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   "content" : "# Slik unngår dere krangling om det tredje skiftet: Syv grep for å ta ned konfliktnivået\n\n– Jeg ser ofte at den ene ikke stoler helt på det den andre gjør, sier psykolog.\n\nSom foreldre er det mye å holde styr på.\n\nMandag er det skidag, men passer skiskoene fortsatt? Tirsdag er det «ha med\\- dag» i barnehagen. Onsdag skal de ha med grillpølser. Hver dag er det fritidsaktiviteter som skal gå opp, og i helgen er det bursdag, så gave må kjøpes inn. Men hvem skal gjøre hva, og hvem gjør mest?",
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gjør, sier psykolog.</p><figure class=\"image fullWidthDesktop top stretch-image-asset-on-mobile landscape hyperion-css-1jg1x1o\" data-test-tag=\"image\"><img alt=\"– For å bli god på familielogistikk må du vite én ting: Du kommer ikke til å lykkes hver eneste gang, sier psykolog Hedvig Montgomery. \" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"high\" loading=\"eager\" sizes=\"(min-width: 380px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8e14101b-cc94-4109-8a6d-7ae5662bdea1?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1365&amp;w=2048&amp;s=cfe1b8c370f1986f0882537e2ae26a15e7f1d3f0\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8e14101b-cc94-4109-8a6d-7ae5662bdea1?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1365&amp;w=2048&amp;s=cfe1b8c370f1986f0882537e2ae26a15e7f1d3f0 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8e14101b-cc94-4109-8a6d-7ae5662bdea1?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=960&amp;w=1440&amp;s=f932002fa6ae6fdbd0f628dc0bd49c315c12cb87 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8e14101b-cc94-4109-8a6d-7ae5662bdea1?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=683&amp;w=1024&amp;s=9d4228be494b38f39c087c4cf471315d5a5318e4 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8e14101b-cc94-4109-8a6d-7ae5662bdea1?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=653&amp;w=980&amp;s=cf84766b013b644eee42341bf6a74bb8c7819218 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8e14101b-cc94-4109-8a6d-7ae5662bdea1?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=520&amp;w=780&amp;s=e0798608b05d18d79e0537b2b3390702a7c2d13e 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8e14101b-cc94-4109-8a6d-7ae5662bdea1?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=387&amp;w=580&amp;s=1264481283096e6efdceda6f36b5773e0e9f0349 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8e14101b-cc94-4109-8a6d-7ae5662bdea1?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=253&amp;w=380&amp;s=812fc236d068e078499efebe43255a637cf482fb 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8e14101b-cc94-4109-8a6d-7ae5662bdea1?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=133&amp;w=200&amp;s=6b36f35a728a0a78e237a15c925260a79663fc66 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/8e14101b-cc94-4109-8a6d-7ae5662bdea1?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=67&amp;w=100&amp;s=24f62b3cc00d7d0a2989235830e068a6defc0df4 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1365\"><figcaption class=\"image-figcaption hyperion-css-1ksg4fz\" data-test-tag=\"image:caption\"><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"image-caption\">– For å bli god på familielogistikk må du vite én ting: Du kommer ikke til å lykkes hver eneste gang, sier psykolog Hedvig Montgomery.</span><span class=\"image-byline hyperion-css-161dy2i\"> Foto: Stein J. Bjørge</span></figcaption></figure><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-qwp0ac\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-1772xtw\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-b8p8ys\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Amalie Lereng\" class=\"hyperion-css-es295y\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/amalie-lereng\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Amalie Lereng\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-y7i40o\"><img alt=\"Amalie Lereng\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" sizes=\"(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=2f38a4ab900529e6b47c5ebb5ebbcf1ab3f6068a\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=2048&amp;w=2048&amp;s=2f38a4ab900529e6b47c5ebb5ebbcf1ab3f6068a 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1440&amp;w=1440&amp;s=84b2c8470aa36dc860413bba12497068521dbaad 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1024&amp;w=1024&amp;s=1a899cacbf4106e1194785fc4379f335d8d5a214 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=980&amp;w=980&amp;s=705392d358c83d44074f323708b62a67c09a0547 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=780&amp;w=780&amp;s=77880c4d5cb5b21e356350be844e67cd3803e318 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=580&amp;w=580&amp;s=2232b0c51666a6acff0d740f0df5a0e6cfdb54a3 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=380&amp;w=380&amp;s=aa0a09d3d0ff9dbec18deab69ed9575284f3a0be 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=200&amp;w=200&amp;s=c35b2bb0dbca32ad5d9eebbd9315a2d626cf6b77 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/5236948f-ba50-442c-a0d8-eef146b813cb?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=100&amp;w=100&amp;s=ccd90f63bffe03622cc40772b4c2d97bd6cd98e9 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048\"></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Amalie Lereng</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-lc8ynt\">Journalist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 29.01.2026 19:30\" datetime=\"2026-01-29T18:30:10Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 29.01.2026 19:30</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">Som foreldre er det mye å holde styr på. </p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">Mandag er det skidag, men passer skiskoene fortsatt? Tirsdag er det «ha med- dag» i barnehagen. Onsdag skal de ha med grillpølser. Hver dag er det fritidsaktiviteter som skal gå opp, og i helgen er det bursdag, så gave må kjøpes inn. Men hvem skal gjøre hva, og hvem gjør mest? </p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-r7pgk3\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Stor guide: Dette er Oslos 50 beste restauranter\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"https://vink.aftenposten.no/artikkel/3EE67L/oslos-50-beste-restauranter\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1ciog5u\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/f86e8685-287d-44e8-900d-3f7c14db3a3a?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=a0be811849c9c938b9c130f6cb13ef3220b19a97\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/f86e8685-287d-44e8-900d-3f7c14db3a3a?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=a0be811849c9c938b9c130f6cb13ef3220b19a97 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/f86e8685-287d-44e8-900d-3f7c14db3a3a?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=c396f801ddd82604091d94fc3447e5db476d4230 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/f86e8685-287d-44e8-900d-3f7c14db3a3a?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=a9c83d70ab6188d4ff33950404ee2aea69c99148 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/f86e8685-287d-44e8-900d-3f7c14db3a3a?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=6e0aa78682d37df3dce676536d43fdf865e6d4e1 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/f86e8685-287d-44e8-900d-3f7c14db3a3a?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=177c829f2417d8cd7c8282910cbae0516bfa0400 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/f86e8685-287d-44e8-900d-3f7c14db3a3a?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=51745c453854e010a0e4652ef49509c182838d86 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/f86e8685-287d-44e8-900d-3f7c14db3a3a?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=4983a51c5a63c30ead876a15634d2b1653e55baa 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/f86e8685-287d-44e8-900d-3f7c14db3a3a?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=26697ae31311de2ce3e5e0bd35dc464c0c4a8926 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/f86e8685-287d-44e8-900d-3f7c14db3a3a?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=934e5e1286dd6d0b9dcef306e6f0f38fa0451b16 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">RESTAURANTGUIDEN<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-27T09:55:37Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-27T09:55:37Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">27. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Stor guide: Dette er Oslos 50 beste restauranter</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Hvorfor blir så mange gravide sykmeldte? Fastlegen ser noen tydelige mønstre.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/sprek/i/xrPEaR/hvorfor-blir-saa-mange-gravide-sykmeldt\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1qus8ib\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=05e826d6cc77d71fc0730d1df1decf8965d1da59\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=05e826d6cc77d71fc0730d1df1decf8965d1da59 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=774802f1b4b8b510f4e5644ae940864d8a8e4892 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=2f8a0d84a279cc313eb3320574decbd9ff7c5e40 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=a09a1b08d3809fad1f27cfe35aea6a096e3c5d22 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=27dbe922c6bed2e8778641b918026427cd62f4f3 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=c4a4a00142d1d4b6f49ad68344a00fe230b4cc19 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=a09c450732272dc48f5d5eaedd5071d018ed8228 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=455363246d4034e9d4c6d01d2d2ff9f694bc7220 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=c069d01d48444238317254c1a5102c39c917e13e 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">SPREK<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-24T18:48:59Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-24T18:48:59Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">24. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Hvorfor blir så mange gravide sykmeldte? 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