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Psykolog Line Marie Warholm svarer leser.
Du kan ikke gi barna en barndom uten vonde minner
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Det er ikke barnas oppgave å gi foreldrene tilgivelse
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Du kan ikke gi barna en barndom uten vonde minner
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Du kan ikke gi barna en barndom uten vonde minner
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" class="image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="high" loading="eager" sizes="(min-width: 380px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1366&w=2048&s=33a28258f0a19f3d711c05136bf4d830e05febb4" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1366&w=2048&s=33a28258f0a19f3d711c05136bf4d830e05febb4 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=960&w=1440&s=34738b4d876ac475d874ea41b8b90fc4c91ae59d 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=683&w=1024&s=835a70129fd25d60d63fe0b239c4b87b97508c8e 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=654&w=980&s=40dde01eda79fd5a57379536ba2a838be0df35c3 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=520&w=780&s=b4a7bab09f2e1c59a44fa81bde892b4f31c02196 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=387&w=580&s=41adf25471645639382bc2399e9db86034b6c05f 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=253&w=380&s=f83bdefb2282cb71778daa12cf11b73c3d666379 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=133&w=200&s=520b126a2eb3c32f6356637bf22c4761f5c53814 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=67&w=100&s=c171a685ce97fffaf9b500227ede9a4f46244953 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1366"><figcaption class="image-figcaption hyperion-css-1ksg4fz" data-test-tag="image:caption"><span aria-hidden="true" class="image-caption">Vi må bære skyldfølelsen vår selv, uten å legge ansvaret for vår dårlige samvittighet over på barna, skriver Line Marie Warholm.</span><span class="image-byline hyperion-css-161dy2i"> Foto: Martin Slottemo Lyngstad / Aftenposten</span></figcaption></figure><div class="paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu"><div class="hyperion-css-qwp0ac" data-test-tag="byline" data-testid="byline"><ul class="hyperion-css-1772xtw" data-test-tag="byline:authors" data-testid="byline:authors"><li class="hyperion-css-b8p8ys"><a aria-label="Se journalistens profil: Line Marie Warholm" class="hyperion-css-es295y" href="http://aftenposten.no/av/line-marie-warholm" title="Se journalistens profil: Line Marie Warholm"><div class="hyperion-css-y7i40o"><img alt="Line Marie Warholm" class="image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" sizes="(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=961f7616bd8c909c89bcfd041cafb55128fe2bd3" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=961f7616bd8c909c89bcfd041cafb55128fe2bd3 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1440&w=1440&s=4f84e4736cef9ecc0e66d77ded972f78809bed03 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1024&w=1024&s=2caa83a97adb8275e2fb9bc039b7f48c8b01bab9 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=980&w=980&s=07dabfa18345d144b29df5ac741fe6d6d0708e61 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=780&w=780&s=97f3cb0afd1a298f1d2fce91ed4d73645ac50e53 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=580&w=580&s=a12ca5a8c982a60c00a993480290d4db790d9c66 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=380&w=380&s=a54a388d4bb1119f4448f62a1ac2b20a58abf44c 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=200&w=200&s=1edb23623e41a8e2c8b471d5b2b22a7ac15427bc 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=100&w=100&s=071f168ce2191643c144feae83d464975075e0be 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048"></div><div class="hyperion-css-0"><span class="byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf" data-test-tag="byline:author-name" data-testid="byline:author-name">Line Marie Warholm</span><div class="hyperion-css-lc8ynt">Psykologspesialist og spaltist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class="paywall hyperion-css-okzep" data-test-tag="timestamp"><div><time aria-label="Publisert: 27.01.2026 06:30" datetime="2026-01-27T05:30:14Z" itemprop="datePublished">Publisert: 27.01.2026 06:30</time></div></div><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic"><strong>Lurer du på noe om livet med barn? Send inn dine spørsmål her. Spørsmål gjengis eventuelt kun anonymt.</strong></p><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic"><strong>Spørsmål:</strong></p><div class="hyperion-css-1ykv2lv"><div class="hyperion-css-l9jsj3"><p class="hyperion-css-1qm9e9t">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class="hyperion-css-r7pgk3" type="button">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class="advertory-brandmetrics-survey" id="brandmetrics-survey"></div><div class="extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v" id="widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold"><h2 class="hyperion-css-r57xc5" data-test-tag="widget:title">Les også</h2><div class="bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi"><ol class="hyperion-css-1700tdj"><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="Hvorfor blir så mange gravide sykmeldte? Fastlegen ser noen tydelige mønstre." class="imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/sprek/i/xrPEaR/hvorfor-blir-saa-mange-gravide-sykmeldt" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-1qus8ib" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=05e826d6cc77d71fc0730d1df1decf8965d1da59" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=05e826d6cc77d71fc0730d1df1decf8965d1da59 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=774802f1b4b8b510f4e5644ae940864d8a8e4892 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=2f8a0d84a279cc313eb3320574decbd9ff7c5e40 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=a09a1b08d3809fad1f27cfe35aea6a096e3c5d22 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=27dbe922c6bed2e8778641b918026427cd62f4f3 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=c4a4a00142d1d4b6f49ad68344a00fe230b4cc19 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=a09c450732272dc48f5d5eaedd5071d018ed8228 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=455363246d4034e9d4c6d01d2d2ff9f694bc7220 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=c069d01d48444238317254c1a5102c39c917e13e 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">SPREK<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2026-01-24T18:48:59Z" datetime="2026-01-24T18:48:59Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">24. januar</time></div></div></div><div class="foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">Hvorfor blir så mange gravide sykmeldte? Fastlegen ser noen tydelige mønstre.</h2></div></div></a></li><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="Thomas Giertsen diktet opp en middelklassepreget oppvekst: – Jeg sa at jeg pleide å dra på campingferie med familien" class="imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/amagasinet/i/0pKPGg/thomas-giertsen-om-helt-perfekt-og-det-ekte-livet" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-h48z7z" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=e855760a32ded53df058eec3ad9557ba6544563e" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=e855760a32ded53df058eec3ad9557ba6544563e 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=b05582e5786bd1ae687124d0e5b9212ce093f486 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=33da76999995344c5166df60a2d04f18b0e2a54d 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=5ffde18259e1f066d06ec26dbad1a83b9c8964bf 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=fb3bc9648552e166fb576e488bf34b5e13e44a96 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=4540cf30fccb1de8f2805ac39a070904ff0d4304 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=70d2590f3293fdca4e1f5a1bde2859381cf2bbe3 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=3793abd412be71c13d081d1c996396dfebd01adb 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=cbc3514ec29785b1227e54be3fa61b905a700bf0 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">A-MAGASINET<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2026-01-24T18:39:35Z" datetime="2026-01-24T18:39:35Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">24. januar</time></div></div></div><div class="foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">Thomas Giertsen diktet opp en middelklassepreget oppvekst: – Jeg sa at jeg pleide å dra på campingferie med familien</h2></div></div></a></li></ol></div></div><div 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skriver Line Marie Warholm. \" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"high\" loading=\"eager\" sizes=\"(min-width: 380px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1366&w=2048&s=33a28258f0a19f3d711c05136bf4d830e05febb4\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1366&w=2048&s=33a28258f0a19f3d711c05136bf4d830e05febb4 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=960&w=1440&s=34738b4d876ac475d874ea41b8b90fc4c91ae59d 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=683&w=1024&s=835a70129fd25d60d63fe0b239c4b87b97508c8e 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=654&w=980&s=40dde01eda79fd5a57379536ba2a838be0df35c3 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vår dårlige samvittighet over på barna, skriver Line Marie Warholm.</span><span class=\"image-byline hyperion-css-161dy2i\"> Foto: Martin Slottemo Lyngstad / Aftenposten</span></figcaption></figure><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-qwp0ac\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-1772xtw\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-b8p8ys\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Line Marie Warholm\" class=\"hyperion-css-es295y\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/line-marie-warholm\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Line Marie Warholm\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-y7i40o\"><img alt=\"Line Marie Warholm\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" sizes=\"(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=961f7616bd8c909c89bcfd041cafb55128fe2bd3\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=961f7616bd8c909c89bcfd041cafb55128fe2bd3 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1440&w=1440&s=4f84e4736cef9ecc0e66d77ded972f78809bed03 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1024&w=1024&s=2caa83a97adb8275e2fb9bc039b7f48c8b01bab9 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=980&w=980&s=07dabfa18345d144b29df5ac741fe6d6d0708e61 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=780&w=780&s=97f3cb0afd1a298f1d2fce91ed4d73645ac50e53 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=580&w=580&s=a12ca5a8c982a60c00a993480290d4db790d9c66 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=380&w=380&s=a54a388d4bb1119f4448f62a1ac2b20a58abf44c 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=200&w=200&s=1edb23623e41a8e2c8b471d5b2b22a7ac15427bc 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=100&w=100&s=071f168ce2191643c144feae83d464975075e0be 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048\"></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Line Marie Warholm</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-lc8ynt\">Psykologspesialist og spaltist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 27.01.2026 06:30\" datetime=\"2026-01-27T05:30:14Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 27.01.2026 06:30</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\"><strong>Lurer du på noe om livet med barn? Send inn dine spørsmål her. Spørsmål gjengis eventuelt kun anonymt.</strong></p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\"><strong>Spørsmål:</strong></p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-r7pgk3\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Hvorfor blir så mange gravide sykmeldte? Fastlegen ser noen tydelige mønstre.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/sprek/i/xrPEaR/hvorfor-blir-saa-mange-gravide-sykmeldt\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1qus8ib\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=05e826d6cc77d71fc0730d1df1decf8965d1da59\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=05e826d6cc77d71fc0730d1df1decf8965d1da59 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=774802f1b4b8b510f4e5644ae940864d8a8e4892 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=2f8a0d84a279cc313eb3320574decbd9ff7c5e40 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=a09a1b08d3809fad1f27cfe35aea6a096e3c5d22 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=27dbe922c6bed2e8778641b918026427cd62f4f3 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=c4a4a00142d1d4b6f49ad68344a00fe230b4cc19 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=a09c450732272dc48f5d5eaedd5071d018ed8228 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=455363246d4034e9d4c6d01d2d2ff9f694bc7220 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=c069d01d48444238317254c1a5102c39c917e13e 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">SPREK<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-24T18:48:59Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-24T18:48:59Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">24. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Hvorfor blir så mange gravide sykmeldte? Fastlegen ser noen tydelige mønstre.</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Thomas Giertsen diktet opp en middelklassepreget oppvekst: – Jeg sa at jeg pleide å dra på campingferie med familien\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/amagasinet/i/0pKPGg/thomas-giertsen-om-helt-perfekt-og-det-ekte-livet\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-h48z7z\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=e855760a32ded53df058eec3ad9557ba6544563e\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=e855760a32ded53df058eec3ad9557ba6544563e 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=b05582e5786bd1ae687124d0e5b9212ce093f486 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=33da76999995344c5166df60a2d04f18b0e2a54d 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=5ffde18259e1f066d06ec26dbad1a83b9c8964bf 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=fb3bc9648552e166fb576e488bf34b5e13e44a96 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=4540cf30fccb1de8f2805ac39a070904ff0d4304 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=70d2590f3293fdca4e1f5a1bde2859381cf2bbe3 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=3793abd412be71c13d081d1c996396dfebd01adb 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=cbc3514ec29785b1227e54be3fa61b905a700bf0 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">A-MAGASINET<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-24T18:39:35Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-24T18:39:35Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">24. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Thomas Giertsen diktet opp en middelklassepreget oppvekst: – Jeg sa at jeg pleide å dra på campingferie med familien</h2></div></div></a></li></ol></div></div><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard-wrapper__article advertory-aftenposten-paywall-ad\"><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard__article\" id=\"paywall_ad_board\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1q3hux1\"><button aria-label=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" class=\"hyperion-css-1t4sy44\" title=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" type=\"button\">Tilbake til forsiden</button></div></div><div></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1927kqg\" id=\"superright-side\"></div></div><footer class=\"hyperion-css-1ykq07t\" role=\"contentinfo\"><div class=\"container\"><div class=\"links\"><ul><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/tips\">Tips oss</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/meninger/debatt/i/Ooyk/informasjon-om-debattinnlegg-og-kronikker-til-aftenposten\">Send inn debattinnlegg</a></li><li><a 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Du kan ikke gi barna en barndom uten vonde minner
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Psykolog Line Marie Warholm svarer leser.
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Du kan ikke gi barna en barndom uten vonde minner
Bør man åpne for en samtale om barndommen når barna er modne nok til det, spør leser.
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" class="image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="high" loading="eager" sizes="(min-width: 380px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1366&w=2048&s=33a28258f0a19f3d711c05136bf4d830e05febb4" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1366&w=2048&s=33a28258f0a19f3d711c05136bf4d830e05febb4 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=960&w=1440&s=34738b4d876ac475d874ea41b8b90fc4c91ae59d 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=683&w=1024&s=835a70129fd25d60d63fe0b239c4b87b97508c8e 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=654&w=980&s=40dde01eda79fd5a57379536ba2a838be0df35c3 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=520&w=780&s=b4a7bab09f2e1c59a44fa81bde892b4f31c02196 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=387&w=580&s=41adf25471645639382bc2399e9db86034b6c05f 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=253&w=380&s=f83bdefb2282cb71778daa12cf11b73c3d666379 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=133&w=200&s=520b126a2eb3c32f6356637bf22c4761f5c53814 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=67&w=100&s=c171a685ce97fffaf9b500227ede9a4f46244953 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1366"><figcaption class="image-figcaption hyperion-css-1ksg4fz" data-test-tag="image:caption"><span aria-hidden="true" class="image-caption">Vi må bære skyldfølelsen vår selv, uten å legge ansvaret for vår dårlige samvittighet over på barna, skriver Line Marie Warholm.</span><span class="image-byline hyperion-css-161dy2i"> Foto: Martin Slottemo Lyngstad / Aftenposten</span></figcaption></figure><div class="paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu"><div class="hyperion-css-qwp0ac" data-test-tag="byline" data-testid="byline"><ul class="hyperion-css-1772xtw" data-test-tag="byline:authors" data-testid="byline:authors"><li class="hyperion-css-b8p8ys"><a aria-label="Se journalistens profil: Line Marie Warholm" class="hyperion-css-es295y" href="http://aftenposten.no/av/line-marie-warholm" title="Se journalistens profil: Line Marie Warholm"><div class="hyperion-css-y7i40o"><img alt="Line Marie Warholm" class="image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" sizes="(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=961f7616bd8c909c89bcfd041cafb55128fe2bd3" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=961f7616bd8c909c89bcfd041cafb55128fe2bd3 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1440&w=1440&s=4f84e4736cef9ecc0e66d77ded972f78809bed03 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1024&w=1024&s=2caa83a97adb8275e2fb9bc039b7f48c8b01bab9 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=980&w=980&s=07dabfa18345d144b29df5ac741fe6d6d0708e61 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=780&w=780&s=97f3cb0afd1a298f1d2fce91ed4d73645ac50e53 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=580&w=580&s=a12ca5a8c982a60c00a993480290d4db790d9c66 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=380&w=380&s=a54a388d4bb1119f4448f62a1ac2b20a58abf44c 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=200&w=200&s=1edb23623e41a8e2c8b471d5b2b22a7ac15427bc 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=100&w=100&s=071f168ce2191643c144feae83d464975075e0be 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048"></div><div class="hyperion-css-0"><span class="byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf" data-test-tag="byline:author-name" data-testid="byline:author-name">Line Marie Warholm</span><div class="hyperion-css-lc8ynt">Psykologspesialist og spaltist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class="paywall hyperion-css-okzep" data-test-tag="timestamp"><div><time aria-label="Publisert: 27.01.2026 06:30" datetime="2026-01-27T05:30:14Z" itemprop="datePublished">Publisert: 27.01.2026 06:30</time></div></div><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic"><strong>Lurer du på noe om livet med barn? Send inn dine spørsmål her. Spørsmål gjengis eventuelt kun anonymt.</strong></p><p class="paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic"><strong>Spørsmål:</strong></p><div class="hyperion-css-1ykv2lv"><div class="hyperion-css-l9jsj3"><p class="hyperion-css-1qm9e9t">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class="hyperion-css-r7pgk3" type="button">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class="advertory-brandmetrics-survey" id="brandmetrics-survey"></div><div class="extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v" id="widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold"><h2 class="hyperion-css-r57xc5" data-test-tag="widget:title">Les også</h2><div class="bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi"><ol class="hyperion-css-1700tdj"><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="Hvorfor blir så mange gravide sykmeldte? Fastlegen ser noen tydelige mønstre." class="imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/sprek/i/xrPEaR/hvorfor-blir-saa-mange-gravide-sykmeldt" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-1qus8ib" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=05e826d6cc77d71fc0730d1df1decf8965d1da59" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=05e826d6cc77d71fc0730d1df1decf8965d1da59 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=774802f1b4b8b510f4e5644ae940864d8a8e4892 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=2f8a0d84a279cc313eb3320574decbd9ff7c5e40 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=a09a1b08d3809fad1f27cfe35aea6a096e3c5d22 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=27dbe922c6bed2e8778641b918026427cd62f4f3 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=c4a4a00142d1d4b6f49ad68344a00fe230b4cc19 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=a09c450732272dc48f5d5eaedd5071d018ed8228 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=455363246d4034e9d4c6d01d2d2ff9f694bc7220 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=c069d01d48444238317254c1a5102c39c917e13e 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">SPREK<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2026-01-24T18:48:59Z" datetime="2026-01-24T18:48:59Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">24. januar</time></div></div></div><div class="foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">Hvorfor blir så mange gravide sykmeldte? Fastlegen ser noen tydelige mønstre.</h2></div></div></a></li><li class="hyperion-css-1lcs599"><a aria-label="Thomas Giertsen diktet opp en middelklassepreget oppvekst: – Jeg sa at jeg pleide å dra på campingferie med familien" class="imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut" data-test-tag="teaser-medium:link-internal" href="/amagasinet/i/0pKPGg/thomas-giertsen-om-helt-perfekt-og-det-ekte-livet" rel="" target=""><div class="hyperion-css-bjn8wh"><div class="hyperion-css-1k8sl4j"><img alt="" class="image-asset hyperion-css-h48z7z" data-test-tag="image-asset" fetchpriority="auto" loading="lazy" sizes="(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw" src="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=e855760a32ded53df058eec3ad9557ba6544563e" srcset="https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=e855760a32ded53df058eec3ad9557ba6544563e 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=b05582e5786bd1ae687124d0e5b9212ce093f486 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=33da76999995344c5166df60a2d04f18b0e2a54d 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=5ffde18259e1f066d06ec26dbad1a83b9c8964bf 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=fb3bc9648552e166fb576e488bf34b5e13e44a96 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=4540cf30fccb1de8f2805ac39a070904ff0d4304 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=70d2590f3293fdca4e1f5a1bde2859381cf2bbe3 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=3793abd412be71c13d081d1c996396dfebd01adb 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=cbc3514ec29785b1227e54be3fa61b905a700bf0 100w" style="aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536"></div></div><div class="hyperion-css-1hlrz9z"><div class="teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p">A-MAGASINET<div class="timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy" data-test-tag="timestamp"><span class="hyperion-css-ea91rp">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label="2026-01-24T18:39:35Z" datetime="2026-01-24T18:39:35Z" itemprop="datePublished" pubdate="pubdate">24. januar</time></div></div></div><div class="foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we"><h2 class="hyperion-css-1hyuqep">Thomas Giertsen diktet opp en middelklassepreget oppvekst: – Jeg sa at jeg pleide å dra på campingferie med familien</h2></div></div></a></li></ol></div></div><div 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skriver Line Marie Warholm. \" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"high\" loading=\"eager\" sizes=\"(min-width: 380px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1366&w=2048&s=33a28258f0a19f3d711c05136bf4d830e05febb4\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1366&w=2048&s=33a28258f0a19f3d711c05136bf4d830e05febb4 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=960&w=1440&s=34738b4d876ac475d874ea41b8b90fc4c91ae59d 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=683&w=1024&s=835a70129fd25d60d63fe0b239c4b87b97508c8e 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=654&w=980&s=40dde01eda79fd5a57379536ba2a838be0df35c3 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=520&w=780&s=b4a7bab09f2e1c59a44fa81bde892b4f31c02196 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=387&w=580&s=41adf25471645639382bc2399e9db86034b6c05f 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=253&w=380&s=f83bdefb2282cb71778daa12cf11b73c3d666379 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=133&w=200&s=520b126a2eb3c32f6356637bf22c4761f5c53814 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/30c9c6ef-7b28-4f9c-abee-51b90501c3a0?fit=crop&format=auto&h=67&w=100&s=c171a685ce97fffaf9b500227ede9a4f46244953 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1366\"><figcaption class=\"image-figcaption hyperion-css-1ksg4fz\" data-test-tag=\"image:caption\"><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"image-caption\">Vi må bære skyldfølelsen vår selv, uten å legge ansvaret for vår dårlige samvittighet over på barna, skriver Line Marie Warholm.</span><span class=\"image-byline hyperion-css-161dy2i\"> Foto: Martin Slottemo Lyngstad / Aftenposten</span></figcaption></figure><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1ej05iu\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-qwp0ac\" data-test-tag=\"byline\" data-testid=\"byline\"><ul class=\"hyperion-css-1772xtw\" data-test-tag=\"byline:authors\" data-testid=\"byline:authors\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-b8p8ys\"><a aria-label=\"Se journalistens profil: Line Marie Warholm\" class=\"hyperion-css-es295y\" href=\"http://aftenposten.no/av/line-marie-warholm\" title=\"Se journalistens profil: Line Marie Warholm\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-y7i40o\"><img alt=\"Line Marie Warholm\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-u06ts1\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" sizes=\"(min-width: 740px) 740px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=961f7616bd8c909c89bcfd041cafb55128fe2bd3\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=2048&w=2048&s=961f7616bd8c909c89bcfd041cafb55128fe2bd3 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1440&w=1440&s=4f84e4736cef9ecc0e66d77ded972f78809bed03 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1024&w=1024&s=2caa83a97adb8275e2fb9bc039b7f48c8b01bab9 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=980&w=980&s=07dabfa18345d144b29df5ac741fe6d6d0708e61 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=780&w=780&s=97f3cb0afd1a298f1d2fce91ed4d73645ac50e53 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=580&w=580&s=a12ca5a8c982a60c00a993480290d4db790d9c66 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=380&w=380&s=a54a388d4bb1119f4448f62a1ac2b20a58abf44c 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=200&w=200&s=1edb23623e41a8e2c8b471d5b2b22a7ac15427bc 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/author/2fee0d2e-2c03-4760-8507-4c5c175e0eb6?fit=crop&format=auto&h=100&w=100&s=071f168ce2191643c144feae83d464975075e0be 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 2048\"></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-0\"><span class=\"byline-name hyperion-css-1cn5stf\" data-test-tag=\"byline:author-name\" data-testid=\"byline:author-name\">Line Marie Warholm</span><div class=\"hyperion-css-lc8ynt\">Psykologspesialist og spaltist</div></div></a></li></ul></div></div><div class=\"paywall hyperion-css-okzep\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><div><time aria-label=\"Publisert: 27.01.2026 06:30\" datetime=\"2026-01-27T05:30:14Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">Publisert: 27.01.2026 06:30</time></div></div><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\"><strong>Lurer du på noe om livet med barn? Send inn dine spørsmål her. Spørsmål gjengis eventuelt kun anonymt.</strong></p><p class=\"paywall hyperion-css-1j42uic\"><strong>Spørsmål:</strong></p><div class=\"hyperion-css-1ykv2lv\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-l9jsj3\"><p class=\"hyperion-css-1qm9e9t\">Les hele saken med abonnement</p><button class=\"hyperion-css-r7pgk3\" type=\"button\">Allerede abonnent? Logg inn</button></div></div></article><div class=\"advertory-brandmetrics-survey\" id=\"brandmetrics-survey\"></div><div class=\"extendedContent paywall hyperion-css-177q39v\" id=\"widget-recirculation-matrix-most-sold\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-r57xc5\" data-test-tag=\"widget:title\">Les også</h2><div class=\"bundle extendedContent hyperion-css-cbecqi\"><ol class=\"hyperion-css-1700tdj\"><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Hvorfor blir så mange gravide sykmeldte? Fastlegen ser noen tydelige mønstre.\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium feature-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/sprek/i/xrPEaR/hvorfor-blir-saa-mange-gravide-sykmeldt\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-1qus8ib\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=05e826d6cc77d71fc0730d1df1decf8965d1da59\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=05e826d6cc77d71fc0730d1df1decf8965d1da59 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=774802f1b4b8b510f4e5644ae940864d8a8e4892 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=2f8a0d84a279cc313eb3320574decbd9ff7c5e40 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=a09a1b08d3809fad1f27cfe35aea6a096e3c5d22 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=27dbe922c6bed2e8778641b918026427cd62f4f3 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=c4a4a00142d1d4b6f49ad68344a00fe230b4cc19 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=a09c450732272dc48f5d5eaedd5071d018ed8228 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=455363246d4034e9d4c6d01d2d2ff9f694bc7220 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/c53a108f-da41-4d38-82a1-5b2dbc06cbef?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=c069d01d48444238317254c1a5102c39c917e13e 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">SPREK<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-24T18:48:59Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-24T18:48:59Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">24. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Hvorfor blir så mange gravide sykmeldte? Fastlegen ser noen tydelige mønstre.</h2></div></div></a></li><li class=\"hyperion-css-1lcs599\"><a aria-label=\"Thomas Giertsen diktet opp en middelklassepreget oppvekst: – Jeg sa at jeg pleide å dra på campingferie med familien\" class=\"imagePosition-top medium magazine-teaser hyperion-css-bvr9ut\" data-test-tag=\"teaser-medium:link-internal\" href=\"/amagasinet/i/0pKPGg/thomas-giertsen-om-helt-perfekt-og-det-ekte-livet\" rel=\"\" target=\"\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-bjn8wh\"><div class=\"hyperion-css-1k8sl4j\"><img alt=\"\" class=\"image-asset hyperion-css-h48z7z\" data-test-tag=\"image-asset\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" loading=\"lazy\" sizes=\"(min-width: 981px) 980px, 100vw\" src=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=e855760a32ded53df058eec3ad9557ba6544563e\" srcset=\"https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1536&w=2048&s=e855760a32ded53df058eec3ad9557ba6544563e 2048w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=1080&w=1440&s=b05582e5786bd1ae687124d0e5b9212ce093f486 1440w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=768&w=1024&s=33da76999995344c5166df60a2d04f18b0e2a54d 1024w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=735&w=980&s=5ffde18259e1f066d06ec26dbad1a83b9c8964bf 980w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=585&w=780&s=fb3bc9648552e166fb576e488bf34b5e13e44a96 780w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=435&w=580&s=4540cf30fccb1de8f2805ac39a070904ff0d4304 580w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=285&w=380&s=70d2590f3293fdca4e1f5a1bde2859381cf2bbe3 380w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=150&w=200&s=3793abd412be71c13d081d1c996396dfebd01adb 200w,https://premium.vgc.no/v2/images/58ba68e8-8cde-4293-a328-aebeddf78cac?fit=crop&format=auto&h=75&w=100&s=cbc3514ec29785b1227e54be3fa61b905a700bf0 100w\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2048 / 1536\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1hlrz9z\"><div class=\"teaser-label hyperion-css-52yh2p\">A-MAGASINET<div class=\"timestamp friendly hyperion-css-10eh1jy\" data-test-tag=\"timestamp\"><span class=\"hyperion-css-ea91rp\">Publisert:</span><div><time aria-label=\"2026-01-24T18:39:35Z\" datetime=\"2026-01-24T18:39:35Z\" itemprop=\"datePublished\" pubdate=\"pubdate\">24. januar</time></div></div></div><div class=\"foreldreliv hyperion-css-1ucd1we\"><h2 class=\"hyperion-css-1hyuqep\">Thomas Giertsen diktet opp en middelklassepreget oppvekst: – Jeg sa at jeg pleide å dra på campingferie med familien</h2></div></div></a></li></ol></div></div><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard-wrapper__article advertory-aftenposten-paywall-ad\"><div class=\"advertory-aftenposten-netboard__article\" id=\"paywall_ad_board\"></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1q3hux1\"><button aria-label=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" class=\"hyperion-css-1t4sy44\" title=\"Tilbake til forsiden\" type=\"button\">Tilbake til forsiden</button></div></div><div></div></div><div class=\"hyperion-css-1927kqg\" id=\"superright-side\"></div></div><footer class=\"hyperion-css-1ykq07t\" role=\"contentinfo\"><div class=\"container\"><div class=\"links\"><ul><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/tips\">Tips oss</a></li><li><a class=\"actionLink\" href=\"https://www.aftenposten.no/meninger/debatt/i/Ooyk/informasjon-om-debattinnlegg-og-kronikker-til-aftenposten\">Send inn debattinnlegg</a></li><li><a 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"summary" : "Psykolog Line Marie Warholm svarer leser. ",
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"title" : "Du kan ikke gi barna en barndom uten vonde minner",
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