrene sine uten deg?  svarer Line Marie Warhom til leser.</span><span class=\"image-byline hyperion-css-161dy2i\"> Foto: Signe Dons / Aftenposten</span></figcaption></figure><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-qwp0ac\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-1772xtw\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-b8p8ys\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Line Marie Warholm\" class=\"hyperion-css-es295y\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/line-marie-warholm\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Line Marie Warholm\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-y7i40o\"><img alt=\"Line Marie Warholm\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" sizes=\"(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=961f7616bd8c909c89bcfd041cafb55128fe2bd3\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=961f7616bd8c909c89bcfd041cafb55128fe2bd3 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1440&amp;w=1440&amp;s=4f84e4736cef9ecc0e66d77ded972f78809bed03 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1024&amp;w=1024&amp;s=2caa83a97adb8275e2fb9bc039b7f48c8b01bab9 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=980&amp;w=980&amp;s=07dabfa18345d144b29df5ac741fe6d6d0708e61 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=780&amp;w=780&amp;s=97f3cb0afd1a298f1d2fce91ed4d73645ac50e53 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=580&amp;w=580&amp;s=a12ca5a8c982a60c00a993480290d4db790d9c66 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=380&amp;w=380&amp;s=a54a388d4bb1119f4448f62a1ac2b20a58abf44c 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=200&amp;w=200&amp;s=1edb23623e41a8e2c8b471d5b2b22a7ac15427bc 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=100&amp;w=100&amp;s=071f168ce2191643c144feae83d464975075e0be 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048\"></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Line Marie Warholm</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-lc8ynt\">Psykologspesialist og spaltist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 06.01.2026 06:30\" datetime=\"2026-01-06T05:30:04Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 06.01.2026 06:30</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\"><strong>Lurer du på noe om livet med barn? Send inn dine spørsmål her. Spørsmål gjengis eventuelt kun anonymt.</strong></p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\"><strong>Spørsmål:</strong></p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-r7pgk3\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Tre år etter psykologens klare tale giftet Linnéa Myhre seg med Emil Gukild  \" class=\"imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/amagasinet/i/K83L7G/linnea-myhre-om-sitt-nye-liv\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1152&amp;w=1536&amp;s=2abcdfb90b17cf84e5c7fe10d27b533b7746be6f\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1152&amp;w=1536&amp;s=2abcdfb90b17cf84e5c7fe10d27b533b7746be6f 1536w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=26ebbb029b051ea9f48a393cff43d4577996304e 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=43d543f2bb29bd8c475ed2e4b7fb6279feb89e09 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=b291733639b9a6734c0604209f2cf4dbe576a970 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=a07d0961ddc0dcdc1485e2176cbd862208196a44 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=e00c41c785d088d2f071b77e1445b4bc34daef38 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=7c6a14de36506270dfb7fcebc328cdf970eac378 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=ecd58dffde5adcc10dddc1d106664ed76a716b45 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=b5f88bd8418fa8a73b5b4b9bc8d401db19905f70 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1536 / 1152\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">A-MAGASINET<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-03T19:30:40Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-03T19:30:40Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">3. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Tre år etter psykologens klare tale giftet Linnéa Myhre seg med Emil Gukild  </h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Sier du dette til eldstemann? – Noe av det verste barn får høre, sier psykologen.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/foreldreliv/i/ArdgLj/soesken-tett-i-alder-hedvig-montgomery-gir-raad\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1q550f1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=b39e9adb291e0f858ec6ec59b0b083dd2686e171\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=b39e9adb291e0f858ec6ec59b0b083dd2686e171 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=47cb4eb1d7dfcaaeb4617f6a50f71c89abb88524 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=d9523af3d601802475b482098ae94c0c178eb7af 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=b0f8cbd9d64892a52efde3ee6e7323bed383fadb 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=af2a88b896033ecf264a066f1ea95030b92f1ac2 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=eb1424a57b0ed13f8607ac80bb068083031ff613 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=e4bef769037afa918542434e6b1b3ce19ed17c61 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=6ef1455a58e78fad58f55a25a9acfede3057f1ae 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=63493f565fa56b6d5aac788136935a895d333d8c 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">FORELDRELIV<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-02T10:07:36Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-02T10:07:36Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">2. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Sier du dette til eldstemann? – Noe av det verste barn får høre, sier psykologen.</h2></div></div></a></li></ol></div></div><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard-wrapper__article advertory-aftenposten-paywall-ad\"><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard__article\" id=\"paywall_ad_board\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1q3hux1\"><button aria-label=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" class=\"hyperion-css-1t4sy44\" title=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" type=\"button\">Tilbake til forsiden</button></div></div><div></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1927kqg\" id=\"superright-side\"></div></div><footer class=\"hyperion-css-1ykq07t\" role=\"contentinfo\"><div class=\"container\"><div class=\"links\"><ul><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/tips\">Tips oss</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/meninger/debatt/i/Ooyk/informasjon-om-debattinnlegg-og-kronikker-til-aftenposten\">Send inn debattinnlegg</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/rettelser\">Endringslogg</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/slik-jobber-vi-i-aftenposten\">Slik jobber vi i Aftenposten</a></li></ul><ul><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://kundeservice.aftenposten.no/s/\">Kundeservice</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://schibstedforbusiness.com/no/merkevarer/aftenposten/\">Annonsere i Aftenposten</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://info.privacy.schibsted.com/no/schibsted-norge-personvernerklaering/\">Personvernpolicy</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://info.privacy.schibsted.com/no/schibsted-norge-personvernerklaering/\">Informasjonskapsler</a></li></ul><div class=\"logos\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-15fvjg8\" data-loaded=\"true\"><noscript><img alt=\"aftenposten-logo\" src=\"https://cdn.aftenposten.no/ap/images/footer/circular-ap-logo.png\" width=\"\"></noscript></div><a aria-label=\"Lenke til Redaktørplakaten etiske og juridiske rammeverk på Redaktor.no\" class=\"hyperion-css-hkgcqn\" href=\"https://www.redaktor.no/ressurser/etiske-og-juridiske-rammeverk/redaktorplakaten\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><noscript><img alt=\"Ansvarsmerket\" src=\"https://cdn.aftenposten.no/ap/images/footer/ansvarsmerket.svg\"></noscript></a></div></div><div class=\"info\"><ul><li><span>Sjefredaktør og adm. direktør: </span><span class=\"name\">Trine Eilertsen</span></li><li><span>Nyhetsredaktør: </span><span class=\"name\">Tone Tveøy Strøm-Gundersen</span></li><li><span>Politisk redaktør: </span><span class=\"name\">Kjetil B. 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