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1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/287bb907-29e3-425d-8b92-f6ef9d8b8b87?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1024&amp;w=1024&amp;s=102ddb106904a658d0da39743568123226498208 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/287bb907-29e3-425d-8b92-f6ef9d8b8b87?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=980&amp;w=980&amp;s=1486dd113f5a26657ac5dc86167fc0e7172b450b 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/287bb907-29e3-425d-8b92-f6ef9d8b8b87?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=780&amp;w=780&amp;s=2488c704680c5e12a729d02838214cff1104cad9 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/287bb907-29e3-425d-8b92-f6ef9d8b8b87?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=580&amp;w=580&amp;s=3e056eb2859d5f2711db41d5daff4c8d2486b72b 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/287bb907-29e3-425d-8b92-f6ef9d8b8b87?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=380&amp;w=380&amp;s=c5976df007fc5775ede4131860297f5e7f948ca3 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/287bb907-29e3-425d-8b92-f6ef9d8b8b87?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=200&amp;w=200&amp;s=fdbaaa518676172399f5889618f476603d7f65c9 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/287bb907-29e3-425d-8b92-f6ef9d8b8b87?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=100&amp;w=100&amp;s=5d68b52e0473133cebf6a6506c59c02dab0ec401 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048\"></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-15yg6nk\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-ql8zrs\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Christina Pletten</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-lc8ynt\">Kommentator i Aftenposten</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><figure class=\"image fullWidthDesktop top stretch-image-asset-on-mobile landscape hyperion-css-mochwu\" data-test-tag=\"image\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-fce237\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"high\" loading=\"eager\" sizes=\"(min-width: 380px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/44386160-b312-4d61-bf64-38e0f970ac83?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1365&amp;w=2048&amp;s=e716728a6dabb3493958ea6941bb3be5faf0c34a\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/44386160-b312-4d61-bf64-38e0f970ac83?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1365&amp;w=2048&amp;s=e716728a6dabb3493958ea6941bb3be5faf0c34a 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/44386160-b312-4d61-bf64-38e0f970ac83?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=960&amp;w=1440&amp;s=c3792057a7add1b0b775c106ab9c6d697267fa5d 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/44386160-b312-4d61-bf64-38e0f970ac83?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=683&amp;w=1024&amp;s=e231dc154d782578693eef5a5afa9e12ca47ea12 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/44386160-b312-4d61-bf64-38e0f970ac83?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=653&amp;w=980&amp;s=bc4d7738d190bb6bfd96a6d32b3abc6e00084a1d 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/44386160-b312-4d61-bf64-38e0f970ac83?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=520&amp;w=780&amp;s=e9db20319f6bf5b408df22a30c0a02e0885bded5 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/44386160-b312-4d61-bf64-38e0f970ac83?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=387&amp;w=580&amp;s=d414fc865cdf89580e7784f15c2aee750ef2e572 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/44386160-b312-4d61-bf64-38e0f970ac83?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=253&amp;w=380&amp;s=1cb7ade1649214abdde1c53bac06a2a84ad39f22 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/44386160-b312-4d61-bf64-38e0f970ac83?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=133&amp;w=200&amp;s=ef5622bcebd4452583ead658a2a4804019210fae 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/44386160-b312-4d61-bf64-38e0f970ac83?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=67&amp;w=100&amp;s=81f209c830e6d79669c7131afd1f48b1ba08d1c9 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1365\"><figcaption class=\"image-figcaption hyperion-css-1ksg4fz\" data-test-tag=\"image:caption\"><span class=\"image-byline hyperion-css-161dy2i\"> Foto: Michael Probst / AP</span></figcaption></figure><p class=\"contentWidth hyperion-css-1mepuqa\" data-test-tag=\"lead-text\">USA har grisebanket Europa et helt år. Er det virkelig kjærlighet, Marco Rubio?</p><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-h9wc15\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 14.02.2026 12:50\" datetime=\"2026-02-14T11:50:50Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 14.02.2026 12:50</time></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-r76qyg\" data-nosnippet=\"true\" data-test-tag=\"content-disclaimer\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-pk02ew\">Dette er en kommentar. Kommentaren gir uttrykk for skribentens meninger. <a aria-label=\"Les mer om debattinnlegg og kronikker i Aftenposten.\" class=\"hyperion-css-1raymq9\" data-test-tag=\"internal-link\" href=\"/meninger/debatt/i/Ooyk/informasjon-om-debattinnlegg-og-kronikker-til-aftenposten\" rel=\"\" target=\"\" theme=\"opinion\">Les mer her.</a></span></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">Det var Valentinsdagen, men Europa hadde gitt opp forholdet for lengst. </p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">Hun hadde stålsatt seg for livet som singel. Innsett at hun måtte stå på egne ben. Få orden på økonomien og feie for sin egen dør. Alt det der. Og begynt å se seg om etter nye partnere. Det er jo mange fisk i sjøen, som man sier. </p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-1xvjrme\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"«Jeg har mange måneder igjen», sa OL-helten med klovnebuksene. Noen timer senere døde han. \" class=\"imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/amagasinet/i/pBAjno/thomas-ulsrud-skulle-gjoere-et-siste-forsoek-paa-aa-vinne-ol-gull-en-rutinekontroll-viste-at-han-hadde-kreft\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1u88iul\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=409&amp;w=545&amp;s=4a1a10cb5bcc17c4cd969114e5daca9ce9761299\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=409&amp;w=545&amp;s=4a1a10cb5bcc17c4cd969114e5daca9ce9761299 545w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=fc9e5cf955fa6f8fdb78ca552e068c8eac396648 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=b707d09600332213bca80575d3fd07e85580093d 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=f24825aff019f7f8c5a2c28befc73d8f5bc0659a 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:545 / 409\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">A-MAGASINET<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-02-13T19:28:36Z\" datetime=\"2026-02-13T19:28:36Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">I går 20:28</time></div></div></div><div class=\"opinion hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">«Jeg har mange måneder igjen», sa OL-helten med klovnebuksene. Noen timer senere døde han. </h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Da hun mistet Ari Behn, hadde hun ingen forventninger til livet. – Døden førte oss sammen.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/amagasinet/i/gk058a/de-ga-kjaerligheten-en-ny-sjanse-dette-tenker-parene-i-dag\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/119ba9ad-d9cb-4866-bd87-408259fd9b08?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=b5f3b76bac3ad3716e9746f823f93b1278122fb0\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/119ba9ad-d9cb-4866-bd87-408259fd9b08?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=b5f3b76bac3ad3716e9746f823f93b1278122fb0 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/119ba9ad-d9cb-4866-bd87-408259fd9b08?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=c2bbcdcd53567e16bd3c197510c5b671fe4b0e2b 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/119ba9ad-d9cb-4866-bd87-408259fd9b08?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=fc21f27edeb43ba7a4d6c6106707409865fd6838 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/119ba9ad-d9cb-4866-bd87-408259fd9b08?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=aada5374028d970df044fa6c35b62d60ff32c526 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/119ba9ad-d9cb-4866-bd87-408259fd9b08?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=7023239d59a178c281a6c01868771ca1cc207f4d 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/119ba9ad-d9cb-4866-bd87-408259fd9b08?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=ef16f43abaed24271beec760304151b9c01bca98 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/119ba9ad-d9cb-4866-bd87-408259fd9b08?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=c0ff74d989ee4b7bf3b5ebee6ec298b19978b4df 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/119ba9ad-d9cb-4866-bd87-408259fd9b08?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=35a2a5e65808c64f90e05cad6879000f8b50afad 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/119ba9ad-d9cb-4866-bd87-408259fd9b08?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=e9597e4ae460a3ff2b714e9483914c884f4e94dd 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">A-MAGASINET<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-02-14T06:30:10Z\" datetime=\"2026-02-14T06:30:10Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">I dag 07:30</time></div></div></div><div class=\"opinion hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Da hun mistet Ari Behn, hadde hun ingen forventninger til livet. – Døden førte oss sammen.</h2></div></div></a></li></ol></div></div><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard-wrapper__article advertory-aftenposten-paywall-ad\"><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard__article\" id=\"paywall_ad_board\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1q3hux1\"><button aria-label=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" class=\"hyperion-css-1t4sy44\" title=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" type=\"button\">Tilbake til forsiden</button></div></div><div></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1927kqg\" id=\"superright-side\"></div></div><footer class=\"hyperion-css-1ykq07t\" role=\"contentinfo\"><div class=\"container\"><div class=\"links\"><ul><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/tips\">Tips 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   "summary" : "USA har grisebanket Europa et helt år. Er det virkelig kjærlighet, Marco Rubio?",
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   "title" : "Rubio og USA oppfører seg som en voldelig ektemann på Valentinsdagen",
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