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   "content" : "# Søsken som er tette i alder? Fem ting som er nyttige å vite.\n\nÉn setning er det verste eldstemann får høre, ifølge famileterapeut. ap\\-feature\\-arrow\n\n- [Amalie LerengJournalist](http://aftenposten.no/av/amalie-lereng)\n- [Terje TønnessenIllustratør](http://aftenposten.no/av/terje-toennessen-illustrasjon)\n\n– Jo flere barn, desto mer kaos og kos. Og jo tettere barn, desto høyere intensitet, sier psykolog og familieterapeut Hedvig Montgomery.\n\nAlle aldersforskjeller mellom søsken har sine fordeler og ulemper. Og har du barn som det er to år eller mindre mellom, vil det kreve ekstra mye av deg de første årene.\n\nLes hele saken med abonnement",
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Fem ting som er nyttige å vite. </h1><p class=\"intro-lead\">Én setning er det verste eldstemann får høre, ifølge famileterapeut. <svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"svg-symbol hyperion-css-d1iv49\" height=\"32\" role=\"img\" theme=\"default\" viewbox=\"0 0 32 32\" width=\"32\"><title>ap-feature-arrow</title><use xlink:href=\"#ap-feature-arrow\"></use></svg></p></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ifbnwh\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-zsib83\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-10c38m6\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Amalie Lereng\" class=\"hyperion-css-1u7c6r7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/amalie-lereng\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Amalie Lereng\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1ftacoo\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Amalie Lereng</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-c2jcik\">Journalist</div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-10c38m6\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Terje Tønnessen\" class=\"hyperion-css-1u7c6r7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/terje-toennessen-illustrasjon\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Terje Tønnessen\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1ftacoo\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Terje Tønnessen</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-c2jcik\">Illustratør</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 01.01.2026 14:00 | Oppdatert: 02.01.2026 11:00\" datetime=\"2026-01-02T10:07:36Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 01.01.2026 14:00 | Oppdatert: 02.01.2026 11:00</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">– Jo flere barn, desto mer kaos og kos. 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Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Hun eksperimenterte med dop og slåssing. Broren ble drapsmann og søsteren kokainsmugler.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/amagasinet/i/3MdXde/nikita-marie-rodriguez-ville-drepe-sin-egen-bror\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-3atq9u\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=a70192d8908879167aed2d514a9102632a41d8b8\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=a70192d8908879167aed2d514a9102632a41d8b8 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=f71fe4d70a458696964c94168f960065fc84c364 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=953562d9bf8f3139366c3269150df7386b4dd77f 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=7b844a3e227f8371020ad01a2a3939cbe12b7135 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=e46d23ee523c96e5b0db3330b632a1422c325b17 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=f2938df98fa2ad7b1eb203b4380caebda33a3193 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=cb915d6aacba38bb8a292f5b733a6d0d9dc0bb96 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=a69137b937a1645ac7771c59cbd3cb0aa5ef0696 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=896ba3832e07d5d97a3dcfba1ef5801b0e0ea670 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">A-MAGASINET<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2025-06-07T10:09:16Z\" datetime=\"2025-06-07T10:09:16Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">7. juni 2025</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Hun eksperimenterte med dop og slåssing. Broren ble drapsmann og søsteren kokainsmugler.</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Trygve Brørvik (54) har ikke venner. – Folk vet ikke hvor ensom jeg er.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium news-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/norge/i/9pvWb5/du-kan-ikke-se-det-naar-du-gaar-forbi-men-trygve-broervik-har-en-hemmelighet\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=9f44b3ad5a67989ac4e6df8e52d09c0e0ba02191\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=9f44b3ad5a67989ac4e6df8e52d09c0e0ba02191 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=b585437890198c83422fd50d054843833c58d635 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=8eeb7e246668aa1dac76ebbf67065fe5a1ab9299 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=ec698998d23e8ed089657a466528827a6779be43 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=792bbfa0b5aea5c6e1d047d12438e940ce22b561 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=f76c5cd9a9d4601b217d6f1e3ae7b00b9e617a7e 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=ca426112e306d7fec215a06c89b2ca654294054a 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=fa2effc1cc6f8fd1cd55f728d60cc8fc8e64dc16 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=930a0f3fc92a526a9cad02f426042d9935b1be91 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">NORGE<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2025-12-31T11:44:41Z\" datetime=\"2025-12-31T11:44:41Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">31. desember 2025</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Trygve Brørvik (54) har ikke venner. – Folk vet ikke hvor ensom jeg er.</h2></div></div></a></li></ol></div></div><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard-wrapper__article advertory-aftenposten-paywall-ad\"><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard__article\" id=\"paywall_ad_board\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1q3hux1\"><button aria-label=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" class=\"hyperion-css-1t4sy44\" title=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" type=\"button\">Tilbake til forsiden</button></div></div><div></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1927kqg\" id=\"superright-side\"></div></div><footer class=\"hyperion-css-1ykq07t\" role=\"contentinfo\"><div class=\"container\"><div class=\"links\"><ul><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/tips\">Tips oss</a></li><li><a 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1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c59e823f-2e98-47a8-a007-9fca4f18f8d2?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=955&amp;w=980&amp;s=b2d5009851addb6a8e525c0d4024af24c3ac2592 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c59e823f-2e98-47a8-a007-9fca4f18f8d2?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=760&amp;w=780&amp;s=1d023b8fbb8cace5a37bbeb500fac46e7210ee63 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c59e823f-2e98-47a8-a007-9fca4f18f8d2?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=565&amp;w=580&amp;s=aae957f4f22cb5ef401743f81be4669184b7bfd1 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c59e823f-2e98-47a8-a007-9fca4f18f8d2?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=370&amp;w=380&amp;s=09c6b7acb290ef3938861963c7a85c46b1558c65 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c59e823f-2e98-47a8-a007-9fca4f18f8d2?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=195&amp;w=200&amp;s=863aa1cc575cf314adcfab0e2bf34a8cec2415d7 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c59e823f-2e98-47a8-a007-9fca4f18f8d2?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=97&amp;w=100&amp;s=3bea8eaadb0b37494ecfb3a19615a31544b46e82 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1995\"></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-16hxfwi\"><div class=\"feature running-head hyperion-css-1ij43i2\" data-test-tag=\"running-head\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-7enjca\"><a aria-label=\"Foreldreliv\" class=\"hyperion-css-1raymq9\" data-test-tag=\"internal-link\" href=\"/foreldreliv\" rel=\"\" target=\"\" theme=\"feature\">Foreldreliv</a></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-semo9s\"><a aria-label=\"Søsken\" class=\"hyperion-css-1raymq9\" data-test-tag=\"internal-link\" href=\"/tag/soesken\" rel=\"\" target=\"\" theme=\"feature\">Søsken</a></div></div><h1 class=\"intro-title\">Søsken som er tette i alder? Fem ting som er nyttige å vite. </h1><p class=\"intro-lead\">Én setning er det verste eldstemann får høre, ifølge famileterapeut. <svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"svg-symbol hyperion-css-d1iv49\" height=\"32\" role=\"img\" theme=\"default\" viewbox=\"0 0 32 32\" width=\"32\"><title>ap-feature-arrow</title><use xlink:href=\"#ap-feature-arrow\"></use></svg></p></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ifbnwh\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-zsib83\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-10c38m6\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Amalie Lereng\" class=\"hyperion-css-1u7c6r7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/amalie-lereng\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Amalie Lereng\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1ftacoo\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Amalie Lereng</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-c2jcik\">Journalist</div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-10c38m6\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Terje Tønnessen\" class=\"hyperion-css-1u7c6r7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/terje-toennessen-illustrasjon\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Terje Tønnessen\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1ftacoo\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Terje Tønnessen</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-c2jcik\">Illustratør</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 01.01.2026 14:00\" datetime=\"2026-01-01T13:00:07Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 01.01.2026 14:00</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">– Jo flere barn, desto mer kaos og kos. Og jo tettere barn, desto høyere intensitet, sier psykolog og familieterapeut Hedvig Montgomery. </p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">Alle aldersforskjeller mellom søsken har sine fordeler og ulemper. Og har du barn som det er to år eller mindre mellom, vil det kreve ekstra mye av deg de første årene. </p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-1xvjrme\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Hun eksperimenterte med dop og slåssing. Broren ble drapsmann og søsteren kokainsmugler.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/amagasinet/i/3MdXde/nikita-marie-rodriguez-ville-drepe-sin-egen-bror\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-3atq9u\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=a70192d8908879167aed2d514a9102632a41d8b8\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=a70192d8908879167aed2d514a9102632a41d8b8 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=f71fe4d70a458696964c94168f960065fc84c364 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=953562d9bf8f3139366c3269150df7386b4dd77f 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=7b844a3e227f8371020ad01a2a3939cbe12b7135 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=e46d23ee523c96e5b0db3330b632a1422c325b17 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=f2938df98fa2ad7b1eb203b4380caebda33a3193 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=cb915d6aacba38bb8a292f5b733a6d0d9dc0bb96 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=a69137b937a1645ac7771c59cbd3cb0aa5ef0696 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/6b479461-9a42-4a69-b7ef-67da45ad5c65?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=896ba3832e07d5d97a3dcfba1ef5801b0e0ea670 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">A-MAGASINET<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2025-06-07T10:09:16Z\" datetime=\"2025-06-07T10:09:16Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">7. juni 2025</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Hun eksperimenterte med dop og slåssing. Broren ble drapsmann og søsteren kokainsmugler.</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Trygve Brørvik (54) har ikke venner. – Folk vet ikke hvor ensom jeg er.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium news-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/norge/i/9pvWb5/du-kan-ikke-se-det-naar-du-gaar-forbi-men-trygve-broervik-har-en-hemmelighet\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=9f44b3ad5a67989ac4e6df8e52d09c0e0ba02191\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=9f44b3ad5a67989ac4e6df8e52d09c0e0ba02191 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=b585437890198c83422fd50d054843833c58d635 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=8eeb7e246668aa1dac76ebbf67065fe5a1ab9299 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=ec698998d23e8ed089657a466528827a6779be43 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=792bbfa0b5aea5c6e1d047d12438e940ce22b561 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=f76c5cd9a9d4601b217d6f1e3ae7b00b9e617a7e 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=ca426112e306d7fec215a06c89b2ca654294054a 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=fa2effc1cc6f8fd1cd55f728d60cc8fc8e64dc16 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c7758566-3f00-48c2-8071-0590e49520ad?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=930a0f3fc92a526a9cad02f426042d9935b1be91 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">NORGE<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2025-12-31T11:44:41Z\" datetime=\"2025-12-31T11:44:41Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">I går 12:44</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Trygve Brørvik (54) har ikke venner. – Folk vet ikke hvor ensom jeg er.</h2></div></div></a></li></ol></div></div><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard-wrapper__article advertory-aftenposten-paywall-ad\"><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard__article\" id=\"paywall_ad_board\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1q3hux1\"><button aria-label=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" class=\"hyperion-css-1t4sy44\" title=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" type=\"button\">Tilbake til forsiden</button></div></div><div></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1927kqg\" id=\"superright-side\"></div></div><footer class=\"hyperion-css-1ykq07t\" role=\"contentinfo\"><div class=\"container\"><div class=\"links\"><ul><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/tips\">Tips oss</a></li><li><a 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   "summary" : "Derfor kan setningen «du som er så stor» være vanskelig for eldstemann. ",
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   "title" : "Barn med liten aldersforskjell? Derfor kan setningen «du som er så stor» være vanskelig for eldstemann. ",
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