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   "content" : "# Generasjonskonflikter på fremmarsj\n\nMye tyder på at det er mer konflikter mellom voksne barn og deres foreldre nå enn tidligere. Hva kommer det av?ap\\-feature\\-arrow\n\n- [Frode ThuenProfessor i psykologi](http://aftenposten.no/av/frode-thuen-2)\n- [Åge PetersonIllustratør](http://aftenposten.no/av/aage-peterson)\n\nUtfordringer i relasjonen mellom voksne barn og deres foreldre er et stadig tilbakevendende tema blant de som sender innlegg til denne spalten. Og i 2025 har det vært flere slike innlegg enn noen gang.\n\nDe fleste er fra voksne barn som forteller om frustrasjon og sinne overfor det de opplever som emosjonelt fraværende foreldre. Men det er også mange innlegg fra foreldre som opplever avvisning og kulde fra sine voksne barn. Dette er nok uttrykk for en generell trend hvor det er blitt stadig mer oppmerksomhet på betydningen av foreldre\\-barn\\-relasjoner i voksen alder. En trend som for øvrig er del av et større kulturelt skifte de senere tiårene.\n\nLes hele saken med abonnement",
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Og i 2025 har det vært flere slike innlegg enn noen gang. </p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">De fleste er fra voksne barn som forteller om frustrasjon og sinne overfor det de opplever som emosjonelt fraværende foreldre. Men det er også mange innlegg fra foreldre som opplever avvisning og kulde fra sine voksne barn. Dette er nok uttrykk for en generell trend hvor det er blitt stadig mer oppmerksomhet på betydningen av foreldre-barn-relasjoner i voksen alder. En trend som for øvrig er del av et større kulturelt skifte de senere tiårene.</p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-1xvjrme\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Tror sykdommen blir den femte største dødsårsaken i verden om 15 år. Men «ingen» snakker om den.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/sprek/i/m062Oq/epidemien-ingen-hoerer-om\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-ton1dy\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=61c6039679e592190366f767913aee040f302261\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=61c6039679e592190366f767913aee040f302261 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=4a53cce2db1c2fd7720c1157ae3a37fe65ffe9db 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=8e83028bbd2ae631ebadb315c2a4b1361885ab7b 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=b0252fea00621bedbc5b9461b6be1ea8dbfd07d1 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=ea3cfcc5d73d887b31c3b1348eea480027601d02 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=8f86fd53ceee4a8646678189ec891f3907d6b8bc 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=e0c3b259b1dba72239147e6e177f41cfec1c0a4a 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=5df985925cbe8e6b3a8d07a80588ec13e3d69c16 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=205d0c13e1f2417b4aa0e12fc0c7ce8a445ceffd 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">SPREK<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2025-12-15T09:14:41Z\" datetime=\"2025-12-15T09:14:41Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">15. desember</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Tror sykdommen blir den femte største dødsårsaken i verden om 15 år. Men «ingen» snakker om den.</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Hver dag plinger det en melding fra kona: «Når kommer du?» – Jeg hadde distansert meg fra venner, og barna mine kjente meg ikke.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/amagasinet/i/Gxl8mB/i-jakten-paa-stjernene-kjoerte-pontus-dahlstrom-seg-selv-til-bristepunktet\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1pyucil\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3acea69e-8d89-43fc-85c6-5d31acbebca7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=b84322d7ffdc6871747af0032b0af72fba336b10\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3acea69e-8d89-43fc-85c6-5d31acbebca7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=b84322d7ffdc6871747af0032b0af72fba336b10 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3acea69e-8d89-43fc-85c6-5d31acbebca7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=ed72131b00cd6a7f6464adc952d5ca5a5afb601b 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3acea69e-8d89-43fc-85c6-5d31acbebca7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=007712b17e424df787548b1cdedafcd3ddcee9b2 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3acea69e-8d89-43fc-85c6-5d31acbebca7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=c4649e05324b16e5eef92570f09bc63d25ea6ace 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3acea69e-8d89-43fc-85c6-5d31acbebca7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=fb1b6a5c4af2363897ebff08a74f4159629970e7 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3acea69e-8d89-43fc-85c6-5d31acbebca7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=bf7f56aa354b35f292c17fcb5bf21eb61c801857 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3acea69e-8d89-43fc-85c6-5d31acbebca7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=b5cfbedca6cfc629a8e1e1fa70643c4d407b14ba 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3acea69e-8d89-43fc-85c6-5d31acbebca7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=1d05742300255043a3e3d32e59dbc41074aea7b1 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/3acea69e-8d89-43fc-85c6-5d31acbebca7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=a83092b26fa6ec7b4d14da9419b56a1ba357702e 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">A-MAGASINET<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2025-12-20T06:03:50Z\" 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   "summary" : "Mye tyder på at det er mer konflikter mellom voksne barn og deres foreldre nå enn tidligere. Hva kommer det av?",
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   "title" : "Foreldrene opplever dem som utakknemlige og urimelige. Mens deres voksne barn opplever dem som emosjonelt umodne.",
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