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   "content" : "Første gang moren mistenkte at noe var galt, var helgen etter nachspielet. Hun var på besøk i datterens leilighet og kjente henne ikke igjen.\n\n– Jeg reiste hjem og hadde en klump i magen, forteller hun til VG.\n\n**I forrige uke var hun med datteren i retten.**\n\nFra bakerste rad så hun henne sitte overfor kronprinsessens sønn, som er tiltalt for å ha voldtatt henne natt til søndag 8. oktober 2023 – i Hennings­vær i Lofoten.\n\n**– Jeg er veldig stolt over at hun fant ordene, sier moren.**\n\nHøiby nekter for å ha gjort noe straffbart den natten.\n\n– Det er jo ikke sikkert han blir dømt, sier moren.\n\n– Og jeg har forsøkt å fokusere på at det ikke er dét som er viktig.\n\nPå dag fem i retten måtte datteren forklare seg i detalj om natten foran en rekke fremmede fjes og både norsk og internasjonal presse. Det var også aller første gang moren fikk høre hele historien.\n\n**– Jeg hadde lovet henne at jeg ikke skulle bryte sammen.**\n\nAt datteren skulle knekke i vitne­boksen, var hun ikke redd for. De to håndterer vonde følelser forskjellig, ifølge moren. Hun snakker ut om dem – datteren lukker dem inne.\n\n– Men jeg har også sagt til henne at hun må gråte. Jeg har grått mange tårer over denne saken. Jeg har sagt at jeg tror det er en form for renselse, og at hun må gjøre det. Og da har hun svart: «Jo, jeg gråter alene». Det er ufattelig trist.\n\n**Datteren er kjent med innholdet i dette intervjuet.**\n\nDet er også hennes bistandsadvokat, Lill Vassbotn. Hun har ingen kommentarer til saken.\n\nDatteren er én av fire kvinner som Høiby er anklaget for å ha voldtatt.\n\n**I retten har han sagt at han «ligger ikke med damer som ikke er våkne».**\n\nDe to møttes på utestedet Trevare­fabrikken i Henningsvær etter å ha matchet på Tinder. Bonusfar kronprins Haakon, som var på surfetur med Høiby, var også med den kvelden.\n\nSammen så de to skifilmer på storskjerm.\n\nSenere dro kronprinsen hjem til hotellet, mens Høiby ble med på nachspiel i rorbua som datteren hadde leid sammen med venner.\n\nDer hadde de frivillig sex, først én gang, så to ganger til etter at Høiby hadde vekket henne. Dette er de begge enige om. Så spriker forklaringene:\n\n**Hun sier hun våknet av at Høiby hadde samleie med henne mens hun sov.**\n\nHøiby nekter for dette. På dag fem i retten sa han:\n\n«Jeg har ikke vekket henne med å ha sex med henne. Som jeg sa tidligere: Jeg har åpenbart vekket henne mange ganger for å ha sex. Det har ikke vært noe problematikk rundt det. Jeg har ikke fått ’nei’ eller ’jeg vil ikke’. Hvorfor i all verden skulle jeg gjort det da?»\n\nDatteren ble innkalt til avhør hos politiet i mai fjor, etter at de fant en video på Høibys telefon som viste hennes nakne underliv. Da var det gått halvannet år siden nachspiel\\-helgen.\n\nPolitiet mener Høiby har tatt opp videoen, som varer i knappe fem sekunder, mens hun sov, uten hennes viten eller samtykke.\n\nMoren sier at datteren ikke ville at hun skulle se filmen.\n\n**Da den ble vist i retten, så moren bort.**\n\n*«Hun var ikke lenger sosial, ble mer og mer innesluttet. Hun viste ingen glede lenger, og vi ble bekymret»,* skriver moren i meldingen som er delt med VG.\n\n– Jeg tenkte: Hun kan ikke være der. Det går ikke. Og så ringte jeg og sa at hun måtte flytte hjem.\n\nHun oppfordret datteren til å være utendørs, få seg frisk luft og se venner. Ingenting virket.\n\nTil slutt fortalte datteren hva som hadde skjedd. Så sa hun, ifølge moren:\n\n**«Ser du annerledes på meg nå?»**\n\nMoren sier hun svarte:\n\n«Nei, men er det sånn du har tenkt? Du er jo den samme.»\n\nI retten gjorde Høibys forsvarere et poeng av at den første gangen politiet spurte om hun mente seg utsatt for noe straffbart, svarte hun «[nei, egentlig ikke](/nyheter/i/e7EM8l/lofoten-kvinne-i-avhoer-ikke-utsatt-for-noe-straffbart)». De mener dette viser at hun endret forklaring.\n\nDa datteren i samme avhør forklarte hva som hadde skjedd den natten, valgte politiet å ta ut sak mot Høiby, på tross av at hun ikke selv ønsket det.\n\nHelt fra hun var bitte liten, har hun «trøstet seg selv». Stengt ting inne og ordnet opp, uten å klage, ifølge moren.\n\n– Det er vel veldig menneskelig å skylde på seg selv, en kan jo kjenne seg igjen.\n\nHun tror det var derfor det tok tid for datteren å erkjenne hva som hadde skjedd.\n\n*«Det har tatt lang tid for henne å klare å sette ord på overgrepet, hun fortrengte det som hadde skjedd og det har vært mye skam knyttet til hendelsen»*, skriver moren i meldingen som VG har fått.\n\nDen sjette dagen i retten ble det vist frem en melding Høiby skrev til en kamerat etter at de to hadde hatt sex.\n\n«Ha ha ha, se på det trollet her», skrev han blant annet og lenket til Tinder\\-profilen hennes.\n\n**– Det sier bare noe om ham, mener moren.**\n\n– Han virker veldig ... dobbel, egentlig. I den familien han er fra ... han vet jo hvordan man oppfører seg. Så ser det ut som om han prøver på det, og så faller det gjennom.\n\nHøiby selv har beklaget meldingen som [«forkastelig gutteprat».](/nyheter/i/XMq9px/hoeiby-konfrontert-med-meldinger-i-retten-forkastelig-gutteprat)\n\nDa han ble konfrontert med om han dobbeltkommuniserte, fordi han samme dag hadde sendt en hyggelig melding til kvinnen, [svarte han](/nyheter/i/XMq9px/hoeiby-konfrontert-med-meldinger-i-retten-forkastelig-gutteprat):\n\n«Ja, absolutt. Altså, jeg vil jo bare være hyggelig og grei med henne. Jeg har jo ikke lyst at hun skal få en kjip og dårlig opplevelse.»\n\nHans forsvarer Ellen Holager Andenæs har tidligere kommentert oppførselen hans slik:\n\n– Man kan nesten si det sånn at hvis det hadde vært straffbart å oppføre seg som en drittsekk, så hadde han vært dømt. Det er det ikke tvil om. Det er ikke det saken handler om.\n\nVG har kontaktet Høibys forsvarere i forbindelse med denne saken. De har ingenting å tilføye dette.\n\nFor at Høiby skal bli dømt på dette punktet i tiltalen, må aktoratet bevise at han ikke bare hadde sex med henne mens hun sov – men at han også forsto at hun sov.\n\n**Moren synes det har vært lite fokus på hvordan denne saken har preget familiene til kvinnene som er involvert.**\n\n– Jeg skal ikke si vi er traumatisert, men hva er det rette å gjøre nå? Hvordan skal vi fortsette livet? Hvordan kan vi støtte dem i det her?\n\nBegge har gruet seg til rettssaken, særlig til den massive presse­dekningen. Datteren har vært mest redd for å bli identifisert, og for at saken kunne bli knyttet til navnet hennes resten av livet.\n\n– Jeg har sagt at når rettssaken er over, så ligger den bak oss. Vi er nødt til å gå fremover, sier moren.\n\n– Vi må bare kvitte oss med alt og gå en ny sti.\n\nNår rettsdagene er over, drar mor og datter hjem sammen til en leilighet som de har leid i Oslo. De lager middag, går turer. De prater helst ikke om saken.\n\n**– Hun åpner seg ikke annet enn at hun kan si at «det er helt jævlig», forteller moren.**\n\nDatteren ville helst ha sluppet å være til stede i det hele tatt, ifølge moren. Samtidig sier hun:\n\n– Jeg tror det er veldig viktig for henne at hun har fortalt sin historie. Jeg tenker at det var nødvendig. For å kunne gå videre.",
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Hun var på besøk i datterens leilighet og kjente henne ikke igjen.\\n\\n– Jeg reiste hjem og hadde en klump i magen, forteller hun til VG.\\n\\n**I forrige uke var hun med datteren i retten.**\\n\\nFra bakerste rad så hun henne sitte overfor kronprinsessens sønn, som er tiltalt for å ha voldtatt henne natt til søndag 8. oktober 2023 – i Hennings­vær i Lofoten.\\n\\n**– Jeg er veldig stolt over at hun fant ordene, sier moren.**\\n\\nHøiby nekter for å ha gjort noe straffbart den natten.\\n\\n– Det er jo ikke sikkert han blir dømt, sier moren.\\n\\n– Og jeg har forsøkt å fokusere på at det ikke er dét som er viktig.\\n\\nPå dag fem i retten måtte datteren forklare seg i detalj om natten foran en rekke fremmede fjes og både norsk og internasjonal presse. Det var også aller første gang moren fikk høre hele historien.\\n\\n**– Jeg hadde lovet henne at jeg ikke skulle bryte sammen.**\\n\\nAt datteren skulle knekke i vitne­boksen, var hun ikke redd for. De to håndterer vonde følelser forskjellig, ifølge moren. Hun snakker ut om dem – datteren lukker dem inne.\\n\\n– Men jeg har også sagt til henne at hun må gråte. Jeg har grått mange tårer over denne saken. Jeg har sagt at jeg tror det er en form for renselse, og at hun må gjøre det. Og da har hun svart: «Jo, jeg gråter alene». Det er ufattelig trist.\\n\\n**Datteren er kjent med innholdet i dette intervjuet.**\\n\\nDet er også hennes bistandsadvokat, Lill Vassbotn. Hun har ingen kommentarer til saken.\\n\\nDatteren er én av fire kvinner som Høiby er anklaget for å ha voldtatt.\\n\\n**I retten har han sagt at han «ligger ikke med damer som ikke er våkne».**\\n\\nDe to møttes på utestedet Trevare­fabrikken i Henningsvær etter å ha matchet på Tinder. Bonusfar kronprins Haakon, som var på surfetur med Høiby, var også med den kvelden.\\n\\nSammen så de to skifilmer på storskjerm.\\n\\nSenere dro kronprinsen hjem til hotellet, mens Høiby ble med på nachspiel i rorbua som datteren hadde leid sammen med venner.\\n\\nDer hadde de frivillig sex, først én gang, så to ganger til etter at Høiby hadde vekket henne. Dette er de begge enige om. Så spriker forklaringene:\\n\\n**Hun sier hun våknet av at Høiby hadde samleie med henne mens hun sov.**\\n\\nHøiby nekter for dette. På dag fem i retten sa han:\\n\\n«Jeg har ikke vekket henne med å ha sex med henne. Som jeg sa tidligere: Jeg har åpenbart vekket henne mange ganger for å ha sex. Det har ikke vært noe problematikk rundt det. Jeg har ikke fått ’nei’ eller ’jeg vil ikke’. Hvorfor i all verden skulle jeg gjort det da?»\\n\\nDatteren ble innkalt til avhør hos politiet i mai fjor, etter at de fant en video på Høibys telefon som viste hennes nakne underliv. Da var det gått halvannet år siden nachspiel\\\\-helgen.\\n\\nPolitiet mener Høiby har tatt opp videoen, som varer i knappe fem sekunder, mens hun sov, uten hennes viten eller samtykke.\\n\\nMoren sier at datteren ikke ville at hun skulle se filmen.\\n\\n**Da den ble vist i retten, så moren bort.**\\n\\n*«Hun var ikke lenger sosial, ble mer og mer innesluttet. Hun viste ingen glede lenger, og vi ble bekymret»,* skriver moren i meldingen som er delt med VG.\\n\\n– Jeg tenkte: Hun kan ikke være der. Det går ikke. Og så ringte jeg og sa at hun måtte flytte hjem.\\n\\nHun oppfordret datteren til å være utendørs, få seg frisk luft og se venner. Ingenting virket.\\n\\nTil slutt fortalte datteren hva som hadde skjedd. Så sa hun, ifølge moren:\\n\\n**«Ser du annerledes på meg nå?»**\\n\\nMoren sier hun svarte:\\n\\n«Nei, men er det sånn du har tenkt? Du er jo den samme.»\\n\\nI retten gjorde Høibys forsvarere et poeng av at den første gangen politiet spurte om hun mente seg utsatt for noe straffbart, svarte hun «[nei, egentlig ikke](/nyheter/i/e7EM8l/lofoten-kvinne-i-avhoer-ikke-utsatt-for-noe-straffbart)». De mener dette viser at hun endret forklaring.\\n\\nDa datteren i samme avhør forklarte hva som hadde skjedd den natten, valgte politiet å ta ut sak mot Høiby, på tross av at hun ikke selv ønsket det.\\n\\nHelt fra hun var bitte liten, har hun «trøstet seg selv». Stengt ting inne og ordnet opp, uten å klage, ifølge moren.\\n\\n– Det er vel veldig menneskelig å skylde på seg selv, en kan jo kjenne seg igjen.\\n\\nHun tror det var derfor det tok tid for datteren å erkjenne hva som hadde skjedd.\\n\\n*«Det har tatt lang tid for henne å klare å sette ord på overgrepet, hun fortrengte det som hadde skjedd og det har vært mye skam knyttet til hendelsen»*, skriver moren i meldingen som VG har fått.\\n\\nDen sjette dagen i retten ble det vist frem en melding Høiby skrev til en kamerat etter at de to hadde hatt sex.\\n\\n«Ha ha ha, se på det trollet her», skrev han blant annet og lenket til Tinder\\\\-profilen hennes.\\n\\n**– Det sier bare noe om ham, mener moren.**\\n\\n– Han virker veldig ... dobbel, egentlig. I den familien han er fra ... han vet jo hvordan man oppfører seg. Så ser det ut som om han prøver på det, og så faller det gjennom.\\n\\nHøiby selv har beklaget meldingen som [«forkastelig gutteprat».](/nyheter/i/XMq9px/hoeiby-konfrontert-med-meldinger-i-retten-forkastelig-gutteprat)\\n\\nDa han ble konfrontert med om han dobbeltkommuniserte, fordi han samme dag hadde sendt en hyggelig melding til kvinnen, [svarte han](/nyheter/i/XMq9px/hoeiby-konfrontert-med-meldinger-i-retten-forkastelig-gutteprat):\\n\\n«Ja, absolutt. Altså, jeg vil jo bare være hyggelig og grei med henne. Jeg har jo ikke lyst at hun skal få en kjip og dårlig opplevelse.»\\n\\nHans forsvarer Ellen Holager Andenæs har tidligere kommentert oppførselen hans slik:\\n\\n– Man kan nesten si det sånn at hvis det hadde vært straffbart å oppføre seg som en drittsekk, så hadde han vært dømt. Det er det ikke tvil om. Det er ikke det saken handler om.\\n\\nVG har kontaktet Høibys forsvarere i forbindelse med denne saken. De har ingenting å tilføye dette.\\n\\nFor at Høiby skal bli dømt på dette punktet i tiltalen, må aktoratet bevise at han ikke bare hadde sex med henne mens hun sov – men at han også forsto at hun sov.\\n\\n**Moren synes det har vært lite fokus på hvordan denne saken har preget familiene til kvinnene som er involvert.**\\n\\n– Jeg skal ikke si vi er traumatisert, men hva er det rette å gjøre nå? Hvordan skal vi fortsette livet? Hvordan kan vi støtte dem i det her?\\n\\nBegge har gruet seg til rettssaken, særlig til den massive presse­dekningen. Datteren har vært mest redd for å bli identifisert, og for at saken kunne bli knyttet til navnet hennes resten av livet.\\n\\n– Jeg har sagt at når rettssaken er over, så ligger den bak oss. Vi er nødt til å gå fremover, sier moren.\\n\\n– Vi må bare kvitte oss med alt og gå en ny sti.\\n\\nNår rettsdagene er over, drar mor og datter hjem sammen til en leilighet som de har leid i Oslo. De lager middag, går turer. De prater helst ikke om saken.\\n\\n**– Hun åpner seg ikke annet enn at hun kan si at «det er helt jævlig», forteller moren.**\\n\\nDatteren ville helst ha sluppet å være til stede i det hele tatt, ifølge moren. Samtidig sier hun:\\n\\n– Jeg tror det er veldig viktig for henne at hun har fortalt sin historie. Jeg tenker at det var nødvendig. 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srcset=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/54d6a199-98c6-4ec2-936e-475f0460a62d?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=4bc5c5f74136efe11249fa8a5d4105400d7b19ba 40w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/54d6a199-98c6-4ec2-936e-475f0460a62d?format=auto&amp;w=80&amp;s=2f21e79dccc395fd71cf89b268c27dce856d7ce4 80w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/54d6a199-98c6-4ec2-936e-475f0460a62d?format=auto&amp;w=100&amp;s=12fa85814d0a4bfccc4423589f11221c3c484702 100w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/54d6a199-98c6-4ec2-936e-475f0460a62d?format=auto&amp;w=200&amp;s=431875d8e401605167fc796f54ee81bc5f9f4b85 200w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/54d6a199-98c6-4ec2-936e-475f0460a62d?format=auto&amp;w=240&amp;s=0ac4a2d461b2f0f113ee9d0927c5ac4b989d50c9 240w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/54d6a199-98c6-4ec2-936e-475f0460a62d?format=auto&amp;w=480&amp;s=70523f2265af13fc92db879fd2faf5b76b512a82 480w\" width=\"480\"></figure></a></li><li><a class=\"_link_ntbth_117\" href=\"/forfatter/joergen-braastad\" style=\"z-index:9\" 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https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/5a085561-f3f9-4a69-a5a4-26cb9fbfa812?format=auto&amp;w=240&amp;s=05be062ffacaa48150271acfae55990668116e7b 240w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/5a085561-f3f9-4a69-a5a4-26cb9fbfa812?format=auto&amp;w=480&amp;s=acf149b557972a7fac45e5f86aa95b50ce835cc9 480w\" width=\"480\"></figure></a></li><li><a class=\"_link_ntbth_117\" href=\"/forfatter/preben-soerensen-olsen\" style=\"z-index:8\" title=\"Preben Sørensen Olsen\"><figure class=\"_figure_ntbth_66\"><img alt=\"Bilde av Preben Sørensen Olsen\" class=\"_image_ntbth_93\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"low\" itemprop=\"image\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"80px\" src=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/64aa1fb4-b39a-43ab-9306-fd34402fdbb9?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=0750627ad7da2ff6ed50ce51ebb24c1ecd0b6765\" srcset=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/64aa1fb4-b39a-43ab-9306-fd34402fdbb9?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=0750627ad7da2ff6ed50ce51ebb24c1ecd0b6765 40w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/64aa1fb4-b39a-43ab-9306-fd34402fdbb9?format=auto&amp;w=80&amp;s=60b7f42770d954c8d6304f3aa4193e0c6fd74ff3 80w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/64aa1fb4-b39a-43ab-9306-fd34402fdbb9?format=auto&amp;w=100&amp;s=916b481ca0558b56276a093bdd95a3c42a5495f6 100w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/64aa1fb4-b39a-43ab-9306-fd34402fdbb9?format=auto&amp;w=200&amp;s=b8d77ebeed27267a4ab51c6ac7b274fcc9c2fb4a 200w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/64aa1fb4-b39a-43ab-9306-fd34402fdbb9?format=auto&amp;w=240&amp;s=d4bdb33268510b158190f85f019f04a029403d5e 240w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/64aa1fb4-b39a-43ab-9306-fd34402fdbb9?format=auto&amp;w=480&amp;s=9dc2aad86bd56250312afc0686ed27a79266ae0e 480w\" width=\"480\"></figure></a></li><li><a class=\"_link_ntbth_117\" href=\"/forfatter/nora-viskjer\" style=\"z-index:7\" title=\"Nora Viskjer\"><figure class=\"_figure_ntbth_66\"><img alt=\"Bilde av Nora Viskjer\" class=\"_image_ntbth_93\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"low\" itemprop=\"image\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"80px\" src=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/ea617ec8-607f-4948-824b-ac91a6d7fe70?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=f679e9766682b0e55a6a7c516cf05bd3bb0e4cf1\" srcset=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/ea617ec8-607f-4948-824b-ac91a6d7fe70?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=f679e9766682b0e55a6a7c516cf05bd3bb0e4cf1 40w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/ea617ec8-607f-4948-824b-ac91a6d7fe70?format=auto&amp;w=80&amp;s=b3a60049cecf956f50546cd0960562cfff202236 80w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/ea617ec8-607f-4948-824b-ac91a6d7fe70?format=auto&amp;w=100&amp;s=419196c2728ec455481c8ce31d2a6ac0c37569f2 100w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/ea617ec8-607f-4948-824b-ac91a6d7fe70?format=auto&amp;w=200&amp;s=532b9486fa947eed042927772068b9f0158b5a89 200w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/ea617ec8-607f-4948-824b-ac91a6d7fe70?format=auto&amp;w=240&amp;s=985e4343159bfb3eca33ff804c89c4be6cad0049 240w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/ea617ec8-607f-4948-824b-ac91a6d7fe70?format=auto&amp;w=480&amp;s=4d19a665f97a188ed94af69961f2abbeb55a7996 480w\" width=\"480\"></figure></a></li><li><a class=\"_link_ntbth_117\" href=\"/forfatter/ingrid-bjoerndal-farestvedt\" style=\"z-index:6\" title=\"Ingrid Bjørndal Farestvedt\"><figure class=\"_figure_ntbth_66\"><img alt=\"Bilde av Ingrid Bjørndal Farestvedt\" class=\"_image_ntbth_93\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"low\" itemprop=\"image\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"80px\" src=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/0ca626e9-b4bd-4417-836d-161b53cb789f?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=5b2dd0bd25012766f5ae3f7d36beed24a877310b\" srcset=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/0ca626e9-b4bd-4417-836d-161b53cb789f?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=5b2dd0bd25012766f5ae3f7d36beed24a877310b 40w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/0ca626e9-b4bd-4417-836d-161b53cb789f?format=auto&amp;w=80&amp;s=7cae5527fa62dd504fdb6235ff84e0689f8946ab 80w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/0ca626e9-b4bd-4417-836d-161b53cb789f?format=auto&amp;w=100&amp;s=7e73aed00fc4aa2350ad8f2d17a9d777db424717 100w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/0ca626e9-b4bd-4417-836d-161b53cb789f?format=auto&amp;w=200&amp;s=f0776740155cd65095faa29a44bcd094a2d7dee0 200w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/0ca626e9-b4bd-4417-836d-161b53cb789f?format=auto&amp;w=240&amp;s=0a9af8ab8b6f901e09be84ce5fb3979cbdef2afd 240w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/0ca626e9-b4bd-4417-836d-161b53cb789f?format=auto&amp;w=480&amp;s=2650dbff57214054812cd878c17a20481e44297d 480w\" width=\"480\"></figure></a></li><li><a class=\"_link_ntbth_117\" href=\"/forfatter/siri-berge-christensen\" style=\"z-index:5\" title=\"Siri B. Christensen\"><figure class=\"_figure_ntbth_66\"><img alt=\"Bilde av Siri B. Christensen\" class=\"_image_ntbth_93\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"low\" itemprop=\"image\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"80px\" src=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/a212173d-addc-4415-bc7f-65a81611930f?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=a1d8c5d96cefb8dc9feb5e3ca13c9cf49bf3a6fe\" srcset=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/a212173d-addc-4415-bc7f-65a81611930f?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=a1d8c5d96cefb8dc9feb5e3ca13c9cf49bf3a6fe 40w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/a212173d-addc-4415-bc7f-65a81611930f?format=auto&amp;w=80&amp;s=230bbcc484df6d3ba0bdd0ba2a592ce4a4f13cdc 80w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/a212173d-addc-4415-bc7f-65a81611930f?format=auto&amp;w=100&amp;s=003cbdae5baac89d9f39a05a35bc9d53c3ae72a6 100w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/a212173d-addc-4415-bc7f-65a81611930f?format=auto&amp;w=200&amp;s=f3d007509f44eaecb364c22499bd4230a613611e 200w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/a212173d-addc-4415-bc7f-65a81611930f?format=auto&amp;w=240&amp;s=ec1ba69290431f51354af508a2241254de72fb36 240w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/a212173d-addc-4415-bc7f-65a81611930f?format=auto&amp;w=480&amp;s=b22f3e786a0c26568972c60d7021901adaa6d294 480w\" width=\"480\"></figure></a></li><li><a class=\"_link_ntbth_117\" href=\"/forfatter/anne-sofie-mengaaen-aasgard\" style=\"z-index:4\" title=\"Anne Sofie Mengaaen Åsgard\"><figure class=\"_figure_ntbth_66\"><img alt=\"Bilde av Anne Sofie Mengaaen Åsgard\" class=\"_image_ntbth_93\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"low\" itemprop=\"image\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"80px\" src=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/f4862adf-5748-49cd-9b8a-e6d91de08b9f?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=60498163152efc4b70087f45ce493bb93cde3c60\" srcset=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/f4862adf-5748-49cd-9b8a-e6d91de08b9f?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=60498163152efc4b70087f45ce493bb93cde3c60 40w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/f4862adf-5748-49cd-9b8a-e6d91de08b9f?format=auto&amp;w=80&amp;s=9e6c169fbab9d130a695a17e9494711e05be579b 80w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/f4862adf-5748-49cd-9b8a-e6d91de08b9f?format=auto&amp;w=100&amp;s=bbf979f920198c54fe17cc132e47f8c2d99d1f0d 100w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/f4862adf-5748-49cd-9b8a-e6d91de08b9f?format=auto&amp;w=200&amp;s=55b2b926faf007ef900c84986abaf2dd197848a8 200w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/f4862adf-5748-49cd-9b8a-e6d91de08b9f?format=auto&amp;w=240&amp;s=3dd8c1c9a045c4e87d3ef1014c63907c0bae82c7 240w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/f4862adf-5748-49cd-9b8a-e6d91de08b9f?format=auto&amp;w=480&amp;s=06d6ac30b4ec2b3824c1bcf4301647e3b1d7d0f8 480w\" width=\"480\"></figure></a></li><li><a class=\"_link_ntbth_117\" href=\"/forfatter/morten-s-hopperstad\" style=\"z-index:3\" title=\"Morten S. Hopperstad\"><figure class=\"_figure_ntbth_66\"><img alt=\"Bilde av Morten S. Hopperstad\" class=\"_image_ntbth_93\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"low\" itemprop=\"image\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"80px\" src=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/93d60eb2-0dd9-4446-a8b8-c143528ca129?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=cfdcff93b889ada5b3c63e296d1c21f071da5aca\" srcset=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/93d60eb2-0dd9-4446-a8b8-c143528ca129?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=cfdcff93b889ada5b3c63e296d1c21f071da5aca 40w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/93d60eb2-0dd9-4446-a8b8-c143528ca129?format=auto&amp;w=80&amp;s=a5a439822ef7743b98eb3ce7a94c68abdf0e9ecc 80w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/93d60eb2-0dd9-4446-a8b8-c143528ca129?format=auto&amp;w=100&amp;s=a411e834d73858d0e004bfa367d490efe2b7588e 100w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/93d60eb2-0dd9-4446-a8b8-c143528ca129?format=auto&amp;w=200&amp;s=6bfb04e58cab5f94fcb7938a6c525c635b0e4fb4 200w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/93d60eb2-0dd9-4446-a8b8-c143528ca129?format=auto&amp;w=240&amp;s=a97f201e2f34c16f5d5cbf4792b305d7bc6e6a4b 240w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/93d60eb2-0dd9-4446-a8b8-c143528ca129?format=auto&amp;w=480&amp;s=083b521a0860ecb4aa6228453281189f27360c20 480w\" width=\"480\"></figure></a></li><li><a class=\"_link_ntbth_117\" href=\"/forfatter/bjoernar-tommelstad\" style=\"z-index:2\" title=\"Bjørnar Tommelstad\"><figure class=\"_figure_ntbth_66\"><img alt=\"Bilde av Bjørnar Tommelstad\" class=\"_image_ntbth_93\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"low\" itemprop=\"image\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"80px\" src=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/65e25d40-5526-4268-aa92-03b43c6c46bf?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=45ab640f99a5a6be79113579cc5cbe3fcb825434\" srcset=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/65e25d40-5526-4268-aa92-03b43c6c46bf?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=45ab640f99a5a6be79113579cc5cbe3fcb825434 40w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/65e25d40-5526-4268-aa92-03b43c6c46bf?format=auto&amp;w=80&amp;s=4c6fc62f0fb894037185b179b60dc88dab14d94c 80w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/65e25d40-5526-4268-aa92-03b43c6c46bf?format=auto&amp;w=100&amp;s=68ecc24c5932ea2742934ec2dae924cd0ab6b114 100w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/65e25d40-5526-4268-aa92-03b43c6c46bf?format=auto&amp;w=200&amp;s=f595787b2395d2db2c6be1a88a7c1c9f189c6cd7 200w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/65e25d40-5526-4268-aa92-03b43c6c46bf?format=auto&amp;w=240&amp;s=ba6bdd8da4d1dfcb95a69dae8e2f16cf90287d0a 240w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/65e25d40-5526-4268-aa92-03b43c6c46bf?format=auto&amp;w=480&amp;s=ca503a4d6fa5593b80256b2e932cb49681c4bfe7 480w\" width=\"480\"></figure></a></li><li><a class=\"_link_ntbth_117\" href=\"/forfatter/marianne-vikaas\" style=\"z-index:1\" title=\"Marianne Vikås\"><figure class=\"_figure_ntbth_66\"><img alt=\"Bilde av Marianne Vikås\" class=\"_image_ntbth_93\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"low\" itemprop=\"image\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"80px\" src=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/d2438f37-7bc3-4fbe-9541-5b99b45f89bc?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=bac39d6f1e9df214736cb45558d42d6c9c800aee\" srcset=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/d2438f37-7bc3-4fbe-9541-5b99b45f89bc?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=bac39d6f1e9df214736cb45558d42d6c9c800aee 40w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/d2438f37-7bc3-4fbe-9541-5b99b45f89bc?format=auto&amp;w=80&amp;s=c1f4bce3fc36c16804fec3d3f15d9ca1446bb6c5 80w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/d2438f37-7bc3-4fbe-9541-5b99b45f89bc?format=auto&amp;w=100&amp;s=c3f66d3caa034bcdf017577f29585b93534fe968 100w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/d2438f37-7bc3-4fbe-9541-5b99b45f89bc?format=auto&amp;w=200&amp;s=34fb9cc5edccfd66db27c76aaf6787e7860b0c79 200w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/d2438f37-7bc3-4fbe-9541-5b99b45f89bc?format=auto&amp;w=240&amp;s=182b045684971b4fe666ab79c1ebddd7f07bac9e 240w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/d2438f37-7bc3-4fbe-9541-5b99b45f89bc?format=auto&amp;w=480&amp;s=22e1370243b1246637c3559099003dd58a084316 480w\" width=\"480\"></figure></a></li></ul><button class=\"vg-byline-toggle _showMoreImage_ntbth_45\"><svg aria-label=\"Plus\" fill=\"none\" height=\"24px\" role=\"graphics-symbol\" style=\"flex-shrink:0;height:var(--icon-size, var(--space-l));width:auto\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" width=\"24px\" xmlns=\"http://www.w3.org/2000/svg\"><path d=\"M8.53978 9.4287C9.03072 9.4287 9.4287 9.03072 9.4287 8.53978V2.88892C9.4287 2.39799 9.82669 2 10.3176 2H13.6824C14.1733 2 14.5713 2.39798 14.5713 2.88892V8.53978C14.5713 9.03072 14.9693 9.4287 15.4602 9.4287H21.1111C21.602 9.4287 22 9.82669 22 10.3176V13.6824C22 14.1733 21.602 14.5713 21.1111 14.5713H15.4602C14.9693 14.5713 14.5713 14.9693 14.5713 15.4602V21.1111C14.5713 21.602 14.1733 22 13.6824 22H10.3176C9.82669 22 9.4287 21.602 9.4287 21.1111V15.4602C9.4287 14.9693 9.03072 14.5713 8.53978 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Farestvedt</a></li><li class=\"text-sans-s _name_ntbth_131 _hidden_ntbth_27\"><a class=\"_link_ntbth_117\" href=\"/forfatter/siri-berge-christensen\">Siri B. Christensen</a></li><li class=\"text-sans-s _name_ntbth_131 _hidden_ntbth_27\"><a class=\"_link_ntbth_117\" href=\"/forfatter/anne-sofie-mengaaen-aasgard\">Anne Sofie Mengaaen Åsgard</a></li><li class=\"text-sans-s _name_ntbth_131 _hidden_ntbth_27\"><a class=\"_link_ntbth_117\" href=\"/forfatter/morten-s-hopperstad\">Morten S. Hopperstad</a></li><li class=\"text-sans-s _name_ntbth_131 _hidden_ntbth_27\"><a class=\"_link_ntbth_117\" href=\"/forfatter/bjoernar-tommelstad\">Bjørnar Tommelstad</a></li><li class=\"text-sans-s _name_ntbth_131 _hidden_ntbth_27\"><a class=\"_link_ntbth_117\" href=\"/forfatter/marianne-vikaas\">Marianne Vikås</a></li><li class=\"vg-byline-toggle _toggle_ntbth_177\"><span class=\"_open_ntbth_169\">og<!-- --> <span class=\"font-weight-semi-bold _count_ntbth_141\">7<!-- --> til</span></span><span class=\"_close_ntbth_26\">vis færre</span></li></ul><span class=\"text-sans-s _dateline_ntbth_31 _center_ntbth_8\">Rapporterer fra Høiby-rettssaken</span></section> <friendly-timestamp data-options=\"{&quot;showUpdated&quot;:false}\" style=\"display:contents\"><time class=\"text-sans-s _timestamp_ktvrt_1 _friendly_ktvrt_17 layout-component layout-normal layout-padded _center_ktvrt_3\" datetime=\"2026-02-21T06:57:04.000Z\"><span data-nosnippet=\"true\">Lørdag 21. februar kl. 07:57</span></time></friendly-timestamp>  </header>  <section class=\"article-body\" itemprop=\"articleBody\" style=\"display: contents\"> <div class=\"layout-component layout-padded layout-normal _tts_1njly_1\" data-track-id=\"tts:37165\" data-track-impression data-track-name=\"«Det har revet meg i stykker»\" data-track-target-newsroom=\"vgtts\"><astro-island await-children client=\"load\" component-export=\"TTSPlayer\" component-url=\"https://www.vg.no/vgc/cdn/vgno/assets/production/_astro/video.BMWBKEGC.js\" opts=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;TTSPlayer&quot;,&quot;value&quot;:true}\" prefix=\"r174\" props=\"{&quot;assetId&quot;:[0,37165],&quot;vendor&quot;:[0,&quot;vgtts&quot;],&quot;isApp&quot;:[0,false]}\" renderer-url=\"https://www.vg.no/vgc/cdn/vgno/assets/production/_astro/client.B4ukvwq6.js\" ssr uid=\"ZHGrUJ\"><div class=\"_svpContainer_1nwbk_1\"><div id=\"svp-video-37165-«r174R0»\"></div></div><div class=\"_perspective_1nwbk_11\"><div class=\"_controls_1nwbk_16\"><div class=\"_initial_1nwbk_33\"><button aria-disabled=\"true\" aria-label=\"Laster inn lytt til saken avspiller\" class=\"_button_6bkpv_2 button-label-large _filled_6bkpv_106 _play_10x2h_9 _button_10x2h_1\" data-track-click-intent=\"Attempt\" data-track-element-type=\"Play Button Disabled\" role=\"button\" type=\"button\"><svg aria-label=\"Play\" fill=\"none\" height=\"24px\" role=\"graphics-symbol\" style=\"flex-shrink:0;height:var(--icon-size, var(--space-l));width:auto\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" width=\"24px\" xmlns=\"http://www.w3.org/2000/svg\"><path d=\"M10.4232 2.32693L18.614 11.3269C18.9613 11.7085 18.9613 12.2915 18.614 12.6731L10.4232 21.6731C10.2337 21.8813 9.9652 22 9.68364 22H7.12555C6.57325 22 6.12552 21.5523 6.12552 21L6.12552 3.00003C6.12552 2.44773 6.57325 2 7.12555 2L9.68364 2C9.9652 2 10.2337 2.1187 10.4232 2.32693Z\" fill=\"var(--icon-color, currentColor)\"></path></svg></button><p aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"_introduction_17m6h_13\">Lytt til saken</p><p class=\"_srOnly_17m6h_1\"></p></div></div></div><!--astro:end--></astro-island></div> <astro-island await-children client=\"idle\" component-export=\"ArticleSummary\" component-url=\"https://www.vg.no/vgc/cdn/vgno/assets/production/_astro/ArticleSummary.CFoCaWwP.js\" opts=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;ArticleSummary&quot;,&quot;value&quot;:true}\" prefix=\"r12\" props=\"{&quot;articleSummary&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;items&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;Kvinnen i Lofoten vitnet i rettssaken mot Marius Borg Høiby forrige uke.&quot;],&quot;markup&quot;:[1,[]]}],[0,{&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;Her forteller moren hennes om hvordan saken har preget dem som familie.&quot;],&quot;markup&quot;:[1,[]]}],[0,{&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;Høiby nekter for å ha gjort noe straffbart og sier all sex han hadde med kvinnen var frivillig.&quot;],&quot;markup&quot;:[1,[]]}]]],&quot;blockType&quot;:[0,&quot;list:unordered&quot;]}]]],&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;feature&quot;],&quot;introType&quot;:[0,&quot;sticky&quot;]}\" renderer-url=\"https://www.vg.no/vgc/cdn/vgno/assets/production/_astro/client.B4ukvwq6.js\" ssr uid=\"260JTx\"><div class=\"_summary_64s2r_1 layout-component layout-normal layout-padded\"><track-element data-track-element-type=\"Article Summary\" data-track-id=\"article-summary\" data-track-impression=\"\" data-track-name=\"Article Summary\"><section aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-label=\"Utvid\" class=\"_box_1mfx9_1 font-vg-sans layout-component layout-normal _box_64s2r_31\" id=\"«r12R0»\" role=\"region\" style=\"max-height:var(--height)\"><div class=\"_titleContainer_64s2r_44\"><h2 class=\"title-serif-s _title_64s2r_44\">Kortversjonen</h2><button aria-label=\"Vis informasjon\" class=\"_button_6bkpv_2 button-label-large _button_64s2r_20\" data-track-id=\"article-summary-disclaimer\" data-track-name=\"Article Summary Disclaimer\" role=\"button\" type=\"button\"><svg aria-label=\"Ai\" fill=\"none\" height=\"24px\" role=\"graphics-symbol\" style=\"flex-shrink:0;height:var(--icon-size, var(--space-l));width:auto\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" width=\"24px\" xmlns=\"http://www.w3.org/2000/svg\"><path d=\"M12.4244 11.4646L17.3 13.2687V15.3201L12.4244 17.1242L10.6202 22H8.56907L6.76485 17.1242L2 15.361V13.2278L6.76485 11.4646L8.52796 6.69995H10.6613L12.4244 11.4646Z\" fill=\"var(--icon-color, currentColor)\"></path><path d=\"M19.6103 4.33579L22 5.22004V6.22577L19.6103 7.11012L18.7259 9.50008H17.7203L16.8359 7.11012L14.5 6.24569V5.20012L16.8359 4.33579L17.7003 2.00003H18.7459L19.6103 4.33579Z\" fill=\"var(--icon-color, currentColor)\"></path></svg></button></div><div class=\"_disclaimer_64s2r_50\" hidden=\"\"><span class=\"_text_64s2r_64\" data-nosnippet=\"true\">Oppsummeringen er laget med kunstig intelligens og<!-- --> <a href=\"https://www.vg.no/informasjon/redaksjonelle-avgjorelser/183\">kvalitetssikret av VGs journalister.</a></span></div><ul class=\"_list_o9xde_3 _list_64s2r_85 _unordered_o9xde_106 text-sans-m\"><li class=\"_item_o9xde_30\">Kvinnen i Lofoten vitnet i rettssaken mot Marius Borg Høiby forrige uke.</li><li class=\"_item_o9xde_30\">Her forteller moren hennes om hvordan saken har preget dem som familie.</li><li class=\"_item_o9xde_30\">Høiby nekter for å ha gjort noe straffbart og sier all sex han hadde med kvinnen var frivillig.</li></ul><button aria-controls=\"«r12R0»\" class=\"_button_6bkpv_2 button-label-large _hug_6bkpv_81 _filled_6bkpv_106 _button_1mfx9_76\" role=\"button\" type=\"button\"><span>Vis <!-- -->mer</span></button></section></track-element></div><!--astro:end--></astro-island> <p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Første gang moren mistenkte at noe var galt, var helgen etter nachspielet. Hun var på besøk i datterens leilighet og kjente henne ikke igjen.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">– Jeg reiste hjem og hadde en klump i magen, forteller hun til VG.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_o9xde_25\">I forrige uke var hun med datteren i retten. </strong></p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Fra bakerste rad så hun henne sitte overfor kronprinsessens sønn, som er tiltalt for å ha voldtatt henne natt til søndag 8. oktober 2023 – i Hennings­vær i Lofoten.</p><astro-island await-children client=\"visible\" component-export=\"Image\" component-url=\"https://www.vg.no/vgc/cdn/vgno/assets/production/_astro/Image.DOyHYySS.js\" opts=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Image&quot;,&quot;value&quot;:true}\" prefix=\"r101\" props=\"{&quot;alt&quot;:[0],&quot;caption&quot;:[0,&quot;Høiby på dag én i retten.  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Foto: Ada Wikdahl / VG</figcaption></figure><!--astro:end--></astro-island><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_o9xde_25\">– Jeg er veldig stolt over at hun fant ordene, sier moren.</strong></p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Høiby nekter for å ha gjort noe straffbart den natten.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">– Det er jo ikke sikkert han blir dømt, sier moren.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">– Og jeg har forsøkt å fokusere på at det ikke er dét som er viktig.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">På dag fem i retten måtte datteren forklare seg i detalj om natten foran en rekke fremmede fjes og både norsk og internasjonal presse. Det var også aller første gang moren fikk høre hele historien.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_o9xde_25\">– Jeg hadde lovet henne at jeg ikke skulle bryte sammen.</strong></p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">At datteren skulle knekke i vitne­boksen, var hun ikke redd for. De to håndterer vonde følelser forskjellig, ifølge moren. Hun snakker ut om dem – datteren lukker dem inne.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">– Men jeg har også sagt til henne at hun må gråte. Jeg har grått mange tårer over denne saken. Jeg har sagt at jeg tror det er en form for renselse, og at hun må gjøre det. Og da har hun svart: «Jo, jeg gråter alene». Det er ufattelig trist.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_o9xde_25\">Datteren er kjent med innholdet i dette intervjuet. </strong></p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Det er også hennes bistandsadvokat, Lill Vassbotn. Hun har ingen kommentarer til saken.</p><astro-island await-children client=\"visible\" component-export=\"SlideDeck\" component-url=\"https://www.vg.no/vgc/cdn/vgno/assets/production/_astro/SlideDeck.aJrmcGMV.js\" opts=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;SlideDeck&quot;,&quot;value&quot;:true}\" prefix=\"r112\" 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https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/c4ee635b-bd6b-483a-a47f-944173809cc9?format=auto&amp;w=2160&amp;s=ce6801d36a97acc6fdcf507a996de79248af421c 2160w\" style=\"--hotspot:53.399658203125% 37.58235724743778%;object-fit:cover\"><figcaption class=\"_figcaption_s2syr_20\"></figcaption></figure></figure><div class=\"layout-component layout-fullscreen _slide_s2syr_51 _top_s2syr_83 _left_s2syr_69\" data-color-scheme=\"dark\" data-theme=\"\" id=\"c4ee635b-bd6b-483a-a47f-944173809cc9\"><div class=\"_content_s2syr_98 _left_s2syr_69\"><p class=\"_lead_o9xde_2 _lead_6fko5_53 _lead_s2syr_104 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal\"><mark class=\"_highlight_o9xde_11 _highlight_s2syr_134 _block_s2syr_134\">Etter at datteren hadde forklart seg i retten, fikk VG en tekstmelding moren har skrevet.</mark></p></div></div><div class=\"layout-component layout-fullscreen _slide_s2syr_51 _middle_s2syr_74 _left_s2syr_69\" data-color-scheme=\"dark\" data-theme=\"\"><div class=\"_content_s2syr_98 _left_s2syr_69\"><p class=\"_lead_o9xde_2 _lead_6fko5_53 _lead_s2syr_104 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal\"><mark class=\"_highlight_o9xde_11 _highlight_s2syr_134 _block_s2syr_134\">Der forteller hun hvordan saken har påvirket dem som familie:</mark></p></div></div><div class=\"layout-component layout-fullscreen _slide_s2syr_51 _middle_s2syr_74 _left_s2syr_69\" data-color-scheme=\"dark\" data-theme=\"\"><div class=\"_content_s2syr_98 _left_s2syr_69\"><p class=\"_lead_o9xde_2 _lead_6fko5_53 _lead_s2syr_104 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal\"><em class=\"_em_o9xde_35 _block_s2syr_134\"><mark class=\"_highlight_o9xde_11 _highlight_s2syr_134 _block_s2syr_134\">«Grusomt å se sin datter gå igjennom det jævligste ei ung jente kan gå igjennom.»</mark></em></p></div></div></div><!--astro:end--></astro-island><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Datteren er én av fire kvinner som Høiby er anklaget for å ha voldtatt. </p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_o9xde_25\">I retten har han sagt at han «ligger ikke med damer som ikke er våkne».</strong></p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">De to møttes på utestedet Trevare­fabrikken i Henningsvær etter å ha matchet på Tinder. 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/ Lofotposten</figcaption></figure><!--astro:end--></astro-island><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Senere dro kronprinsen hjem til hotellet, mens Høiby ble med på nachspiel i rorbua som datteren hadde leid sammen med venner.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Der hadde de frivillig sex, først én gang, så to ganger til etter at Høiby hadde vekket henne. Dette er de begge enige om. Så spriker forklaringene:</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_o9xde_25\">Hun sier hun våknet av at Høiby hadde samleie med henne mens hun sov.</strong></p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Høiby nekter for dette. På dag fem i retten sa han:</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">«Jeg har ikke vekket henne med å ha sex med henne. Som jeg sa tidligere: Jeg har åpenbart vekket henne mange ganger for å ha sex. Det har ikke vært noe problematikk rundt det. Jeg har ikke fått ’nei’ eller ’jeg vil ikke’. Hvorfor i all verden skulle jeg gjort det da?» </p><astro-island await-children client=\"visible\" component-export=\"Image\" component-url=\"https://www.vg.no/vgc/cdn/vgno/assets/production/_astro/Image.DOyHYySS.js\" opts=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Image&quot;,&quot;value&quot;:true}\" prefix=\"r123\" props=\"{&quot;alt&quot;:[0],&quot;caption&quot;:[0,&quot;Høiby på dag seks i retten.  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Foto: Ada Wikdahl / VG\" class=\"_image_qp4xg_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen-sizes=\"(min-width: 1000px) 2000px, 2000vw\" data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"3995\" itemprop=\"image\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 980px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/76b5bb82-33c5-46ba-8f47-d769a1917076?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=36468be8921638b971cbb9a4f21d8cff6e18adf5\" srcset=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/76b5bb82-33c5-46ba-8f47-d769a1917076?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=36468be8921638b971cbb9a4f21d8cff6e18adf5 40w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/76b5bb82-33c5-46ba-8f47-d769a1917076?format=auto&amp;w=80&amp;s=db856ed6eb2d7e4f1cea82d3fa16452475fd7e97 80w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/76b5bb82-33c5-46ba-8f47-d769a1917076?format=auto&amp;w=100&amp;s=1e9d07e467779bf284bf179a6d78b7fe885a5e89 100w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/76b5bb82-33c5-46ba-8f47-d769a1917076?format=auto&amp;w=200&amp;s=6f39ce7244d12df99474c898a6180d82e3158d1e 200w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/76b5bb82-33c5-46ba-8f47-d769a1917076?format=auto&amp;w=240&amp;s=512d17ee94c55b2fb54c1c597d34234acf60c34d 240w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/76b5bb82-33c5-46ba-8f47-d769a1917076?format=auto&amp;w=480&amp;s=7b7a195ed24a99c0e8fac6677101d9b511b07250 480w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/76b5bb82-33c5-46ba-8f47-d769a1917076?format=auto&amp;w=580&amp;s=bf969d85ca545bea24b2cb4686126ee764fcc8d2 580w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/76b5bb82-33c5-46ba-8f47-d769a1917076?format=auto&amp;w=720&amp;s=4ea874295900955d8ca073276acf56f224526fa1 720w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/76b5bb82-33c5-46ba-8f47-d769a1917076?format=auto&amp;w=1080&amp;s=88b6da102fd0c35822431bfd4e3c332e67489d5e 1080w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/76b5bb82-33c5-46ba-8f47-d769a1917076?format=auto&amp;w=1440&amp;s=e0102dc59c36579fb92a7ca508a7e9a2e129589c 1440w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/76b5bb82-33c5-46ba-8f47-d769a1917076?format=auto&amp;w=2160&amp;s=ee7789608773773c7835bbdb68e46143ba8f879a 2160w\" style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"3995\"><figcaption class=\"text-sans-s _caption_qp4xg_10 layout-component\">Høiby på dag seks i retten.  Foto: Ada Wikdahl / VG</figcaption></figure><!--astro:end--></astro-island><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Datteren ble innkalt til avhør hos politiet i mai fjor, etter at de fant en video på Høibys telefon som viste hennes nakne underliv. Da var det gått halvannet år siden nachspiel-helgen.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Politiet mener Høiby har tatt opp videoen, som varer i knappe fem sekunder, mens hun sov, uten hennes viten eller samtykke.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Moren sier at datteren ikke ville at hun skulle se filmen. </p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_o9xde_25\">Da den ble vist i retten, så moren bort.</strong></p><astro-island await-children client=\"visible\" component-export=\"SlideDeck\" component-url=\"https://www.vg.no/vgc/cdn/vgno/assets/production/_astro/SlideDeck.aJrmcGMV.js\" opts=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;SlideDeck&quot;,&quot;value&quot;:true}\" prefix=\"r128\" 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tiden etter nachspielet i 2023 vokste klumpen i magen hos moren.&quot;],&quot;markup&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;length&quot;:[0,66],&quot;offset&quot;:[0,0],&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;style:highlight&quot;]}]]]}],&quot;blockType&quot;:[0,&quot;paragraph&quot;]}]]],&quot;subtype&quot;:[0,&quot;lead&quot;],&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;lead&quot;]}]]],&quot;subtype&quot;:[0,&quot;fade&quot;],&quot;textBackground&quot;:[0,true],&quot;textPosition&quot;:[0,&quot;top-left&quot;],&quot;theme&quot;:[0,&quot;&quot;],&quot;title&quot;:[0],&quot;titleSize&quot;:[0,&quot;small&quot;],&quot;titleWeight&quot;:[0,&quot;bold&quot;],&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;slide&quot;]}],[0,{&quot;backgroundComponent&quot;:[0,null],&quot;backgroundFit&quot;:[0,&quot;cover&quot;],&quot;colorScheme&quot;:[0,&quot;dark&quot;],&quot;contentComponents&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;paragraphs&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;text&quot;:[0,{&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;Også for datteren ble det bare verre og 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_figure_s2syr_5\" data-slide-index=\"0\"><img class=\"_image_s2syr_92\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"low\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 980px) 100vw, 200vw\" src=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/594b6113-b5b7-4134-adca-5a2a6cf64b5e?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=b9a52e49f031bdf2c93cafcb4f3c1f1fabc99bd6\" srcset=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/594b6113-b5b7-4134-adca-5a2a6cf64b5e?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=b9a52e49f031bdf2c93cafcb4f3c1f1fabc99bd6 40w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/594b6113-b5b7-4134-adca-5a2a6cf64b5e?format=auto&amp;w=80&amp;s=ddc9612d051a2c0fccfe7dc6e59525060301a84f 80w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/594b6113-b5b7-4134-adca-5a2a6cf64b5e?format=auto&amp;w=100&amp;s=c6d0da873257dc9b9b0927d70ea01a2fd03ec368 100w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/594b6113-b5b7-4134-adca-5a2a6cf64b5e?format=auto&amp;w=200&amp;s=d061ce03779ed78b0c2e9752e0f5bacf01abae66 200w, 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https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/594b6113-b5b7-4134-adca-5a2a6cf64b5e?format=auto&amp;w=2160&amp;s=e36d0cf1a014d270b02e8a5ef54aec59dac0c88f 2160w\" style=\"--hotspot:3.533935546875% 22.18155197657394%;object-fit:cover\"><figcaption class=\"_figcaption_s2syr_20\"></figcaption></figure></figure><div class=\"layout-component layout-fullscreen _slide_s2syr_51 _top_s2syr_83 _left_s2syr_69\" data-color-scheme=\"dark\" data-theme=\"\" id=\"594b6113-b5b7-4134-adca-5a2a6cf64b5e\"><div class=\"_content_s2syr_98 _left_s2syr_69\"><p class=\"_lead_o9xde_2 _lead_6fko5_53 _lead_s2syr_104 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal\"><mark class=\"_highlight_o9xde_11 _highlight_s2syr_134 _block_s2syr_134\">I tiden etter nachspielet i 2023 vokste klumpen i magen hos moren.</mark></p></div></div><div class=\"layout-component layout-fullscreen _slide_s2syr_51 _middle_s2syr_74 _left_s2syr_69\" data-color-scheme=\"dark\" data-theme=\"\"><div class=\"_content_s2syr_98 _left_s2syr_69\"><p class=\"_lead_o9xde_2 _lead_6fko5_53 _lead_s2syr_104 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal\"><mark class=\"_highlight_o9xde_11 _highlight_s2syr_134 _block_s2syr_134\">Også for datteren ble det bare verre og verre.</mark></p></div></div></div><!--astro:end--></astro-island><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><em class=\"_em_o9xde_35\">«Hun var ikke lenger sosial, ble mer og mer innesluttet. Hun viste ingen glede lenger, og vi ble bekymret»,</em> skriver moren i meldingen som er delt med VG.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">– Jeg tenkte: Hun kan ikke være der. Det går ikke. Og så ringte jeg og sa at hun måtte flytte hjem.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Hun oppfordret datteren til å være utendørs, få seg frisk luft og se venner. Ingenting virket.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Til slutt fortalte datteren hva som hadde skjedd. Så sa hun, ifølge moren:</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_o9xde_25\">«Ser du annerledes på meg nå?»</strong></p><div class=\"advertory-vg-netboard-wrapper__article\"><div class=\"advertory-vg-netboard__article\" id=\"brandboard_1\"></div></div><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Moren sier hun svarte: </p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">«Nei, men er det sånn du har tenkt? Du er jo den samme.»</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">I retten gjorde Høibys forsvarere et poeng av at den første gangen politiet spurte om hun mente seg utsatt for noe straffbart, svarte hun «<a class=\"_link_o9xde_39\" data-track-element-type=\"Link\" data-track-id=\"link:e7EM8l\" href=\"/nyheter/i/e7EM8l/lofoten-kvinne-i-avhoer-ikke-utsatt-for-noe-straffbart\">nei, egentlig ikke</a>». De mener dette viser at hun endret forklaring.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Da datteren i samme avhør forklarte hva som hadde skjedd den natten, valgte politiet å ta ut sak mot Høiby, på tross av at hun ikke selv ønsket det.</p><astro-island await-children client=\"visible\" component-export=\"SlideDeck\" component-url=\"https://www.vg.no/vgc/cdn/vgno/assets/production/_astro/SlideDeck.aJrmcGMV.js\" opts=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;SlideDeck&quot;,&quot;value&quot;:true}\" prefix=\"r139\" 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Hun vil ikke være et offer, sier moren til VG.&quot;],&quot;markup&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;length&quot;:[0,48],&quot;offset&quot;:[0,0],&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;style:highlight&quot;]}]]]}],&quot;blockType&quot;:[0,&quot;paragraph&quot;]}]]],&quot;subtype&quot;:[0,&quot;lead&quot;],&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;lead&quot;]}]]],&quot;subtype&quot;:[0,&quot;fade&quot;],&quot;textBackground&quot;:[0,true],&quot;textPosition&quot;:[0,&quot;bottom-left&quot;],&quot;theme&quot;:[0,&quot;&quot;],&quot;title&quot;:[0],&quot;titleSize&quot;:[0,&quot;small&quot;],&quot;titleWeight&quot;:[0,&quot;bold&quot;],&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;slide&quot;]}],[0,{&quot;backgroundComponent&quot;:[0,null],&quot;backgroundFit&quot;:[0,&quot;cover&quot;],&quot;colorScheme&quot;:[0,&quot;dark&quot;],&quot;contentComponents&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;paragraphs&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;text&quot;:[0,{&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;Datteren har alltid vært sånn, forteller 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_figure_s2syr_5\" data-slide-index=\"0\"><img class=\"_image_s2syr_92\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"low\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 980px) 100vw, 200vw\" src=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/91ad810b-4f13-45a5-8c94-6d0c9df141c2?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=58ab8f99bb23ecd675fc0f46a49e5dba85d9e87a\" srcset=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/91ad810b-4f13-45a5-8c94-6d0c9df141c2?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=58ab8f99bb23ecd675fc0f46a49e5dba85d9e87a 40w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/91ad810b-4f13-45a5-8c94-6d0c9df141c2?format=auto&amp;w=80&amp;s=c53ffc2cdcc19ac8bbdf5540050183c6337883e6 80w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/91ad810b-4f13-45a5-8c94-6d0c9df141c2?format=auto&amp;w=100&amp;s=9d617a1bb8c6aa31ac656e5e3a5c706c1c475d96 100w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/91ad810b-4f13-45a5-8c94-6d0c9df141c2?format=auto&amp;w=200&amp;s=a7b55c52dcc91b96f5b4ea3de345fbbf1847f68f 200w, 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https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/91ad810b-4f13-45a5-8c94-6d0c9df141c2?format=auto&amp;w=2160&amp;s=0f5efb8700291f8920b9b38f91b7f3f42f90ec90 2160w\" style=\"--hotspot:21.142578125% 26.54648609077599%;object-fit:cover\"><figcaption class=\"_figcaption_s2syr_20\"></figcaption></figure></figure><div class=\"layout-component layout-fullscreen _slide_s2syr_51 _bottom_s2syr_60 _left_s2syr_69\" data-color-scheme=\"dark\" data-theme=\"\" id=\"91ad810b-4f13-45a5-8c94-6d0c9df141c2\"><div class=\"_content_s2syr_98 _left_s2syr_69\"><p class=\"_lead_o9xde_2 _lead_6fko5_53 _lead_s2syr_104 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal\"><mark class=\"_highlight_o9xde_11 _highlight_s2syr_134 _block_s2syr_134\">– Hun vil ikke være et offer, sier moren til VG.</mark></p></div></div><div class=\"layout-component layout-fullscreen _slide_s2syr_51 _middle_s2syr_74 _left_s2syr_69\" data-color-scheme=\"dark\" data-theme=\"\"><div class=\"_content_s2syr_98 _left_s2syr_69\"><p class=\"_lead_o9xde_2 _lead_6fko5_53 _lead_s2syr_104 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal\"><mark class=\"_highlight_o9xde_11 _highlight_s2syr_134 _block_s2syr_134\">Datteren har alltid vært sånn, forteller hun.</mark></p></div></div></div><!--astro:end--></astro-island><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Helt fra hun var bitte liten, har hun «trøstet seg selv». Stengt ting inne og ordnet opp, uten å klage, ifølge moren.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">– Det er vel veldig menneskelig å skylde på seg selv, en kan jo kjenne seg igjen.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Hun tror det var derfor det tok tid for datteren å erkjenne hva som hadde skjedd.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><em class=\"_em_o9xde_35\">«Det har tatt lang tid for henne å klare å sette ord på overgrepet, hun fortrengte det som hadde skjedd og det har vært mye skam knyttet til hendelsen»</em>, skriver moren i meldingen som VG har fått.</p><astro-island await-children client=\"visible\" component-export=\"FactBox\" component-url=\"https://www.vg.no/vgc/cdn/vgno/assets/production/_astro/FactBox.DfF5j8Hl.js\" opts=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;FactBox&quot;,&quot;value&quot;:true}\" prefix=\"r144\" props=\"{&quot;component&quot;:[0,{&quot;title&quot;:[0,{&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;Les hele morens melding til VG&quot;]}],&quot;paragraphs&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;text&quot;:[0,{&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;Å være mor til fornærmede&quot;],&quot;markup&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;style:em&quot;],&quot;offset&quot;:[0,0],&quot;length&quot;:[0,25]}],[0,{&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;style:strong&quot;],&quot;offset&quot;:[0,0],&quot;length&quot;:[0,25]}]]]}],&quot;blockType&quot;:[0,&quot;paragraph&quot;]}],[0,{&quot;text&quot;:[0,{&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;Grusomt å se sin datter gå igjennom det jævligste ei ung jente kan gå igjennom.\\nEtter hendelsen la vi merke til at hun endret seg, hun var ikke lenger sosial, ble mer og mer innesluttet. Hun viste ingen glede lenger, og vi ble bekymret. Vi hadde ingen anelse om hva som hadde skjedd, og trodde hun var utmattet/deprimert.&quot;],&quot;markup&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;style:em&quot;],&quot;offset&quot;:[0,0],&quot;length&quot;:[0,321]}]]]}],&quot;blockType&quot;:[0,&quot;paragraph&quot;]}],[0,{&quot;text&quot;:[0,{&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;Det har tatt lang tid for henne å klare å sette ord på overgrepet, hun fortrengte det som hadde skjedd, og det har vært mye skam knyttet til hendelsen.&quot;],&quot;markup&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;style:em&quot;],&quot;offset&quot;:[0,0],&quot;length&quot;:[0,151]}]]]}],&quot;blockType&quot;:[0,&quot;paragraph&quot;]}],[0,{&quot;text&quot;:[0,{&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;Livet hennes kollapset. Hun klarte ikke å håndtere hverdagslivet med tanke på forpliktelser. Familie og vennerelasjoner er blitt påvirket av at hun trakk seg tilbake uten at de rundt forsto hvorfor. Hun har vært preget av apati og mørke tanker. Det har revet meg i stykker å se henne ha det så grusomt.&quot;],&quot;markup&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;style:em&quot;],&quot;offset&quot;:[0,0],&quot;length&quot;:[0,302]}]]]}],&quot;blockType&quot;:[0,&quot;paragraph&quot;]}],[0,{&quot;text&quot;:[0,{&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;Planer hun hadde om utdanning og etablering, ble satt på vent.&quot;],&quot;markup&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;style:em&quot;],&quot;offset&quot;:[0,0],&quot;length&quot;:[0,62]}]]]}],&quot;blockType&quot;:[0,&quot;paragraph&quot;]}],[0,{&quot;text&quot;:[0,{&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;Hun har gruet seg veldig til rettssaken, og for meg har det vært en påkjenning å følge henne igjennom dette helvetet, men også godt for meg som mamma å være her og støtte henne.&quot;],&quot;markup&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;style:em&quot;],&quot;offset&quot;:[0,0],&quot;length&quot;:[0,177]}]]]}],&quot;blockType&quot;:[0,&quot;paragraph&quot;]}]]],&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;fact&quot;]}],&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;feature&quot;]}\" renderer-url=\"https://www.vg.no/vgc/cdn/vgno/assets/production/_astro/client.B4ukvwq6.js\" ssr uid=\"ZJsNIh\"><div class=\"_factbox_16v91_30 layout-component layout-normal layout-padded\"><section aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-label=\"Utvid\" class=\"_box_1mfx9_1 font-vg-sans layout-component layout-normal _box_16v91_39\" id=\"«r144R0»\" role=\"region\" style=\"max-height:var(--height)\"><h2 class=\"_title_16v91_25 title-serif-s\">Les hele morens melding til VG</h2><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 _paragraph_16v91_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-sans-m layout-padded\"><em class=\"_em_o9xde_35\"><strong class=\"_strong_o9xde_25\">Å være mor til fornærmede</strong></em></p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 _paragraph_16v91_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-sans-m layout-padded\"><em class=\"_em_o9xde_35\">Grusomt å se sin datter gå igjennom det jævligste ei ung jente kan gå igjennom.<br>Etter hendelsen la vi merke til at hun endret seg, hun var ikke lenger sosial, ble mer og mer innesluttet. Hun viste ingen glede lenger, og vi ble bekymret. Vi hadde ingen anelse om hva som hadde skjedd, og trodde hun var utmattet/deprimert.</em></p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 _paragraph_16v91_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-sans-m layout-padded\"><em class=\"_em_o9xde_35\">Det har tatt lang tid for henne å klare å sette ord på overgrepet, hun fortrengte det som hadde skjedd, og det har vært mye skam knyttet til hendelsen.</em></p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 _paragraph_16v91_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-sans-m layout-padded\"><em class=\"_em_o9xde_35\">Livet hennes kollapset. Hun klarte ikke å håndtere hverdagslivet med tanke på forpliktelser. Familie og vennerelasjoner er blitt påvirket av at hun trakk seg tilbake uten at de rundt forsto hvorfor. Hun har vært preget av apati og mørke tanker. Det har revet meg i stykker å se henne ha det så grusomt.</em></p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 _paragraph_16v91_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-sans-m layout-padded\"><em class=\"_em_o9xde_35\">Planer hun hadde om utdanning og etablering, ble satt på vent.</em></p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 _paragraph_16v91_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-sans-m layout-padded\"><em class=\"_em_o9xde_35\">Hun har gruet seg veldig til rettssaken, og for meg har det vært en påkjenning å følge henne igjennom dette helvetet, men også godt for meg som mamma å være her og støtte henne.</em></p><button aria-controls=\"«r144R0»\" class=\"_button_6bkpv_2 button-label-large _hug_6bkpv_81 _filled_6bkpv_106 _button_1mfx9_76\" data-track-element-type=\"Factbox\" data-track-id=\"factbox:les-hele-morens-melding-til-vg\" data-track-impression=\"true\" data-track-name=\"Les hele morens melding til VG\" role=\"button\" type=\"button\"><span>Vis <!-- -->mer</span></button></section></div><!--astro:end--></astro-island><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Den sjette dagen i retten ble det vist frem en melding Høiby skrev til en kamerat etter at de to hadde hatt sex. </p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">«Ha ha ha, se på det trollet her», skrev han blant annet og lenket til Tinder-profilen hennes.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_o9xde_25\">– Det sier bare noe om ham, mener moren. </strong></p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">– Han virker veldig ... dobbel, egentlig. I den familien han er fra ... han vet jo hvordan man oppfører seg. Så ser det ut som om han prøver på det, og så faller det gjennom.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Høiby selv har beklaget meldingen som <a class=\"_link_o9xde_39\" data-track-element-type=\"Link\" data-track-id=\"link:XMq9px\" href=\"/nyheter/i/XMq9px/hoeiby-konfrontert-med-meldinger-i-retten-forkastelig-gutteprat\">«forkastelig gutteprat».</a></p><astro-island await-children client=\"visible\" component-export=\"Image\" component-url=\"https://www.vg.no/vgc/cdn/vgno/assets/production/_astro/Image.DOyHYySS.js\" opts=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Image&quot;,&quot;value&quot;:true}\" prefix=\"r150\" props=\"{&quot;alt&quot;:[0],&quot;caption&quot;:[0,&quot;Høiby på dag seks i retten.  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Foto: Ada Wikdahl / VG\" class=\"_image_qp4xg_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen-sizes=\"(min-width: 1000px) 2000px, 2000vw\" data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"2016\" itemprop=\"image\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 980px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/7ce66af4-e80a-4438-bbd1-378abe0433e4?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=74c88dc22e2a18017ff5d7ea9fde8ae6d3c12b9a\" srcset=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/7ce66af4-e80a-4438-bbd1-378abe0433e4?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=74c88dc22e2a18017ff5d7ea9fde8ae6d3c12b9a 40w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/7ce66af4-e80a-4438-bbd1-378abe0433e4?format=auto&amp;w=80&amp;s=06740532ecc4c81ec19a0c838f6b37e8beb7b41a 80w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/7ce66af4-e80a-4438-bbd1-378abe0433e4?format=auto&amp;w=100&amp;s=3965c6c623f499f0feb19bf8651c6761043b1004 100w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/7ce66af4-e80a-4438-bbd1-378abe0433e4?format=auto&amp;w=200&amp;s=474a3f10fa7ad937c77d66001a89d0724f88ee0d 200w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/7ce66af4-e80a-4438-bbd1-378abe0433e4?format=auto&amp;w=240&amp;s=dc5e4fa597823d3ac5451519f261ca3ce135e9c8 240w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/7ce66af4-e80a-4438-bbd1-378abe0433e4?format=auto&amp;w=480&amp;s=d31cd46cb92e85efc2a8bc52ef2b25cc7494d4e8 480w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/7ce66af4-e80a-4438-bbd1-378abe0433e4?format=auto&amp;w=580&amp;s=8e2ef4405fde6ae43f043f858036e713c5ad23d1 580w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/7ce66af4-e80a-4438-bbd1-378abe0433e4?format=auto&amp;w=720&amp;s=3ba130cfe54d876563a0150f8a5ed55c070503c7 720w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/7ce66af4-e80a-4438-bbd1-378abe0433e4?format=auto&amp;w=1080&amp;s=589da49c24ca186423172669094ac4c421a609d7 1080w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/7ce66af4-e80a-4438-bbd1-378abe0433e4?format=auto&amp;w=1440&amp;s=703f101b6d0376e77935b0b917b0cf3f7b516dde 1440w\" style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"2016\"><figcaption class=\"text-sans-s _caption_qp4xg_10 layout-component\">Høiby på dag seks i retten.  Foto: Ada Wikdahl / VG</figcaption></figure><!--astro:end--></astro-island><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Da han ble konfrontert med om han dobbeltkommuniserte, fordi han samme dag hadde sendt en hyggelig melding til kvinnen, <a class=\"_link_o9xde_39\" data-track-element-type=\"Link\" data-track-id=\"link:XMq9px\" href=\"/nyheter/i/XMq9px/hoeiby-konfrontert-med-meldinger-i-retten-forkastelig-gutteprat\">svarte han</a>:</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">«Ja, absolutt. Altså, jeg vil jo bare være hyggelig og grei med henne. Jeg har jo ikke lyst at hun skal få en kjip og dårlig opplevelse.»</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Hans forsvarer Ellen Holager Andenæs har tidligere kommentert oppførselen hans slik:</p><div class=\"advertory-vg-netboard-wrapper__article\"><div class=\"advertory-vg-netboard__article\" id=\"brandboard_2\"></div></div><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">– Man kan nesten si det sånn at hvis det hadde vært straffbart å oppføre seg som en drittsekk, så hadde han vært dømt. Det er det ikke tvil om. Det er ikke det saken handler om.</p><astro-island await-children client=\"visible\" component-export=\"Image\" component-url=\"https://www.vg.no/vgc/cdn/vgno/assets/production/_astro/Image.DOyHYySS.js\" opts=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Image&quot;,&quot;value&quot;:true}\" prefix=\"r156\" props=\"{&quot;alt&quot;:[0],&quot;caption&quot;:[0,&quot;Foto: Gisle Oddstad / 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renderer-url=\"https://www.vg.no/vgc/cdn/vgno/assets/production/_astro/client.B4ukvwq6.js\" ssr uid=\"ZtlY6e\"><figure class=\"_figure_qp4xg_1 layout-component layout-normal layout-padded\"><img alt=\"Foto: Gisle Oddstad / VG\" class=\"_image_qp4xg_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen-sizes=\"(min-width: 1000px) 2000px, 2000vw\" data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"2670\" itemprop=\"image\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 980px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/48d4f5f0-0133-4f4d-a8ba-820b6b9f3c0f?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=0b22e8faf23156f4467958024b5baec6f4b289a1\" srcset=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/48d4f5f0-0133-4f4d-a8ba-820b6b9f3c0f?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=0b22e8faf23156f4467958024b5baec6f4b289a1 40w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/48d4f5f0-0133-4f4d-a8ba-820b6b9f3c0f?format=auto&amp;w=80&amp;s=42646f569326dcb4b05209fd0e2fb1e845b7700f 80w, 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https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/48d4f5f0-0133-4f4d-a8ba-820b6b9f3c0f?format=auto&amp;w=1080&amp;s=42e29fb2999cc13c0b0336ca6bef748e2fb9d851 1080w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/48d4f5f0-0133-4f4d-a8ba-820b6b9f3c0f?format=auto&amp;w=1440&amp;s=70d96d27a7a4cd35930d257c9e892ade0997358f 1440w, https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/48d4f5f0-0133-4f4d-a8ba-820b6b9f3c0f?format=auto&amp;w=2160&amp;s=6dd7f5aa9b66684f1b2decb8222b1aa07b8ff134 2160w\" style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"2671\"><figcaption class=\"text-sans-s _caption_qp4xg_10 layout-component\">Foto: Gisle Oddstad / VG</figcaption></figure><!--astro:end--></astro-island><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">VG har kontaktet Høibys forsvarere i forbindelse med denne saken. De har ingenting å tilføye dette.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">For at Høiby skal bli dømt på dette punktet i tiltalen, må aktoratet bevise at han ikke bare hadde sex med henne mens hun sov – men at han også forsto at hun sov.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_o9xde_25\">Moren synes det har vært lite fokus på hvordan denne saken har preget familiene til kvinnene som er involvert.</strong></p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">– Jeg skal ikke si vi er traumatisert, men hva er det rette å gjøre nå? Hvordan skal vi fortsette livet? Hvordan kan vi støtte dem i det her?</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Begge har gruet seg til rettssaken, særlig til den massive presse­dekningen. Datteren har vært mest redd for å bli identifisert, og for at saken kunne bli knyttet til navnet hennes resten av livet.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">– Jeg har sagt at når rettssaken er over, så ligger den bak oss. Vi er nødt til å gå fremover, sier moren.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">– Vi må bare kvitte oss med alt og gå en ny sti.</p><astro-island await-children client=\"visible\" component-export=\"Image\" component-url=\"https://www.vg.no/vgc/cdn/vgno/assets/production/_astro/Image.DOyHYySS.js\" opts=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Image&quot;,&quot;value&quot;:true}\" prefix=\"r164\" 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De lager middag, går turer. De prater helst ikke om saken.</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_o9xde_25\">– Hun åpner seg ikke annet enn at hun kan si at «det er helt jævlig», forteller moren.</strong></p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Datteren ville helst ha sluppet å være til stede i det hele tatt, ifølge moren. Samtidig sier hun:</p><p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">– Jeg tror det er veldig viktig for henne at hun har fortalt sin historie. Jeg tenker at det var nødvendig. For å kunne gå videre.</p><section class=\"_tip_uv074_1 layout-component layout-normal layout-padded\"> <astro-island await-children client=\"visible\" component-export=\"default\" component-url=\"https://www.vg.no/vgc/cdn/vgno/assets/production/_astro/Authors.CldWfBUv.js\" opts=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Authors&quot;,&quot;value&quot;:true}\" prefix=\"r172\" props=\"{&quot;authors&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;id&quot;:[0,&quot;903effb8-533f-480b-a779-7a9eefbdbdc7&quot;],&quot;title&quot;:[0,&quot;Ingri Bergo&quot;],&quot;description&quot;:[0,&quot;Journalist i VGs nyhetsavdeling. Spesialisert krim- og utenriksreporter. &quot;],&quot;contacts&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;email&quot;],&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;ingri.bergo@vg.no&quot;]}],[0,{&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;department&quot;],&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;Nyheter&quot;]}],[0,{&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;sub-department&quot;],&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;Krim&quot;]}]]],&quot;image&quot;:[0,&quot;54d6a199-98c6-4ec2-936e-475f0460a62d&quot;],&quot;imageAsset&quot;:[0,{&quot;id&quot;:[0,&quot;54d6a199-98c6-4ec2-936e-475f0460a62d&quot;],&quot;size&quot;:[0,{&quot;height&quot;:[0],&quot;width&quot;:[0,480]}],&quot;urls&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;height&quot;:[0],&quot;url&quot;:[0,&quot;https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/54d6a199-98c6-4ec2-936e-475f0460a62d?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=4bc5c5f74136efe11249fa8a5d4105400d7b19ba&quot;],&quot;width&quot;:[0,40]}],[0,{&quot;height&quot;:[0],&quot;url&quot;:[0,&quot;https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/54d6a199-98c6-4ec2-936e-475f0460a62d?format=auto&amp;w=80&amp;s=2f21e79dccc395fd71cf89b268c27dce856d7ce4&quot;],&quot;width&quot;:[0,80]}],[0,{&quot;height&quot;:[0],&quot;url&quot;:[0,&quot;https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/54d6a199-98c6-4ec2-936e-475f0460a62d?format=auto&amp;w=100&amp;s=12fa85814d0a4bfccc4423589f11221c3c484702&quot;],&quot;width&quot;:[0,100]}],[0,{&quot;height&quot;:[0],&quot;url&quot;:[0,&quot;https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/54d6a199-98c6-4ec2-936e-475f0460a62d?format=auto&amp;w=200&amp;s=431875d8e401605167fc796f54ee81bc5f9f4b85&quot;],&quot;width&quot;:[0,200]}],[0,{&quot;height&quot;:[0],&quot;url&quot;:[0,&quot;https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/54d6a199-98c6-4ec2-936e-475f0460a62d?format=auto&amp;w=240&amp;s=0ac4a2d461b2f0f113ee9d0927c5ac4b989d50c9&quot;],&quot;width&quot;:[0,240]}],[0,{&quot;height&quot;:[0],&quot;url&quot;:[0,&quot;https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/54d6a199-98c6-4ec2-936e-475f0460a62d?format=auto&amp;w=480&amp;s=70523f2265af13fc92db879fd2faf5b76b512a82&quot;],&quot;width&quot;:[0,480]}]]]}],&quot;slug&quot;:[0,&quot;ingri-bergo&quot;],&quot;enabled&quot;:[0,true],&quot;scope&quot;:[0,&quot;vg&quot;],&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;internal&quot;]}],[0,{&quot;id&quot;:[0,&quot;c1aeeae7-0414-4880-a756-99cf2191225e&quot;],&quot;title&quot;:[0,&quot;Jørgen Braastad (foto)&quot;],&quot;description&quot;:[0,&quot;Fotograf og bildesjef i VG siden 2004. Jobber med nyheter og reportasjer fra Oslo.&quot;],&quot;contacts&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;email&quot;],&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;jorgen.braastad@vg.no&quot;]}],[0,{&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;sub-department&quot;],&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;Krim&quot;]}],[0,{&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;department&quot;],&quot;value&quot;:[0,&quot;Nyheter&quot;]}]]],&quot;image&quot;:[0,&quot;5a085561-f3f9-4a69-a5a4-26cb9fbfa812&quot;],&quot;imageAsset&quot;:[0,{&quot;id&quot;:[0,&quot;5a085561-f3f9-4a69-a5a4-26cb9fbfa812&quot;],&quot;size&quot;:[0,{&quot;height&quot;:[0],&quot;width&quot;:[0,480]}],&quot;urls&quot;:[1,[[0,{&quot;height&quot;:[0],&quot;url&quot;:[0,&quot;https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/5a085561-f3f9-4a69-a5a4-26cb9fbfa812?format=auto&amp;w=40&amp;s=1f1f435c60bc89d39fe6b7c290ef4a0115edbc02&quot;],&quot;width&quot;:[0,40]}],[0,{&quot;height&quot;:[0],&quot;url&quot;:[0,&quot;https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/5a085561-f3f9-4a69-a5a4-26cb9fbfa812?format=auto&amp;w=80&amp;s=3c046d2e8dfa94050628b388862e811f9f092f43&quot;],&quot;width&quot;:[0,80]}],[0,{&quot;height&quot;:[0],&quot;url&quot;:[0,&quot;https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/5a085561-f3f9-4a69-a5a4-26cb9fbfa812?format=auto&amp;w=100&amp;s=9150bd352c6ccb19de824f12365b780ed105c33b&quot;],&quot;width&quot;:[0,100]}],[0,{&quot;height&quot;:[0],&quot;url&quot;:[0,&quot;https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/5a085561-f3f9-4a69-a5a4-26cb9fbfa812?format=auto&amp;w=200&amp;s=190cee3ebc455f9336ec6cbc46adf60ed7c798fb&quot;],&quot;width&quot;:[0,200]}],[0,{&quot;height&quot;:[0],&quot;url&quot;:[0,&quot;https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/5a085561-f3f9-4a69-a5a4-26cb9fbfa812?format=auto&amp;w=240&amp;s=05be062ffacaa48150271acfae55990668116e7b&quot;],&quot;width&quot;:[0,240]}],[0,{&quot;height&quot;:[0],&quot;url&quot;:[0,&quot;https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/5a085561-f3f9-4a69-a5a4-26cb9fbfa812?format=auto&amp;w=480&amp;s=acf149b557972a7fac45e5f86aa95b50ce835cc9&quot;],&quot;width&quot;:[0,480]}]]]}],&quot;slug&quot;:[0,&quot;joergen-braastad&quot;],&quot;enabled&quot;:[0,true],&quot;scope&quot;:[0,&quot;vg&quot;],&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;internal&quot;]}]]],&quot;type&quot;:[0,&quot;feature&quot;]}\" 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src=\"https://akamai.vgc.no/v2/images/54d6a199-98c6-4ec2-936e-475f0460a62d?format=auto&amp;w=200&amp;s=431875d8e401605167fc796f54ee81bc5f9f4b85\" width=\"480\"></div><div class=\"_back_uv074_75\"><h3 class=\"\n        title-serif-xs\">Kontakt Ingri Bergo</h3><div class=\"_contact_uv074_127\" data-track-element-type=\"Contact Buttons\"><a aria-label=\"Send e-post\" class=\"_button_6bkpv_2 button-label-large _filled_6bkpv_106 _button_uv074_159\" data-track-name=\"Email\" href=\"mailto:ingri.bergo@vg.no\" itemprop=\"email\"><svg aria-label=\"Mail\" fill=\"none\" height=\"24px\" role=\"graphics-symbol\" style=\"flex-shrink:0;height:var(--icon-size, var(--space-l));width:auto\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" width=\"24px\" xmlns=\"http://www.w3.org/2000/svg\"><path d=\"M20.6143 9.16797C20.7805 9.06062 20.9998 9.18002 21 9.37793V18.75C21 18.8881 20.8881 19 20.75 19H3.25C3.11193 19 3 18.8881 3 18.75V9.37793C3.0002 9.18002 3.21953 9.06062 3.38574 9.16797L11.8643 14.6631C11.947 14.7167 12.053 14.7167 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