Utroskap i familien: – Det folk sier, stemmer ikke
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Dette fraråder psykologen på det sterkeste.
Utroskap hos foreldre: – Det folk sier, stemmer ikke
En forelder har vært utro, og alt er kaos. Hvordan ivaretar man barna? Her er tre scenarioer.ap-feature-arrow
– Kriser treffer familier i mange varianter, og utroskap er en krise som treffer ganske mange.
Hedvig Montgomery er psykolog og parterapeut. På sitt kontor har hun snakket med utallige foreldrepar der den ene har vært utro.
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Dette fraråder psykologen på det sterkeste.
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Utroskap hos foreldre: – Det folk sier, stemmer ikke
En forelder har vært utro, og alt er kaos. Hvordan ivaretar man barna? Her er tre scenarioer.ap-feature-arrow
– Kriser treffer familier i mange varianter, og utroskap er en krise som treffer ganske mange.
Hedvig Montgomery er psykolog og parterapeut. På sitt kontor har hun snakket med utallige foreldrepar der den ene har vært utro.
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Hvordan ivaretar man barna? Her er tre scenarioer.<svg aria-hidden="true" class="svg-symbol hyperion-css-d1iv49" height="32" role="img" theme="default" viewbox="0 0 32 32" width="32"><title>ap-feature-arrow</title><use xlink:href="#ap-feature-arrow"></use></svg></p></div></div><div class="paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu"><div class="hyperion-css-qwp0ac" data-test-tag="byline" data-testid="byline"><ul class="hyperion-css-1772xtw" data-test-tag="byline:authors" data-testid="byline:authors"><li class="hyperion-css-b8p8ys"><a aria-label="Se journalistens profil: Amalie Lereng" class="hyperion-css-1x0qoq7" href="http://aftenposten.no/av/amalie-lereng" title="Se journalistens profil: Amalie Lereng"><div class="hyperion-css-y7i40o"><img alt="Amalie Lereng" class="image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" sizes="(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=2f38a4ab900529e6b47c5ebb5ebbcf1ab3f6068a" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=2f38a4ab900529e6b47c5ebb5ebbcf1ab3f6068a 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1440&w=1440&s=84b2c8470aa36dc860413bba12497068521dbaad 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1024&w=1024&s=1a899cacbf4106e1194785fc4379f335d8d5a214 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=980&w=980&s=705392d358c83d44074f323708b62a67c09a0547 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=780&w=780&s=77880c4d5cb5b21e356350be844e67cd3803e318 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=580&w=580&s=2232b0c51666a6acff0d740f0df5a0e6cfdb54a3 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=380&w=380&s=aa0a09d3d0ff9dbec18deab69ed9575284f3a0be 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=200&w=200&s=c35b2bb0dbca32ad5d9eebbd9315a2d626cf6b77 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=100&w=100&s=ccd90f63bffe03622cc40772b4c2d97bd6cd98e9 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048"></div><div class="hyperion-css-0"><span class="byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf" data-test-tag="byline:author-name" data-testid="byline:author-name">Amalie Lereng</span><div class="hyperion-css-lc8ynt">Journalist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class="paywall hyperion-css-okzep" data-test-tag="timestamp"><div><time aria-label="Publisert: 14.02.2026 08:00" datetime="2026-02-14T07:00:10Z" itemprop="datePublished">Publisert: 14.02.2026 08:00</time></div></div><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic">– Kriser treffer familier i mange varianter, og utroskap er en krise som treffer ganske mange.</p><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic">Hedvig Montgomery er psykolog og parterapeut. På sitt kontor har hun snakket med utallige foreldrepar der den ene har vært utro. </p><div class="hyperion-css-1ykv2lv"><div class="hyperion-css-l9jsj3"><p class="hyperion-css-1qm9e9t">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class="hyperion-css-1xvjrme" type="button">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class="advertory-brandmetrics-survey" id="brandmetrics-survey"></div><div class="extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v" id="widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold"><h2 class="hyperion-css-r57xc5" data-test-tag="widget:title">Les også</h2><div class="bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi"><ol class="hyperion-css-1700tdj"><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="«Jeg har mange måneder igjen», sa OL-helten med klovnebuksene. Noen timer senere døde han. " class="imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/amagasinet/i/pBAjno/thomas-ulsrud-skulle-gjoere-et-siste-forsoek-paa-aa-vinne-ol-gull-en-rutinekontroll-viste-at-han-hadde-kreft" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-1u88iul" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=409&w=545&s=4a1a10cb5bcc17c4cd969114e5daca9ce9761299" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=409&w=545&s=4a1a10cb5bcc17c4cd969114e5daca9ce9761299 545w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=fc9e5cf955fa6f8fdb78ca552e068c8eac396648 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=b707d09600332213bca80575d3fd07e85580093d 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=f24825aff019f7f8c5a2c28befc73d8f5bc0659a 100w" style="aspect-ratio:545 / 409"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">A-MAGASINET<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2026-02-13T19:28:36Z" datetime="2026-02-13T19:28:36Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">I går 20:28</time></div></div></div><div class="feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">«Jeg har mange måneder igjen», sa OL-helten med klovnebuksene. Noen timer senere døde han. </h2></div></div></a></li><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="Hva er innenfor å gjøre etter sex? Det er god læring i å se til det Høiby sa." class="imagePosition-top medium opinion-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/meninger/kommentar/i/bOGG9k/la-det-komme-noe-positivt-ut-av-hoeiby-saken" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=33b72ce856ecbcf59d4fa83e1728866ac47b070f" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=33b72ce856ecbcf59d4fa83e1728866ac47b070f 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=41b3a28d785b2ced2a1b050a37947fa7bf3b73c3 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=feed1f01695a2bf41723d440c1996d85aec1be66 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=3a45277d34e03240a8619784ac46ccde51c764d4 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=a1d9ca9abc0c2b7670e2c1a112fcbc0f0a28705f 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=f725fd234338b0fa9c606ac8a98f5249c9583114 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=1576acde5d79ea7f8b154d60874362f925843ee4 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=72b27bc42e697bf8cc807b52d06b399140194594 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=161cbb221f12777f355c9b857835c25d2b365c0c 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">KOMMENTAR<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2026-02-12T07:30:05Z" datetime="2026-02-12T07:30:05Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">12. februar</time></div></div></div><div class="feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">Hva er innenfor å gjøre etter sex? 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aria-label=\"Utroskap\" class=\"hyperion-css-1raymq9\" data-test-tag=\"internal-link\" href=\"/tag/utroskap\" rel=\"\" target=\"\" theme=\"feature\">Utroskap</a></div></div><h1 class=\"intro-title\">Utroskap hos foreldre: – Det folk sier, stemmer ikke</h1><p class=\"intro-lead\">En forelder har vært utro, og alt er kaos. Hvordan ivaretar man barna? Her er tre scenarioer.<svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"svg-symbol hyperion-css-d1iv49\" height=\"32\" role=\"img\" theme=\"default\" viewbox=\"0 0 32 32\" width=\"32\"><title>ap-feature-arrow</title><use xlink:href=\"#ap-feature-arrow\"></use></svg></p></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-qwp0ac\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-1772xtw\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-b8p8ys\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Amalie Lereng\" class=\"hyperion-css-1x0qoq7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/amalie-lereng\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Amalie Lereng\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-y7i40o\"><img alt=\"Amalie Lereng\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" sizes=\"(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=2f38a4ab900529e6b47c5ebb5ebbcf1ab3f6068a\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=2f38a4ab900529e6b47c5ebb5ebbcf1ab3f6068a 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1440&w=1440&s=84b2c8470aa36dc860413bba12497068521dbaad 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1024&w=1024&s=1a899cacbf4106e1194785fc4379f335d8d5a214 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=980&w=980&s=705392d358c83d44074f323708b62a67c09a0547 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=780&w=780&s=77880c4d5cb5b21e356350be844e67cd3803e318 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=580&w=580&s=2232b0c51666a6acff0d740f0df5a0e6cfdb54a3 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=380&w=380&s=aa0a09d3d0ff9dbec18deab69ed9575284f3a0be 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=200&w=200&s=c35b2bb0dbca32ad5d9eebbd9315a2d626cf6b77 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=100&w=100&s=ccd90f63bffe03622cc40772b4c2d97bd6cd98e9 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048\"></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Amalie Lereng</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-lc8ynt\">Journalist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 14.02.2026 08:00\" datetime=\"2026-02-14T07:00:10Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 14.02.2026 08:00</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">– Kriser treffer familier i mange varianter, og utroskap er en krise som treffer ganske mange.</p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">Hedvig Montgomery er psykolog og parterapeut. På sitt kontor har hun snakket med utallige foreldrepar der den ene har vært utro. </p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-1xvjrme\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"«Jeg har mange måneder igjen», sa OL-helten med klovnebuksene. Noen timer senere døde han. \" class=\"imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/amagasinet/i/pBAjno/thomas-ulsrud-skulle-gjoere-et-siste-forsoek-paa-aa-vinne-ol-gull-en-rutinekontroll-viste-at-han-hadde-kreft\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1u88iul\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=409&w=545&s=4a1a10cb5bcc17c4cd969114e5daca9ce9761299\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=409&w=545&s=4a1a10cb5bcc17c4cd969114e5daca9ce9761299 545w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=fc9e5cf955fa6f8fdb78ca552e068c8eac396648 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=b707d09600332213bca80575d3fd07e85580093d 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=f24825aff019f7f8c5a2c28befc73d8f5bc0659a 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:545 / 409\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">A-MAGASINET<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-02-13T19:28:36Z\" datetime=\"2026-02-13T19:28:36Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">I går 20:28</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">«Jeg har mange måneder igjen», sa OL-helten med klovnebuksene. Noen timer senere døde han. </h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Hva er innenfor å gjøre etter sex? 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Hvordan ivareta barn når foreldre har vært utro? Dette fraråder psykologen på det sterkeste.
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Dette fraråder psykologen på det sterkeste.
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Utroskap hos foreldre: – Det folk sier, stemmer ikke
En forelder har vært utro, og alt er kaos. Hvordan ivaretar man barna? Her er tre scenarioer.ap-feature-arrow
– Kriser treffer familier i mange varianter, og utroskap er en krise som treffer ganske mange.
Hedvig Montgomery er psykolog og parterapeut. På sitt kontor har hun snakket med utallige foreldrepar der den ene har vært utro.
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Hvordan ivaretar man barna? Her er tre scenarioer.<svg aria-hidden="true" class="svg-symbol hyperion-css-d1iv49" height="32" role="img" theme="default" viewbox="0 0 32 32" width="32"><title>ap-feature-arrow</title><use xlink:href="#ap-feature-arrow"></use></svg></p></div></div><div class="paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu"><div class="hyperion-css-qwp0ac" data-test-tag="byline" data-testid="byline"><ul class="hyperion-css-1772xtw" data-test-tag="byline:authors" data-testid="byline:authors"><li class="hyperion-css-b8p8ys"><a aria-label="Se journalistens profil: Amalie Lereng" class="hyperion-css-1x0qoq7" href="http://aftenposten.no/av/amalie-lereng" title="Se journalistens profil: Amalie Lereng"><div class="hyperion-css-y7i40o"><img alt="Amalie Lereng" class="image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" sizes="(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=2f38a4ab900529e6b47c5ebb5ebbcf1ab3f6068a" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=2f38a4ab900529e6b47c5ebb5ebbcf1ab3f6068a 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1440&w=1440&s=84b2c8470aa36dc860413bba12497068521dbaad 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1024&w=1024&s=1a899cacbf4106e1194785fc4379f335d8d5a214 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=980&w=980&s=705392d358c83d44074f323708b62a67c09a0547 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=780&w=780&s=77880c4d5cb5b21e356350be844e67cd3803e318 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=580&w=580&s=2232b0c51666a6acff0d740f0df5a0e6cfdb54a3 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=380&w=380&s=aa0a09d3d0ff9dbec18deab69ed9575284f3a0be 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=200&w=200&s=c35b2bb0dbca32ad5d9eebbd9315a2d626cf6b77 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=100&w=100&s=ccd90f63bffe03622cc40772b4c2d97bd6cd98e9 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048"></div><div class="hyperion-css-0"><span class="byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf" data-test-tag="byline:author-name" data-testid="byline:author-name">Amalie Lereng</span><div class="hyperion-css-lc8ynt">Journalist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class="paywall hyperion-css-okzep" data-test-tag="timestamp"><div><time aria-label="Publisert: 14.02.2026 08:00" datetime="2026-02-14T07:00:10Z" itemprop="datePublished">Publisert: 14.02.2026 08:00</time></div></div><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic">– Kriser treffer familier i mange varianter, og utroskap er en krise som treffer ganske mange.</p><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic">Hedvig Montgomery er psykolog og parterapeut. På sitt kontor har hun snakket med utallige foreldrepar der den ene har vært utro. </p><div class="hyperion-css-1ykv2lv"><div class="hyperion-css-l9jsj3"><p class="hyperion-css-1qm9e9t">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class="hyperion-css-1xvjrme" type="button">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class="advertory-brandmetrics-survey" id="brandmetrics-survey"></div><div class="extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v" id="widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold"><h2 class="hyperion-css-r57xc5" data-test-tag="widget:title">Les også</h2><div class="bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi"><ol class="hyperion-css-1700tdj"><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="«Jeg har mange måneder igjen», sa OL-helten med klovnebuksene. Noen timer senere døde han. " class="imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/amagasinet/i/pBAjno/thomas-ulsrud-skulle-gjoere-et-siste-forsoek-paa-aa-vinne-ol-gull-en-rutinekontroll-viste-at-han-hadde-kreft" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-1u88iul" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=409&w=545&s=4a1a10cb5bcc17c4cd969114e5daca9ce9761299" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=409&w=545&s=4a1a10cb5bcc17c4cd969114e5daca9ce9761299 545w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=fc9e5cf955fa6f8fdb78ca552e068c8eac396648 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=b707d09600332213bca80575d3fd07e85580093d 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=f24825aff019f7f8c5a2c28befc73d8f5bc0659a 100w" style="aspect-ratio:545 / 409"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">A-MAGASINET<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2026-02-13T19:28:36Z" datetime="2026-02-13T19:28:36Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">I går 20:28</time></div></div></div><div class="feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">«Jeg har mange måneder igjen», sa OL-helten med klovnebuksene. Noen timer senere døde han. </h2></div></div></a></li><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="Hva er innenfor å gjøre etter sex? Det er god læring i å se til det Høiby sa." class="imagePosition-top medium opinion-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/meninger/kommentar/i/bOGG9k/la-det-komme-noe-positivt-ut-av-hoeiby-saken" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=33b72ce856ecbcf59d4fa83e1728866ac47b070f" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=33b72ce856ecbcf59d4fa83e1728866ac47b070f 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=41b3a28d785b2ced2a1b050a37947fa7bf3b73c3 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=feed1f01695a2bf41723d440c1996d85aec1be66 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=3a45277d34e03240a8619784ac46ccde51c764d4 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=a1d9ca9abc0c2b7670e2c1a112fcbc0f0a28705f 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=f725fd234338b0fa9c606ac8a98f5249c9583114 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=1576acde5d79ea7f8b154d60874362f925843ee4 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=72b27bc42e697bf8cc807b52d06b399140194594 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=161cbb221f12777f355c9b857835c25d2b365c0c 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">KOMMENTAR<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2026-02-12T07:30:05Z" datetime="2026-02-12T07:30:05Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">12. februar</time></div></div></div><div class="feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">Hva er innenfor å gjøre etter sex? 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aria-label=\"Utroskap\" class=\"hyperion-css-1raymq9\" data-test-tag=\"internal-link\" href=\"/tag/utroskap\" rel=\"\" target=\"\" theme=\"feature\">Utroskap</a></div></div><h1 class=\"intro-title\">Utroskap hos foreldre: – Det folk sier, stemmer ikke</h1><p class=\"intro-lead\">En forelder har vært utro, og alt er kaos. Hvordan ivaretar man barna? Her er tre scenarioer.<svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"svg-symbol hyperion-css-d1iv49\" height=\"32\" role=\"img\" theme=\"default\" viewbox=\"0 0 32 32\" width=\"32\"><title>ap-feature-arrow</title><use xlink:href=\"#ap-feature-arrow\"></use></svg></p></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-qwp0ac\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-1772xtw\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-b8p8ys\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Amalie Lereng\" class=\"hyperion-css-1x0qoq7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/amalie-lereng\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Amalie Lereng\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-y7i40o\"><img alt=\"Amalie Lereng\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" sizes=\"(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=2f38a4ab900529e6b47c5ebb5ebbcf1ab3f6068a\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=2f38a4ab900529e6b47c5ebb5ebbcf1ab3f6068a 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1440&w=1440&s=84b2c8470aa36dc860413bba12497068521dbaad 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1024&w=1024&s=1a899cacbf4106e1194785fc4379f335d8d5a214 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=980&w=980&s=705392d358c83d44074f323708b62a67c09a0547 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=780&w=780&s=77880c4d5cb5b21e356350be844e67cd3803e318 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=580&w=580&s=2232b0c51666a6acff0d740f0df5a0e6cfdb54a3 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=380&w=380&s=aa0a09d3d0ff9dbec18deab69ed9575284f3a0be 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=200&w=200&s=c35b2bb0dbca32ad5d9eebbd9315a2d626cf6b77 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&format=auto&h=100&w=100&s=ccd90f63bffe03622cc40772b4c2d97bd6cd98e9 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048\"></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Amalie Lereng</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-lc8ynt\">Journalist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 14.02.2026 08:00\" datetime=\"2026-02-14T07:00:10Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 14.02.2026 08:00</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">– Kriser treffer familier i mange varianter, og utroskap er en krise som treffer ganske mange.</p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">Hedvig Montgomery er psykolog og parterapeut. På sitt kontor har hun snakket med utallige foreldrepar der den ene har vært utro. </p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-1xvjrme\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"«Jeg har mange måneder igjen», sa OL-helten med klovnebuksene. Noen timer senere døde han. \" class=\"imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/amagasinet/i/pBAjno/thomas-ulsrud-skulle-gjoere-et-siste-forsoek-paa-aa-vinne-ol-gull-en-rutinekontroll-viste-at-han-hadde-kreft\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1u88iul\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=409&w=545&s=4a1a10cb5bcc17c4cd969114e5daca9ce9761299\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=409&w=545&s=4a1a10cb5bcc17c4cd969114e5daca9ce9761299 545w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=fc9e5cf955fa6f8fdb78ca552e068c8eac396648 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=b707d09600332213bca80575d3fd07e85580093d 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8fd30447-90f8-4ce4-b8bb-d9922820a27e?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=f24825aff019f7f8c5a2c28befc73d8f5bc0659a 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:545 / 409\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">A-MAGASINET<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-02-13T19:28:36Z\" datetime=\"2026-02-13T19:28:36Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">I går 20:28</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">«Jeg har mange måneder igjen», sa OL-helten med klovnebuksene. Noen timer senere døde han. </h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Hva er innenfor å gjøre etter sex? Det er god læring i å se til det Høiby sa.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium opinion-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/meninger/kommentar/i/bOGG9k/la-det-komme-noe-positivt-ut-av-hoeiby-saken\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-n6kkq1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=33b72ce856ecbcf59d4fa83e1728866ac47b070f\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=33b72ce856ecbcf59d4fa83e1728866ac47b070f 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=41b3a28d785b2ced2a1b050a37947fa7bf3b73c3 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=feed1f01695a2bf41723d440c1996d85aec1be66 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=3a45277d34e03240a8619784ac46ccde51c764d4 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=a1d9ca9abc0c2b7670e2c1a112fcbc0f0a28705f 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=f725fd234338b0fa9c606ac8a98f5249c9583114 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=1576acde5d79ea7f8b154d60874362f925843ee4 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=72b27bc42e697bf8cc807b52d06b399140194594 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c6670a08-88f7-48b6-8141-23dac7f5be99?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=161cbb221f12777f355c9b857835c25d2b365c0c 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">KOMMENTAR<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-02-12T07:30:05Z\" datetime=\"2026-02-12T07:30:05Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">12. februar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Hva er innenfor å gjøre etter sex? 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"summary" : " Dette fraråder psykologen på det sterkeste. ",
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"title" : "Hvordan ivareta barn når foreldre har vært utro? Dette fraråder psykologen på det sterkeste. ",
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