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class=\"hyperion-css-b8p8ys\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Sturle Scholz Nærø\" class=\"hyperion-css-1x0qoq7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/sturle-scholz-naeroe\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Sturle Scholz Nærø\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-y7i40o\"><img alt=\"Sturle Scholz Nærø\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" sizes=\"(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=7137072a91ab059662c6e08b42c6b0a5e5752f01\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=7137072a91ab059662c6e08b42c6b0a5e5752f01 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1440&amp;w=1440&amp;s=481c14cea0bc986f9bc9f039657f701e52d362af 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1024&amp;w=1024&amp;s=12954f450dfefde9d9741fa935df9851183847ef 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=980&amp;w=980&amp;s=dec445906d901bf6bf700114fc76dbdb18d6f317 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=780&amp;w=780&amp;s=d1467a652eaf0d5a4663190f2498bf12e4873173 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=580&amp;w=580&amp;s=4d0a394e3110f06eb727ad44249cf37915c19b3f 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=380&amp;w=380&amp;s=34a6d192998128c71260f1a2e948bcc29c465ce5 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=200&amp;w=200&amp;s=2e9c4469d97a5afd8a562113d42a51286c74371b 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/159196da-3e92-4e7a-a763-085ae9559508?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=100&amp;w=100&amp;s=921a6df7c404091c250b3e0748adc4cb1eb2e2d0 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048\"></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Sturle Scholz Nærø</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-lc8ynt\">Journalist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 09.02.2026 06:30\" datetime=\"2026-02-09T05:30:10Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 09.02.2026 06:30</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">Innsenderen utdyper «en altfor vanlig situasjon», som hun kaller det:</p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\"><strong>«Når man er i følge med en venn/bekjent og treffer en person som bare den ene kjenner, for eksempel en kollega: Bør ikke alle tre hilse på hverandre? Selv synes jeg at det i hvert fall er naturlig å si uoppfordret «hei» til personen som jeg aldri før har møtt. Tar jeg feil? Hva er god skikk og bruk?»</strong></p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-1xvjrme\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Legens spørsmål ga 26-åringen en aha-opplevelse. Nå er hun kvitt mageproblemene.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium news-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/sprek/i/zOrn3w/helene-barsoee-26-ble-kvitt-mageproblemene-mange-overser-et-viktig-element-med-irritabel-tarm-mener-dansk-lege\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-bqf8pm\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a51c0e35-c55d-4038-b94e-e80f91217cb7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=a3af57d7075a8201124c58e65746bc09f39cc8e4\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a51c0e35-c55d-4038-b94e-e80f91217cb7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=a3af57d7075a8201124c58e65746bc09f39cc8e4 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a51c0e35-c55d-4038-b94e-e80f91217cb7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=40554d90300e13645270321c2a9f5327c7cbc25b 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a51c0e35-c55d-4038-b94e-e80f91217cb7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=0a7d1270aa90700487311b1bc3d1b5e3d123c67b 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a51c0e35-c55d-4038-b94e-e80f91217cb7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=71146f5941d1bb583dc8cc34d512762508757d7c 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a51c0e35-c55d-4038-b94e-e80f91217cb7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=17073cdc707af7a2ad5e6430fea1c28afa391962 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a51c0e35-c55d-4038-b94e-e80f91217cb7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=3ea9e27c4bf62ca7939c2ffd633f293a47864766 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a51c0e35-c55d-4038-b94e-e80f91217cb7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=7f2365ff2358c14d9dbfe5a4357b5cd4b569e9d5 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a51c0e35-c55d-4038-b94e-e80f91217cb7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=e71b4885e0d96c1ed251aaf85b1e408353df141b 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/a51c0e35-c55d-4038-b94e-e80f91217cb7?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=fbdf58d3d1980b9cf43d80e13a853422158157d3 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">SPREK<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-02-05T18:30:14Z\" datetime=\"2026-02-05T18:30:14Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">5. februar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Legens spørsmål ga 26-åringen en aha-opplevelse. Nå er hun kvitt mageproblemene.</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Kong Olav hadde rett\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium opinion-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/meninger/kommentar/i/V61mgd/kong-olav-hadde-rett\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-trn877\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/80f42dec-ff5d-4a51-be61-04c5ce047085?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=3e3ae3f66242b6c192337724b2b07f8a13f7618c\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/80f42dec-ff5d-4a51-be61-04c5ce047085?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=3e3ae3f66242b6c192337724b2b07f8a13f7618c 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/80f42dec-ff5d-4a51-be61-04c5ce047085?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=a4ce126a4f38ec554e3f8a814b606f08f7e1cdb2 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/80f42dec-ff5d-4a51-be61-04c5ce047085?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=2727313efa65a65c38420d1761c1019f9954f40e 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/80f42dec-ff5d-4a51-be61-04c5ce047085?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=03621bd4957ca077b5a86edfe701e57f563b9755 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/80f42dec-ff5d-4a51-be61-04c5ce047085?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=c7677d90fd1d64369b0eecd8dae7799bdc77c2a2 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/80f42dec-ff5d-4a51-be61-04c5ce047085?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=9a16bac4ca810abbf1ecf026f6f88b151044c4ef 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/80f42dec-ff5d-4a51-be61-04c5ce047085?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=eb6dc69a89edeedf8d17371f47c56c8823d942fe 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/80f42dec-ff5d-4a51-be61-04c5ce047085?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=f1103e76e905d5ccbd74902a0ba4b56b8f116896 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/80f42dec-ff5d-4a51-be61-04c5ce047085?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=87c6b2218626a862edd2764b27eb47945aae14b5 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">KOMMENTAR<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-02-07T08:28:00Z\" datetime=\"2026-02-07T08:28:00Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">7. februar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 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   "summary" : "– Når vi er to og treffer noen som bare den ene kjenner: Bør man ikke bli introdusert? Ofte føler jeg meg oversett!",
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