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   "content" : "# Barnas alder kan by på ulike utfordringer i parforholdet. Her er de vanligste.\n\nSe listen fra baby til student.ap\\-feature\\-arrow\n\n- [Amalie LerengJournalist](http://aftenposten.no/av/amalie-lereng)\n- [Terje TønnessenIllustratør](http://aftenposten.no/av/terje-toennessen-illustrasjon)\n\n– Alle parforhold går gjennom oppturer og nedturer etter man har fått barn, sier psykolog og familieterapeut Hedvig Montgomery.\n\nMen hvordan barna påvirker parforholdet, kommer også an på hvor gamle de er. Det er jo uten tvil forskjell på å ha en baby og en tenåring i hus!\n\nLes hele saken med abonnement",
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data-test-tag=\"running-head\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-7enjca\"><a aria-label=\"Sex og samliv\" class=\"hyperion-css-1raymq9\" data-test-tag=\"internal-link\" href=\"/sex-og-samliv\" rel=\"\" target=\"\" theme=\"feature\">Sex og samliv</a></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-semo9s\"><a aria-label=\"Parforhold\" class=\"hyperion-css-1raymq9\" data-test-tag=\"internal-link\" href=\"/tag/parforhold\" rel=\"\" target=\"\" theme=\"feature\">Parforhold</a></div></div><h1 class=\"intro-title\">Barnas alder kan by på ulike utfordringer i parforholdet. Her er de vanligste. </h1><p class=\"intro-lead\">Se listen fra baby til student.<svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"svg-symbol hyperion-css-d1iv49\" height=\"32\" role=\"img\" theme=\"default\" viewbox=\"0 0 32 32\" width=\"32\"><title>ap-feature-arrow</title><use xlink:href=\"#ap-feature-arrow\"></use></svg></p></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ifbnwh\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-zsib83\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-10c38m6\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Amalie Lereng\" class=\"hyperion-css-1u7c6r7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/amalie-lereng\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Amalie Lereng\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1ftacoo\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Amalie Lereng</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-c2jcik\">Journalist</div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-10c38m6\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Terje Tønnessen\" class=\"hyperion-css-1u7c6r7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/terje-toennessen-illustrasjon\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Terje Tønnessen\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1ftacoo\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Terje Tønnessen</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-c2jcik\">Illustratør</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 26.12.2025 17:23\" datetime=\"2025-12-26T16:23:30Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 26.12.2025 17:23</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">– Alle parforhold går gjennom oppturer og nedturer etter man har fått barn, sier psykolog og familieterapeut Hedvig Montgomery. </p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">Men hvordan barna påvirker parforholdet, kommer også an på hvor gamle de er. Det er jo uten tvil forskjell på å ha en baby og en tenåring i hus! </p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-1xvjrme\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Forskere studerte barndommen hans. Dette bør foreldre lære.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium opinion-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/meninger/kommentar/i/7plrpK/forskere-studerte-martin-oedegaards-barndom-hva-boer-foreldre-laere-av-det\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1khm5kt\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/462becb9-33bc-4cd6-a717-ad88465de223?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=37c485ba7c366a76738ad77445256205cd004a99\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/462becb9-33bc-4cd6-a717-ad88465de223?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=37c485ba7c366a76738ad77445256205cd004a99 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/462becb9-33bc-4cd6-a717-ad88465de223?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=caa00533bcad1022171ca0c7d3a9977754f8b79b 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/462becb9-33bc-4cd6-a717-ad88465de223?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=571e47a63d6442f1b54b87864a5f4919804e1628 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/462becb9-33bc-4cd6-a717-ad88465de223?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=a7034e19e26ea1b8096025320a316a1bc7525293 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/462becb9-33bc-4cd6-a717-ad88465de223?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=3552dd4a672f7ac060dfa60b189bd6374585176f 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/462becb9-33bc-4cd6-a717-ad88465de223?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=2d10227ad09769178b5da495cbecdc1a500b2212 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/462becb9-33bc-4cd6-a717-ad88465de223?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=e7cc04518c7f3b9a548e978216ba68f64fe433f9 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/462becb9-33bc-4cd6-a717-ad88465de223?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=e51b7e51aa3d29f48d1b496935b7d3d62b0c5214 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/462becb9-33bc-4cd6-a717-ad88465de223?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=c2d69c7103f23e1ee30e37fd5bb6b03a5a0d8107 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">KOMMENTAR<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2025-12-23T07:30:23Z\" datetime=\"2025-12-23T07:30:23Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">23. desember</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Forskere studerte barndommen hans. Dette bør foreldre lære.</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"På skolen gikk alle likt kledd. Stramme olabukser. En perfekt sleik. Men én elev skilte seg ut.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/amagasinet/i/K8vnB4/lysene-som-sluknet-i-2025-carlos-tombre-neergaard\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5b43ddcb-7476-4bfd-afd0-95be69d848f9?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=11103a8f6be3f8d19e3b1dca74c9151d266e08d2\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5b43ddcb-7476-4bfd-afd0-95be69d848f9?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=11103a8f6be3f8d19e3b1dca74c9151d266e08d2 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5b43ddcb-7476-4bfd-afd0-95be69d848f9?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=9ab1c6f9ea5d4fe52112b4409fb29685a60f39a0 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5b43ddcb-7476-4bfd-afd0-95be69d848f9?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=f1a3138fe93d2bef60cf2eb463f43ac77037dfd8 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5b43ddcb-7476-4bfd-afd0-95be69d848f9?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=2d7bac9a99b6a6f177d8160e30be9c9e4b2837c1 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5b43ddcb-7476-4bfd-afd0-95be69d848f9?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=5cd74ecf04120373e89ad026c161d8b5e682097b 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5b43ddcb-7476-4bfd-afd0-95be69d848f9?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=a884406953e25646f26e058db4e0ecd4e6a2ca0e 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5b43ddcb-7476-4bfd-afd0-95be69d848f9?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=851f8b3185f29e45057e5a7ef4bfbcc514952eea 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5b43ddcb-7476-4bfd-afd0-95be69d848f9?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=c803cbfe8ccafe17551208288530517326d601bb 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/5b43ddcb-7476-4bfd-afd0-95be69d848f9?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=dd9879aad9ccc743014778b361de590ab1112ba1 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">A-MAGASINET<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2025-12-26T10:05:35Z\" datetime=\"2025-12-26T10:05:35Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">I dag 11:05</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">På skolen gikk alle likt kledd. Stramme olabukser. En perfekt sleik. 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