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   "content" : "# Gave eller ikke gave: – Vis finger’n. Vær hyggelig.\n\n– Når det står i invitasjonen: Ingen gaver ønskes. Er det veldig galt å ta med gave likevel? spør leseren. – Løsningen er enkel, svarer gave\\-entusiast «Bettan». Mens professor oppfordrer til protest. ap\\-feature\\-arrow\n\n- [Sturle Scholz NærøJournalist](http://aftenposten.no/av/sturle-scholz-naeroe)\n\nNytt år. Med nye jubileer, brylluper, feiringer. Blant masse mer byr resten av 2026 på intet mindre enn 360 bursdagsdatoer.\n\n**Leseren som kontaktet skikk og bruk\\-spalten, føler seg desto mer usikker. Hun skriver:**\n\nLes hele saken med abonnement",
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NTB</span></figcaption></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-16hxfwi\"><div class=\"feature running-head hyperion-css-1ij43i2\" data-test-tag=\"running-head\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-7enjca\"><a aria-label=\"Skikk og bruk\" class=\"hyperion-css-1raymq9\" data-test-tag=\"internal-link\" href=\"/skikkogbruk\" rel=\"\" target=\"\" theme=\"feature\">Skikk og bruk</a></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-semo9s\"><a aria-label=\"Gjester\" class=\"hyperion-css-1raymq9\" data-test-tag=\"internal-link\" href=\"/tag/gjester\" rel=\"\" target=\"\" theme=\"feature\">Gjester</a></div></div><h1 class=\"intro-title\">Gave eller ikke gave: – Vis finger’n. Vær hyggelig.</h1><p class=\"intro-lead\">– Når det står i invitasjonen: Ingen gaver ønskes. Er det veldig galt å ta med gave likevel? spør leseren. – Løsningen er enkel, svarer gave-entusiast «Bettan». Mens professor oppfordrer til protest. <svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"svg-symbol hyperion-css-d1iv49\" height=\"32\" role=\"img\" theme=\"default\" viewbox=\"0 0 32 32\" width=\"32\"><title>ap-feature-arrow</title><use xlink:href=\"#ap-feature-arrow\"></use></svg></p></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-qwp0ac\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-1772xtw\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-b8p8ys\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Sturle Scholz Nærø\" class=\"hyperion-css-1x0qoq7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/sturle-scholz-naeroe\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Sturle Scholz Nærø\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-y7i40o\"><img alt=\"Sturle Scholz Nærø\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" sizes=\"(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=7137072a91ab059662c6e08b42c6b0a5e5752f01\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=7137072a91ab059662c6e08b42c6b0a5e5752f01 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1440&amp;w=1440&amp;s=481c14cea0bc986f9bc9f039657f701e52d362af 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1024&amp;w=1024&amp;s=12954f450dfefde9d9741fa935df9851183847ef 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=980&amp;w=980&amp;s=dec445906d901bf6bf700114fc76dbdb18d6f317 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=780&amp;w=780&amp;s=d1467a652eaf0d5a4663190f2498bf12e4873173 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=580&amp;w=580&amp;s=4d0a394e3110f06eb727ad44249cf37915c19b3f 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=380&amp;w=380&amp;s=34a6d192998128c71260f1a2e948bcc29c465ce5 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=200&amp;w=200&amp;s=2e9c4469d97a5afd8a562113d42a51286c74371b 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=100&amp;w=100&amp;s=921a6df7c404091c250b3e0748adc4cb1eb2e2d0 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048\"></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Sturle Scholz Nærø</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-lc8ynt\">Journalist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 05.01.2026 06:30\" datetime=\"2026-01-05T05:30:10Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 05.01.2026 06:30</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">Nytt år. Med nye jubileer, brylluper, feiringer. Blant masse mer byr resten av 2026 på intet mindre enn 360 bursdagsdatoer. </p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\"><strong>Leseren som kontaktet skikk og bruk-spalten, føler seg desto mer usikker. Hun skriver: </strong></p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-1xvjrme\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Tre år etter psykologens klare tale giftet Linnéa Myhre seg med Emil Gukild  \" class=\"imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/amagasinet/i/K83L7G/linnea-myhre-om-sitt-nye-liv\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1152&amp;w=1536&amp;s=2abcdfb90b17cf84e5c7fe10d27b533b7746be6f\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1152&amp;w=1536&amp;s=2abcdfb90b17cf84e5c7fe10d27b533b7746be6f 1536w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=26ebbb029b051ea9f48a393cff43d4577996304e 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=43d543f2bb29bd8c475ed2e4b7fb6279feb89e09 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=b291733639b9a6734c0604209f2cf4dbe576a970 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=a07d0961ddc0dcdc1485e2176cbd862208196a44 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=e00c41c785d088d2f071b77e1445b4bc34daef38 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=7c6a14de36506270dfb7fcebc328cdf970eac378 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=ecd58dffde5adcc10dddc1d106664ed76a716b45 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/144d1cdb-7fec-404b-b0dd-5236d4bb77bb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=b5f88bd8418fa8a73b5b4b9bc8d401db19905f70 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1536 / 1152\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">A-MAGASINET<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-03T19:30:40Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-03T19:30:40Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">3. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Tre år etter psykologens klare tale giftet Linnéa Myhre seg med Emil Gukild  </h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Sier du dette til eldstemann? – Noe av det verste barn får høre, sier psykologen.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/foreldreliv/i/ArdgLj/soesken-tett-i-alder-hedvig-montgomery-gir-raad\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1q550f1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=b39e9adb291e0f858ec6ec59b0b083dd2686e171\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=b39e9adb291e0f858ec6ec59b0b083dd2686e171 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=47cb4eb1d7dfcaaeb4617f6a50f71c89abb88524 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=d9523af3d601802475b482098ae94c0c178eb7af 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=b0f8cbd9d64892a52efde3ee6e7323bed383fadb 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=af2a88b896033ecf264a066f1ea95030b92f1ac2 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=eb1424a57b0ed13f8607ac80bb068083031ff613 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=e4bef769037afa918542434e6b1b3ce19ed17c61 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=6ef1455a58e78fad58f55a25a9acfede3057f1ae 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a771ada6-6c28-4105-a524-a777ca267293?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=63493f565fa56b6d5aac788136935a895d333d8c 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">FORELDRELIV<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-02T10:07:36Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-02T10:07:36Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">2. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Sier du dette til eldstemann? 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   "summary" : "– Når det står i invitasjonen: Ingen gaver ønskes. Er det veldig galt å ta med gave likevel? spør leseren.",
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   "title" : "Feiring med gaveforbud: Professor og forsker advarer mot «ufine, uhøflige verter»",
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