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200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c88f209a-8b6f-4a47-aa0e-d9cd2b3dfce6?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=98&amp;w=100&amp;s=f07c693d1fe9c0ad36ff9cdb1cffb3ef66b85357 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 2001\"><figcaption class=\"simple-image-byline hyperion-css-1dpib94\"><span>Foto: Terje Tønnessen</span></figcaption></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-16hxfwi\"><div class=\"feature running-head hyperion-css-1ij43i2\" data-test-tag=\"running-head\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-7enjca\"><a aria-label=\"Foreldreliv\" class=\"hyperion-css-1raymq9\" data-test-tag=\"internal-link\" href=\"/foreldreliv\" rel=\"\" target=\"\" theme=\"feature\">Foreldreliv</a></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-semo9s\"><a aria-label=\"Barn\" class=\"hyperion-css-1raymq9\" data-test-tag=\"internal-link\" href=\"/tag/barn\" rel=\"\" target=\"\" theme=\"feature\">Barn</a></div></div><h1 class=\"intro-title\">Sier du «tissefant» eller «fiffi» om barnas private kroppsdeler? Det bør du slutte med, mener psykolog.</h1><p class=\"intro-lead\">Handler ikke bare om språk, men også om barns trygghet, mener psykolog Charlotte Mjelde. <svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"svg-symbol hyperion-css-d1iv49\" height=\"32\" role=\"img\" theme=\"default\" viewbox=\"0 0 32 32\" width=\"32\"><title>ap-feature-arrow</title><use xlink:href=\"#ap-feature-arrow\"></use></svg></p></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ifbnwh\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-zsib83\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-10c38m6\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Kathrine Humberset\" class=\"hyperion-css-1u7c6r7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/kathrine-humberset\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Kathrine Humberset\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1ftacoo\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Kathrine Humberset</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-c2jcik\">Journalist</div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-10c38m6\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Terje Tønnessen\" class=\"hyperion-css-1u7c6r7\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/terje-toennessen-illustrasjon\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Terje Tønnessen\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1ftacoo\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Terje Tønnessen</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-c2jcik\">Illustratør</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 27.01.2026 19:30\" datetime=\"2026-01-27T18:30:06Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 27.01.2026 19:30</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">Mange foreldre bruker kallenavn som «tissefant» og «fiffi» når de snakker med barna om kroppen. </p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\">Det kan virke uskyldig, men ifølge psykolog Charlotte Mjelde kan det få uheldige konsekvenser.</p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-1xvjrme\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Hvorfor blir så mange gravide sykmeldte? Fastlegen ser noen tydelige mønstre.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/sprek/i/xrPEaR/hvorfor-blir-saa-mange-gravide-sykmeldt\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1qus8ib\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=05e826d6cc77d71fc0730d1df1decf8965d1da59\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=05e826d6cc77d71fc0730d1df1decf8965d1da59 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=774802f1b4b8b510f4e5644ae940864d8a8e4892 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=2f8a0d84a279cc313eb3320574decbd9ff7c5e40 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=a09a1b08d3809fad1f27cfe35aea6a096e3c5d22 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=27dbe922c6bed2e8778641b918026427cd62f4f3 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=c4a4a00142d1d4b6f49ad68344a00fe230b4cc19 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=a09c450732272dc48f5d5eaedd5071d018ed8228 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=455363246d4034e9d4c6d01d2d2ff9f694bc7220 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=c069d01d48444238317254c1a5102c39c917e13e 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">SPREK<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-24T18:48:59Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-24T18:48:59Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">24. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Hvorfor blir så mange gravide sykmeldte? Fastlegen ser noen tydelige mønstre.</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Thomas Giertsen diktet opp en middelklassepreget oppvekst: – Jeg sa at jeg pleide å dra på campingferie med familien\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/amagasinet/i/0pKPGg/thomas-giertsen-om-helt-perfekt-og-det-ekte-livet\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-h48z7z\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=e855760a32ded53df058eec3ad9557ba6544563e\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1536&amp;w=2048&amp;s=e855760a32ded53df058eec3ad9557ba6544563e 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=1080&amp;w=1440&amp;s=b05582e5786bd1ae687124d0e5b9212ce093f486 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=768&amp;w=1024&amp;s=33da76999995344c5166df60a2d04f18b0e2a54d 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=735&amp;w=980&amp;s=5ffde18259e1f066d06ec26dbad1a83b9c8964bf 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=585&amp;w=780&amp;s=fb3bc9648552e166fb576e488bf34b5e13e44a96 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=435&amp;w=580&amp;s=4540cf30fccb1de8f2805ac39a070904ff0d4304 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=285&amp;w=380&amp;s=70d2590f3293fdca4e1f5a1bde2859381cf2bbe3 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=150&amp;w=200&amp;s=3793abd412be71c13d081d1c996396dfebd01adb 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&amp;format=auto&amp;h=75&amp;w=100&amp;s=cbc3514ec29785b1227e54be3fa61b905a700bf0 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">A-MAGASINET<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-24T18:39:35Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-24T18:39:35Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">24. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"feature hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Thomas Giertsen diktet opp en middelklassepreget oppvekst: – Jeg sa at jeg pleide å dra på campingferie med familien</h2></div></div></a></li></ol></div></div><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard-wrapper__article advertory-aftenposten-paywall-ad\"><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard__article\" id=\"paywall_ad_board\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1q3hux1\"><button aria-label=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" class=\"hyperion-css-1t4sy44\" title=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" type=\"button\">Tilbake til forsiden</button></div></div><div></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1927kqg\" id=\"superright-side\"></div></div><footer class=\"hyperion-css-1ykq07t\" role=\"contentinfo\"><div class=\"container\"><div class=\"links\"><ul><li><a class=\"actionLink\" 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