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Han vil besøke graven hver jul, hun synes det er en tom tradisjon. Fastlegen er ikke i tvil om hvem han er enig med.

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Han vil besøke graven hver jul, hun synes det er en tom tradisjon. Fastlegen er ikke i tvil om hvem han er enig med.

Samboeren mener det er bra for dem å besøke graven hver jul. For henne kjennes det som en tom tradisjon.

Er det noe vits i å besøke graven?

Det er ikke sikkert at du vil føle deg komfortabel på en gravlund i julen. Men det er ikke poenget, mener fastlegen. ap-feature-arrow

*Spørsmål: *Hver jul vil samboeren min at vi besøker gravstedene til dem i familien vi har mistet. Jeg møter pliktoppfyllende opp, sammen med en flokk andre nordmenn, med blomster i hånden.

Samboeren mener det er viktig for vår psykiske helse. Men for meg kjennes det som en tom tradisjon og gammeldags ritual.

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Han vil besøke graven hver jul, hun synes det er en tom tradisjon. Fastlegen er ikke i tvil om hvem han er enig med.
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Er det noe vits i å besøke graven?

Det er ikke sikkert at du vil føle deg komfortabel på en gravlund i julen. Men det er ikke poenget, mener fastlegen. ap-feature-arrow

*Spørsmål: *Hver jul vil samboeren min at vi besøker gravstedene til dem i familien vi har mistet. Jeg møter pliktoppfyllende opp, sammen med en flokk andre nordmenn, med blomster i hånden.

Samboeren mener det er viktig for vår psykiske helse. Men for meg kjennes det som en tom tradisjon og gammeldags ritual.

Les hele saken med abonnement

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Men det er ikke poenget, mener fastlegen. <svg aria-hidden="true" class="svg-symbol hyperion-css-d1iv49" height="32" role="img" theme="default" viewbox="0 0 32 32" width="32"><title>ap-feature-arrow</title><use xlink:href="#ap-feature-arrow"></use></svg></p></div></div><div class="paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu"><div class="hyperion-css-qwp0ac" data-test-tag="byline" data-testid="byline"><ul class="hyperion-css-1772xtw" data-test-tag="byline:authors" data-testid="byline:authors"><li class="hyperion-css-b8p8ys"><a aria-label="Se journalistens profil: Kaveh Rashidi" class="hyperion-css-1x0qoq7" href="http://aftenposten.no/av/kaveh-rashidi-4" title="Se journalistens profil: Kaveh Rashidi"><div class="hyperion-css-y7i40o"><img alt="Kaveh Rashidi" class="image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" sizes="(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=d4fc8159808585772bcc5f6c493d15aee3d45491" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=d4fc8159808585772bcc5f6c493d15aee3d45491 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1440&amp;w=1440&amp;s=fa91f42ed4bb56958a0859493167a5e1f88735ea 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1024&amp;w=1024&amp;s=a6bb613a6c4bd0fbe73d7e5f75d0f02a5c4a42a8 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=980&amp;w=980&amp;s=dacfa1f64c50121c4db6a42f56e42c832bebed58 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=780&amp;w=780&amp;s=ca5ce52598e98819e086ad8a2079f01c05762fc0 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=580&amp;w=580&amp;s=8498f23c400df1d6aa1afa0c2dd0aca118a84e5b 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=380&amp;w=380&amp;s=ddf493d6f45b33d050014f67643fa4589b14d8a2 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=200&amp;w=200&amp;s=c5a2c238fb6ff6a8b5a36bf89250793b294c57e7 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=100&amp;w=100&amp;s=3633f0bd9fa913f06d5282943651708d37b8007d 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048"></div><div class="hyperion-css-0"><span class="byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf" data-test-tag="byline:author-name" data-testid="byline:author-name">Kaveh Rashidi</span><div class="hyperion-css-lc8ynt">Lege og forfatter</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class="paywall hyperion-css-okzep" data-test-tag="timestamp"><div><time aria-label="Publisert: 18.12.2025 07:00" datetime="2025-12-18T06:00:00Z" itemprop="datePublished">Publisert: 18.12.2025 07:00</time></div></div><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic"><strong>Spørsmål: </strong>Hver jul vil samboeren min at vi besøker gravstedene til dem i familien vi har mistet. Jeg møter pliktoppfyllende opp, sammen med en flokk andre nordmenn, med blomster i hånden.</p><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic">Samboeren mener det er viktig for vår psykiske helse. Men for meg kjennes det som en tom tradisjon og gammeldags ritual.</p><div class="hyperion-css-1ykv2lv"><div class="hyperion-css-l9jsj3"><p class="hyperion-css-1qm9e9t">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class="hyperion-css-1xvjrme" type="button">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class="advertory-brandmetrics-survey" id="brandmetrics-survey"></div><div class="extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v" id="widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold"><h2 class="hyperion-css-r57xc5" data-test-tag="widget:title">Les også</h2><div class="bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi"><ol class="hyperion-css-1700tdj"><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="Tror sykdommen blir den femte største dødsårsaken i verden om 15 år. Men «ingen» snakker om den." class="imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/sprek/i/m062Oq/epidemien-ingen-hoerer-om" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-ton1dy" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=61c6039679e592190366f767913aee040f302261" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=61c6039679e592190366f767913aee040f302261 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=4a53cce2db1c2fd7720c1157ae3a37fe65ffe9db 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=8e83028bbd2ae631ebadb315c2a4b1361885ab7b 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=b0252fea00621bedbc5b9461b6be1ea8dbfd07d1 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=ea3cfcc5d73d887b31c3b1348eea480027601d02 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=8f86fd53ceee4a8646678189ec891f3907d6b8bc 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=e0c3b259b1dba72239147e6e177f41cfec1c0a4a 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=5df985925cbe8e6b3a8d07a80588ec13e3d69c16 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=205d0c13e1f2417b4aa0e12fc0c7ce8a445ceffd 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">SPREK<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2025-12-15T09:14:41Z" datetime="2025-12-15T09:14:41Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">15. desember</time></div></div></div><div class="feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">Tror sykdommen blir den femte største dødsårsaken i verden om 15 år. Men «ingen» snakker om den.</h2></div></div></a></li><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="Han slet med lave testosteronnivåer. Fem grep nær firedoblet produksjonen: – Som å skru på en lysbryter." class="imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/sprek/i/EyE5Ll/sergejs-fem-grep-for-aa-oeke-testosteronproduksjonen-helt-naturlig" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=6d7394c5b1e2d37cb82abe6f7c5f5899e7cbef04" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=6d7394c5b1e2d37cb82abe6f7c5f5899e7cbef04 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=5e03d714fa739d2cf47467857a185fda8ce8d23c 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=95ead2696db593419e4d70f6dc276456aca3cdfe 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=a3d9a92d386f779bb226f3a176164be0bade9577 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=780013f653cf3b9ea7dae7c7be1739a25b73dc4d 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=8338f781a7d2b7db3dcc67aa8aa8ffef61ffca45 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=0eec903b1156913b22a13c6c3f5bcc0b7571fc7a 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=07c19a4448d360b04b706a86ed008216908e8e48 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=2b42526619a2b90c47f543b292c3f38b5ba77516 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">SPREK<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2025-01-22T18:30:12Z" datetime="2025-01-22T18:30:12Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">22. januar</time></div></div></div><div class="feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">Han slet med lave testosteronnivåer. Fem grep nær firedoblet produksjonen: – Som å skru på en lysbryter.</h2></div></div></a></li></ol></div></div><div class="advertory-aftenposten-netboard-wrapper__article advertory-aftenposten-paywall-ad"><div class="advertory-aftenposten-netboard__article" id="paywall_ad_board"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1q3hux1"><button aria-label="Tilbake til forsiden" class="hyperion-css-1t4sy44" title="Tilbake til forsiden" type="button">Tilbake til forsiden</button></div></div><div></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1927kqg" id="superright-side"></div></div><footer class="hyperion-css-1ykq07t" role="contentinfo"><div class="container"><div class="links"><ul><li><a class="actionLink" href="https://www.aftenposten.no/tips">Tips oss</a></li><li><a class="actionLink" href="https://www.aftenposten.no/meninger/debatt/i/Ooyk/informasjon-om-debattinnlegg-og-kronikker-til-aftenposten">Send inn debattinnlegg</a></li><li><a class="actionLink" href="https://www.aftenposten.no/rettelser">Endringslogg</a></li><li><a class="actionLink" href="https://www.aftenposten.no/slik-jobber-vi-i-aftenposten">Slik jobber vi i Aftenposten</a></li></ul><ul><li><a class="actionLink" href="https://kundeservice.aftenposten.no/s/">Kundeservice</a></li><li><a class="actionLink" href="https://schibstedforbusiness.com/no/merkevarer/aftenposten/">Annonsere i Aftenposten</a></li><li><a class="actionLink" href="https://info.privacy.schibsted.com/no/schibsted-norge-personvernerklaering/">Personvernpolicy</a></li><li><a class="actionLink" href="https://info.privacy.schibsted.com/no/schibsted-norge-personvernerklaering/">Informasjonskapsler</a></li></ul><div class="logos"><div class="hyperion-css-15fvjg8" data-loaded="true"><noscript><img alt="aftenposten-logo" src="https://cdn.aftenposten.no/ap/images/footer/circular-ap-logo.png" width=""></noscript></div><a aria-label="Lenke til Redaktørplakaten etiske og juridiske rammeverk på Redaktor.no" class="hyperion-css-hkgcqn" href="https://www.redaktor.no/ressurser/etiske-og-juridiske-rammeverk/redaktorplakaten" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><noscript><img alt="Ansvarsmerket" src="https://cdn.aftenposten.no/ap/images/footer/ansvarsmerket.svg"></noscript></a></div></div><div class="info"><ul><li><span>Sjefredaktør og adm. direktør: </span><span class="name">Trine Eilertsen</span></li><li><span>Nyhetsredaktør: </span><span class="name">Tone Tveøy Strøm-Gundersen</span></li><li><span>Politisk redaktør: </span><span class="name">Kjetil B. 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980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/dba66395-1183-41e8-b13e-9231322b4490?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=521&amp;w=780&amp;s=382e62fd3e1d638b668e38f981d04c346f0591c8 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/dba66395-1183-41e8-b13e-9231322b4490?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=388&amp;w=580&amp;s=6e4051218e23a61cf87f87249a3edba151326c59 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/dba66395-1183-41e8-b13e-9231322b4490?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=254&amp;w=380&amp;s=1d154e32d0ba205d9802934d1a0352d770a5f5f0 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/dba66395-1183-41e8-b13e-9231322b4490?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=134&amp;w=200&amp;s=babbaa0dc47f23b9377ba8b0c59dd69c4a6a4c7c 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/dba66395-1183-41e8-b13e-9231322b4490?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=67&amp;w=100&amp;s=85e75f505717955ae301110ea17a0ada3be0297c 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1807 / 1208\"><figcaption class=\"simple-image-byline hyperion-css-1dpib94\"><span>Foto: Terje Tønnessen</span></figcaption></div><div 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Men det er ikke poenget, mener fastlegen. <svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"svg-symbol hyperion-css-d1iv49\" height=\"32\" role=\"img\" theme=\"default\" viewbox=\"0 0 32 32\" width=\"32\"><title>ap-feature-arrow</title><use xlink:href=\"#ap-feature-arrow\"></use></svg></p></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-qwp0ac\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-1772xtw\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-b8p8ys\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Kaveh Rashidi\" class=\"hyperion-css-1x0qoq7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/kaveh-rashidi-4\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Kaveh Rashidi\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-y7i40o\"><img alt=\"Kaveh Rashidi\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" sizes=\"(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=d4fc8159808585772bcc5f6c493d15aee3d45491\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=d4fc8159808585772bcc5f6c493d15aee3d45491 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1440&amp;w=1440&amp;s=fa91f42ed4bb56958a0859493167a5e1f88735ea 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1024&amp;w=1024&amp;s=a6bb613a6c4bd0fbe73d7e5f75d0f02a5c4a42a8 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=980&amp;w=980&amp;s=dacfa1f64c50121c4db6a42f56e42c832bebed58 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=780&amp;w=780&amp;s=ca5ce52598e98819e086ad8a2079f01c05762fc0 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=580&amp;w=580&amp;s=8498f23c400df1d6aa1afa0c2dd0aca118a84e5b 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=380&amp;w=380&amp;s=ddf493d6f45b33d050014f67643fa4589b14d8a2 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=200&amp;w=200&amp;s=c5a2c238fb6ff6a8b5a36bf89250793b294c57e7 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=100&amp;w=100&amp;s=3633f0bd9fa913f06d5282943651708d37b8007d 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048\"></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Kaveh Rashidi</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-lc8ynt\">Lege og forfatter</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 18.12.2025 07:00\" datetime=\"2025-12-18T06:00:00Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 18.12.2025 07:00</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\"><strong>Spørsmål: </strong>Hver jul vil samboeren min at vi besøker gravstedene til dem i familien vi har mistet. Jeg møter pliktoppfyllende opp, sammen med en flokk andre nordmenn, med blomster i hånden.</p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">Samboeren mener det er viktig for vår psykiske helse. Men for meg kjennes det som en tom tradisjon og gammeldags ritual.</p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-1xvjrme\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Tror sykdommen blir den femte største dødsårsaken i verden om 15 år. Men «ingen» snakker om den.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/sprek/i/m062Oq/epidemien-ingen-hoerer-om\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-ton1dy\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=61c6039679e592190366f767913aee040f302261\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=61c6039679e592190366f767913aee040f302261 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=4a53cce2db1c2fd7720c1157ae3a37fe65ffe9db 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=8e83028bbd2ae631ebadb315c2a4b1361885ab7b 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=b0252fea00621bedbc5b9461b6be1ea8dbfd07d1 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=ea3cfcc5d73d887b31c3b1348eea480027601d02 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=8f86fd53ceee4a8646678189ec891f3907d6b8bc 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=e0c3b259b1dba72239147e6e177f41cfec1c0a4a 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=5df985925cbe8e6b3a8d07a80588ec13e3d69c16 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=205d0c13e1f2417b4aa0e12fc0c7ce8a445ceffd 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">SPREK<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2025-12-15T09:14:41Z\" datetime=\"2025-12-15T09:14:41Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">15. desember</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Tror sykdommen blir den femte største dødsårsaken i verden om 15 år. Men «ingen» snakker om den.</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Han slet med lave testosteronnivåer. Fem grep nær firedoblet produksjonen: – Som å skru på en lysbryter.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/sprek/i/EyE5Ll/sergejs-fem-grep-for-aa-oeke-testosteronproduksjonen-helt-naturlig\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=6d7394c5b1e2d37cb82abe6f7c5f5899e7cbef04\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=6d7394c5b1e2d37cb82abe6f7c5f5899e7cbef04 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=5e03d714fa739d2cf47467857a185fda8ce8d23c 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=95ead2696db593419e4d70f6dc276456aca3cdfe 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=a3d9a92d386f779bb226f3a176164be0bade9577 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=780013f653cf3b9ea7dae7c7be1739a25b73dc4d 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=8338f781a7d2b7db3dcc67aa8aa8ffef61ffca45 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=0eec903b1156913b22a13c6c3f5bcc0b7571fc7a 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=07c19a4448d360b04b706a86ed008216908e8e48 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=2b42526619a2b90c47f543b292c3f38b5ba77516 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">SPREK<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2025-01-22T18:30:12Z\" datetime=\"2025-01-22T18:30:12Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">22. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Han slet med lave testosteronnivåer. 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Han vil besøke graven hver jul, hun synes det er et tom tradisjon. Fastlegen er ikke i tvil om hvem han er enig med.
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Er det noe vits i å besøke graven?

Det er ikke sikkert at du vil føle deg komfortabel på en gravlund i julen. Men det er ikke poenget, mener fastlegen. ap-feature-arrow

*Spørsmål: *Hver jul vil samboeren min at vi besøker gravstedene til dem i familien vi har mistet. Jeg møter pliktoppfyllende opp, sammen med en flokk andre nordmenn, med blomster i hånden.

Samboeren mener det er viktig for vår psykiske helse. Men for meg kjennes det som en tom tradisjon og gammeldags ritual.

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Men det er ikke poenget, mener fastlegen. <svg aria-hidden="true" class="svg-symbol hyperion-css-d1iv49" height="32" role="img" theme="default" viewbox="0 0 32 32" width="32"><title>ap-feature-arrow</title><use xlink:href="#ap-feature-arrow"></use></svg></p></div></div><div class="paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu"><div class="hyperion-css-qwp0ac" data-test-tag="byline" data-testid="byline"><ul class="hyperion-css-1772xtw" data-test-tag="byline:authors" data-testid="byline:authors"><li class="hyperion-css-b8p8ys"><a aria-label="Se journalistens profil: Kaveh Rashidi" class="hyperion-css-1x0qoq7" href="http://aftenposten.no/av/kaveh-rashidi-4" title="Se journalistens profil: Kaveh Rashidi"><div class="hyperion-css-y7i40o"><img alt="Kaveh Rashidi" class="image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" sizes="(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=d4fc8159808585772bcc5f6c493d15aee3d45491" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=d4fc8159808585772bcc5f6c493d15aee3d45491 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1440&amp;w=1440&amp;s=fa91f42ed4bb56958a0859493167a5e1f88735ea 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1024&amp;w=1024&amp;s=a6bb613a6c4bd0fbe73d7e5f75d0f02a5c4a42a8 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=980&amp;w=980&amp;s=dacfa1f64c50121c4db6a42f56e42c832bebed58 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=780&amp;w=780&amp;s=ca5ce52598e98819e086ad8a2079f01c05762fc0 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=580&amp;w=580&amp;s=8498f23c400df1d6aa1afa0c2dd0aca118a84e5b 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=380&amp;w=380&amp;s=ddf493d6f45b33d050014f67643fa4589b14d8a2 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=200&amp;w=200&amp;s=c5a2c238fb6ff6a8b5a36bf89250793b294c57e7 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=100&amp;w=100&amp;s=3633f0bd9fa913f06d5282943651708d37b8007d 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048"></div><div class="hyperion-css-0"><span class="byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf" data-test-tag="byline:author-name" data-testid="byline:author-name">Kaveh Rashidi</span><div class="hyperion-css-lc8ynt">Lege og forfatter</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class="paywall hyperion-css-okzep" data-test-tag="timestamp"><div><time aria-label="Publisert: 18.12.2025 07:00" datetime="2025-12-18T06:00:00Z" itemprop="datePublished">Publisert: 18.12.2025 07:00</time></div></div><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic"><strong>Spørsmål: </strong>Hver jul vil samboeren min at vi besøker gravstedene til dem i familien vi har mistet. Jeg møter pliktoppfyllende opp, sammen med en flokk andre nordmenn, med blomster i hånden.</p><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic">Samboeren mener det er viktig for vår psykiske helse. Men for meg kjennes det som en tom tradisjon og gammeldags ritual.</p><div class="hyperion-css-1ykv2lv"><div class="hyperion-css-l9jsj3"><p class="hyperion-css-1qm9e9t">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class="hyperion-css-1xvjrme" type="button">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class="advertory-brandmetrics-survey" id="brandmetrics-survey"></div><div class="extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v" id="widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold"><h2 class="hyperion-css-r57xc5" data-test-tag="widget:title">Les også</h2><div class="bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi"><ol class="hyperion-css-1700tdj"><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="Tror sykdommen blir den femte største dødsårsaken i verden om 15 år. Men «ingen» snakker om den." class="imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/sprek/i/m062Oq/epidemien-ingen-hoerer-om" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-ton1dy" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=61c6039679e592190366f767913aee040f302261" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=61c6039679e592190366f767913aee040f302261 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=4a53cce2db1c2fd7720c1157ae3a37fe65ffe9db 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=8e83028bbd2ae631ebadb315c2a4b1361885ab7b 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=b0252fea00621bedbc5b9461b6be1ea8dbfd07d1 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=ea3cfcc5d73d887b31c3b1348eea480027601d02 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=8f86fd53ceee4a8646678189ec891f3907d6b8bc 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=e0c3b259b1dba72239147e6e177f41cfec1c0a4a 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=5df985925cbe8e6b3a8d07a80588ec13e3d69c16 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=205d0c13e1f2417b4aa0e12fc0c7ce8a445ceffd 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">SPREK<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2025-12-15T09:14:41Z" datetime="2025-12-15T09:14:41Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">15. desember</time></div></div></div><div class="feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">Tror sykdommen blir den femte største dødsårsaken i verden om 15 år. Men «ingen» snakker om den.</h2></div></div></a></li><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="Han slet med lave testosteronnivåer. 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Men det er ikke poenget, mener fastlegen. <svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"svg-symbol hyperion-css-d1iv49\" height=\"32\" role=\"img\" theme=\"default\" viewbox=\"0 0 32 32\" width=\"32\"><title>ap-feature-arrow</title><use xlink:href=\"#ap-feature-arrow\"></use></svg></p></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-qwp0ac\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-1772xtw\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-b8p8ys\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Kaveh Rashidi\" class=\"hyperion-css-1x0qoq7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/kaveh-rashidi-4\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Kaveh Rashidi\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-y7i40o\"><img alt=\"Kaveh Rashidi\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" sizes=\"(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=d4fc8159808585772bcc5f6c493d15aee3d45491\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=d4fc8159808585772bcc5f6c493d15aee3d45491 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1440&amp;w=1440&amp;s=fa91f42ed4bb56958a0859493167a5e1f88735ea 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1024&amp;w=1024&amp;s=a6bb613a6c4bd0fbe73d7e5f75d0f02a5c4a42a8 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=980&amp;w=980&amp;s=dacfa1f64c50121c4db6a42f56e42c832bebed58 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=780&amp;w=780&amp;s=ca5ce52598e98819e086ad8a2079f01c05762fc0 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=580&amp;w=580&amp;s=8498f23c400df1d6aa1afa0c2dd0aca118a84e5b 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=380&amp;w=380&amp;s=ddf493d6f45b33d050014f67643fa4589b14d8a2 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=200&amp;w=200&amp;s=c5a2c238fb6ff6a8b5a36bf89250793b294c57e7 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/f38988d2-c1ce-4aa3-852e-ea71a78bab69?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=100&amp;w=100&amp;s=3633f0bd9fa913f06d5282943651708d37b8007d 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048\"></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Kaveh Rashidi</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-lc8ynt\">Lege og forfatter</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 18.12.2025 07:00\" datetime=\"2025-12-18T06:00:00Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 18.12.2025 07:00</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\"><strong>Spørsmål: </strong>Hver jul vil samboeren min at vi besøker gravstedene til dem i familien vi har mistet. Jeg møter pliktoppfyllende opp, sammen med en flokk andre nordmenn, med blomster i hånden.</p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">Samboeren mener det er viktig for vår psykiske helse. Men for meg kjennes det som en tom tradisjon og gammeldags ritual.</p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-1xvjrme\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Tror sykdommen blir den femte største dødsårsaken i verden om 15 år. Men «ingen» snakker om den.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/sprek/i/m062Oq/epidemien-ingen-hoerer-om\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-ton1dy\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=61c6039679e592190366f767913aee040f302261\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=61c6039679e592190366f767913aee040f302261 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=4a53cce2db1c2fd7720c1157ae3a37fe65ffe9db 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=8e83028bbd2ae631ebadb315c2a4b1361885ab7b 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=b0252fea00621bedbc5b9461b6be1ea8dbfd07d1 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=ea3cfcc5d73d887b31c3b1348eea480027601d02 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=8f86fd53ceee4a8646678189ec891f3907d6b8bc 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=e0c3b259b1dba72239147e6e177f41cfec1c0a4a 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=5df985925cbe8e6b3a8d07a80588ec13e3d69c16 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/0c11a102-f04f-49b3-8109-e78e16147d5b?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=205d0c13e1f2417b4aa0e12fc0c7ce8a445ceffd 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">SPREK<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2025-12-15T09:14:41Z\" datetime=\"2025-12-15T09:14:41Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">15. desember</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Tror sykdommen blir den femte største dødsårsaken i verden om 15 år. Men «ingen» snakker om den.</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Han slet med lave testosteronnivåer. Fem grep nær firedoblet produksjonen: – Som å skru på en lysbryter.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/sprek/i/EyE5Ll/sergejs-fem-grep-for-aa-oeke-testosteronproduksjonen-helt-naturlig\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=6d7394c5b1e2d37cb82abe6f7c5f5899e7cbef04\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=6d7394c5b1e2d37cb82abe6f7c5f5899e7cbef04 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=5e03d714fa739d2cf47467857a185fda8ce8d23c 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=95ead2696db593419e4d70f6dc276456aca3cdfe 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=a3d9a92d386f779bb226f3a176164be0bade9577 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=780013f653cf3b9ea7dae7c7be1739a25b73dc4d 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=8338f781a7d2b7db3dcc67aa8aa8ffef61ffca45 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=0eec903b1156913b22a13c6c3f5bcc0b7571fc7a 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=07c19a4448d360b04b706a86ed008216908e8e48 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/14f0bcf9-d0e1-45d2-85e1-0f1621f1cc26?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=2b42526619a2b90c47f543b292c3f38b5ba77516 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">SPREK<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2025-01-22T18:30:12Z\" datetime=\"2025-01-22T18:30:12Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">22. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Han slet med lave testosteronnivåer. 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   "summary" : "Samboeren mener det er bra for dem å besøke graven hver jul. For henne kjennes det som en tom tradisjon. ",
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   "title" : "Han vil besøke graven hver jul, hun synes det er et tom tradisjon. Fastlegen er ikke i tvil om hvem han er enig med.",
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