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Hvorfor er dette spørsmålet så ubehagelig?

Spørsmålet kan gi skamfølelse. Du må slutte å stille krav til fritiden din, oppfordrer psykologen.

Hvorfor er det ubehagelig når noen spør deg hva du gjør på fritiden? Ekspertene svarer

«Hva driver du med på fritiden?»

Et helt uskyldig spørsmål, eller starten på en aldri så liten selvransakelse?

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Spørsmålet kan gi skamfølelse. Du må slutte å stille krav til fritiden din, oppfordrer psykologen.

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Hvorfor er det ubehagelig når noen spør deg hva du gjør på fritiden? Ekspertene svarer

Spørsmålet kan gi skamfølelse. Du må slutte å stille krav til fritiden din, oppfordrer psykologen.

«Hva driver du med på fritiden?»

Et helt uskyldig spørsmål, eller starten på en aldri så liten selvransakelse?

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Ekspertene svarer</h1><p class="extendedContent hyperion-css-eyn926" data-test-tag="lead-text">Spørsmålet kan gi skamfølelse. Du må slutte å stille krav til fritiden din, oppfordrer psykologen. </p><figure class="image extendedContent top stretch-image-asset-on-mobile landscape hyperion-css-xottgi" data-test-tag="image"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="high" loading="eager" sizes="(min-width: 380px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1365&amp;w=2048&amp;s=7c5c2c1d10dbc88ad161cd48bae5bf25a0917429" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1365&amp;w=2048&amp;s=7c5c2c1d10dbc88ad161cd48bae5bf25a0917429 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=960&amp;w=1440&amp;s=1828da578518e3c94f1bac619b3cf762529f3124 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=683&amp;w=1024&amp;s=21e307aa3a1d1feff6220fca99f99f2250255b34 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=653&amp;w=980&amp;s=71e27edf8cf135d3d4dfed896f6e472dad006cbb 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=520&amp;w=780&amp;s=3958a6e1badd85f48e5e34116c4062fb01b54e0c 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=387&amp;w=580&amp;s=0c0a6df9d24b83a1283794ac9ca40bf09d776a27 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=253&amp;w=380&amp;s=f6dcc38375bfb18ec5ff1dd47d8c697e40f9d0f2 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=133&amp;w=200&amp;s=1e4aae0b5becfd57ec6c683f95709a2bfd5cb6b2 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=67&amp;w=100&amp;s=c19cfefeef5141cbd22d3599ac8f302804adfe8e 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1365"><figcaption class="image-figcaption hyperion-css-1ksg4fz" data-test-tag="image:caption"><span class="image-byline hyperion-css-161dy2i"> Foto: Stein J. Bjørge  / Aftenposten</span></figcaption></figure><div class="paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu"><div class="hyperion-css-qwp0ac" data-test-tag="byline" data-testid="byline"><ul class="hyperion-css-1772xtw" data-test-tag="byline:authors" data-testid="byline:authors"><li class="hyperion-css-b8p8ys"><div class="hyperion-css-b8p8ys"><div class="hyperion-css-0"><span class="byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf" data-test-tag="byline:author-name" data-testid="byline:author-name">Thale Donald Rowe</span></div></div></li></ul></div></div><div class="paywall hyperion-css-okzep" data-test-tag="timestamp"><div><time aria-label="Publisert: 23.02.2026 06:30" datetime="2026-02-23T05:30:06Z" itemprop="datePublished">Publisert: 23.02.2026 06:30</time></div></div><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic"><em>«Hva driver du med på fritiden?»</em></p><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic">Et helt uskyldig spørsmål, eller starten på en aldri så liten selvransakelse? </p><div class="hyperion-css-1ykv2lv"><div class="hyperion-css-l9jsj3"><p class="hyperion-css-1qm9e9t">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class="hyperion-css-1xvjrme" type="button">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class="advertory-brandmetrics-survey" id="brandmetrics-survey"></div><div class="extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v" id="widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold"><h2 class="hyperion-css-r57xc5" data-test-tag="widget:title">Les også</h2><div class="bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi"><ol class="hyperion-css-1700tdj"><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="Fastlege og tidligere eliteløper: Dette er den største feilen mosjonister gjør" class="imagePosition-top medium news-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/sprek/i/m0rmw4/lege-og-tidligere-topploeper-anbefaler-mosjonister-aa-trene-som-eliteutoevere-superenkel-maate-aa-trene-paa" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-wmzta2" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=749c39bd8201eb904d0f78cc41700d148d03fc9a" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=749c39bd8201eb904d0f78cc41700d148d03fc9a 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=a3d96144c7b95076316c65f4688583d28ccbbe9c 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=23806dd226cf340b60c3780959a7a71ff6731ff9 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=954df7342b405f86457b54c119d77da5d4fa708d 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=fe7ea73f4f12df29423b5a6d8ae252daf34130df 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=0d04a4d893aa02b9bdf2987fd33e20625fb5fa9e 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=6e7e5e9f2ea544834f88a026cc75f1ad08c35e31 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=3a10fcb462864ad8651acbea0b7bc9e87f583a0e 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=32c3631ed08e7c0db698879e9073ea6277e37fcd 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">SPREK<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2026-02-19T18:30:10Z" datetime="2026-02-19T18:30:10Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">19. februar</time></div></div></div><div class="default hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">Fastlege og tidligere eliteløper: Dette er den største feilen mosjonister gjør</h2></div></div></a></li><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="«Jeg har mange måneder igjen», sa OL-helten med klovnebuksene. Noen timer senere døde han. 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Hvorfor er det ubehagelig når noen spør deg hva du gjør på fritiden? Ekspertene svarer

Spørsmålet kan gi skamfølelse. Du må slutte å stille krav til fritiden din, oppfordrer psykologen.

«Hva driver du med på fritiden?»

Et helt uskyldig spørsmål, eller starten på en aldri så liten selvransakelse?

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Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class="advertory-brandmetrics-survey" id="brandmetrics-survey"></div><div class="extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v" id="widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold"><h2 class="hyperion-css-r57xc5" data-test-tag="widget:title">Les også</h2><div class="bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi"><ol class="hyperion-css-1700tdj"><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="Fastlege og tidligere eliteløper: Dette er den største feilen mosjonister gjør" class="imagePosition-top medium news-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/sprek/i/m0rmw4/lege-og-tidligere-topploeper-anbefaler-mosjonister-aa-trene-som-eliteutoevere-superenkel-maate-aa-trene-paa" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-wmzta2" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=749c39bd8201eb904d0f78cc41700d148d03fc9a" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=749c39bd8201eb904d0f78cc41700d148d03fc9a 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=a3d96144c7b95076316c65f4688583d28ccbbe9c 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=23806dd226cf340b60c3780959a7a71ff6731ff9 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=954df7342b405f86457b54c119d77da5d4fa708d 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=fe7ea73f4f12df29423b5a6d8ae252daf34130df 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=0d04a4d893aa02b9bdf2987fd33e20625fb5fa9e 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=6e7e5e9f2ea544834f88a026cc75f1ad08c35e31 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=3a10fcb462864ad8651acbea0b7bc9e87f583a0e 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=32c3631ed08e7c0db698879e9073ea6277e37fcd 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">SPREK<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2026-02-19T18:30:10Z" datetime="2026-02-19T18:30:10Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">19. februar</time></div></div></div><div class="default hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">Fastlege og tidligere eliteløper: Dette er den største feilen mosjonister gjør</h2></div></div></a></li><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="«Jeg har mange måneder igjen», sa OL-helten med klovnebuksene. Noen timer senere døde han. 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Ekspertene svarer</h1><p class=\"extendedContent hyperion-css-eyn926\" data-test-tag=\"lead-text\">Spørsmålet kan gi skamfølelse. Du må slutte å stille krav til fritiden din, oppfordrer psykologen. </p><figure class=\"image extendedContent top stretch-image-asset-on-mobile landscape hyperion-css-xottgi\" data-test-tag=\"image\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"high\" loading=\"eager\" sizes=\"(min-width: 380px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1365&amp;w=2048&amp;s=7c5c2c1d10dbc88ad161cd48bae5bf25a0917429\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1365&amp;w=2048&amp;s=7c5c2c1d10dbc88ad161cd48bae5bf25a0917429 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=960&amp;w=1440&amp;s=1828da578518e3c94f1bac619b3cf762529f3124 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=683&amp;w=1024&amp;s=21e307aa3a1d1feff6220fca99f99f2250255b34 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=653&amp;w=980&amp;s=71e27edf8cf135d3d4dfed896f6e472dad006cbb 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=520&amp;w=780&amp;s=3958a6e1badd85f48e5e34116c4062fb01b54e0c 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=387&amp;w=580&amp;s=0c0a6df9d24b83a1283794ac9ca40bf09d776a27 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=253&amp;w=380&amp;s=f6dcc38375bfb18ec5ff1dd47d8c697e40f9d0f2 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=133&amp;w=200&amp;s=1e4aae0b5becfd57ec6c683f95709a2bfd5cb6b2 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/e2d97fee-bf9e-4baf-98e4-1d1cfb047b3d?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=67&amp;w=100&amp;s=c19cfefeef5141cbd22d3599ac8f302804adfe8e 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1365\"><figcaption class=\"image-figcaption hyperion-css-1ksg4fz\" data-test-tag=\"image:caption\"><span class=\"image-byline hyperion-css-161dy2i\"> Foto: Stein J. Bjørge  / Aftenposten</span></figcaption></figure><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-qwp0ac\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-1772xtw\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-b8p8ys\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-b8p8ys\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Thale Donald Rowe</span></div></div></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 23.02.2026 06:30\" datetime=\"2026-02-23T05:30:06Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 23.02.2026 06:30</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\"><em>«Hva driver du med på fritiden?»</em></p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">Et helt uskyldig spørsmål, eller starten på en aldri så liten selvransakelse? </p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-1xvjrme\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Fastlege og tidligere eliteløper: Dette er den største feilen mosjonister gjør\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium news-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/sprek/i/m0rmw4/lege-og-tidligere-topploeper-anbefaler-mosjonister-aa-trene-som-eliteutoevere-superenkel-maate-aa-trene-paa\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-wmzta2\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=749c39bd8201eb904d0f78cc41700d148d03fc9a\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=749c39bd8201eb904d0f78cc41700d148d03fc9a 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=a3d96144c7b95076316c65f4688583d28ccbbe9c 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=23806dd226cf340b60c3780959a7a71ff6731ff9 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=954df7342b405f86457b54c119d77da5d4fa708d 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=fe7ea73f4f12df29423b5a6d8ae252daf34130df 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=0d04a4d893aa02b9bdf2987fd33e20625fb5fa9e 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=6e7e5e9f2ea544834f88a026cc75f1ad08c35e31 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=3a10fcb462864ad8651acbea0b7bc9e87f583a0e 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/ea53e008-61ee-4087-9a00-8ac6af101b76?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=32c3631ed08e7c0db698879e9073ea6277e37fcd 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">SPREK<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-02-19T18:30:10Z\" datetime=\"2026-02-19T18:30:10Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">19. februar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"default hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Fastlege og tidligere eliteløper: Dette er den største feilen mosjonister gjør</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"«Jeg har mange måneder igjen», sa OL-helten med klovnebuksene. Noen timer senere døde han. \" class=\"imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/amagasinet/i/pBAjno/thomas-ulsrud-skulle-gjoere-et-siste-forsoek-paa-aa-vinne-ol-gull-en-rutinekontroll-viste-at-han-hadde-kreft\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1u88iul\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=409&amp;w=545&amp;s=4a1a10cb5bcc17c4cd969114e5daca9ce9761299\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=409&amp;w=545&amp;s=4a1a10cb5bcc17c4cd969114e5daca9ce9761299 545w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=fc9e5cf955fa6f8fdb78ca552e068c8eac396648 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=b707d09600332213bca80575d3fd07e85580093d 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=f24825aff019f7f8c5a2c28befc73d8f5bc0659a 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:545 / 409\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">A-MAGASINET<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-02-13T19:28:36Z\" datetime=\"2026-02-13T19:28:36Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">13. februar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"default hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">«Jeg har mange måneder igjen», sa OL-helten med klovnebuksene. 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   "summary" : "Spørsmålet kan gi skamfølelse. Du må slutte å stille krav til fritiden din, oppfordrer psykologen. ",
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   "title" : "Spørsmålet kan gi skamfølelse. Du må slutte å stille krav til fritiden din, sier psykologen. ",
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